I said no, because they had such an insecurity about who and what they really are they turned to scientific manipulation and medical mutilation in order to live a lie. I do not think this a healthy way to deal with insecurities or good for their own mental health... because on some level they will always know its a lie premised on a false hood.
The picture you provided make for good propaganda but you know as well as I do it does not mean they are all that emotionally or mentally adjusted... and most like 99.9% of then will not look like that. Going through a transition might be one way to treat the symptoms of their insecurity about gender, it will not resolve the underlying mental health issues, and it will create other problems for them through out their lives... that if not resolved through a healthy process will dominate their lives. And honestly once you transition you can't really get back to where you started or who you truly are.
I am all about live and let live and that they are people to and I am not about shaming anyone... but I will never respect it and I will always feel sorry for them... but at the some time I will not contribute to the falsehood or lie and play the part of an enabler.
At first, my answer was one of revulsion, but you know what? Let's play "The Devil's Advocate"!
Given the hypergamy caused by technology in the dating market, where so many young men are passed over and rejected as the 80% of women pursue the 20% of top tier men only, might hard up "InCel" young men of today "settle" for a tranny if she kept up "her" appearance so that she would always "pass" as a female? Here are a couple of YouTube essays by a deadpan nerdy fellow on the subject. I suspect he is being facetious as well in his deadpan nerdy voice, but hey, it's entertaining:
Will even some bisexual or lesbian women accept trannies as their "gal pals with benefits"?
https://www.youtube.com/embed/BGnevsPlSbc
I don't like a guy who has taken hormones to grow breasts but still has a cock that can get hard in front of little girls, or women, who don't want to experience that in women's restrooms, locker rooms, etc.
If they want to go in the guys than ok or they can use a single person neutral gender restroom which most places are putting in now.
I don't think they need my acceptance. But yeah, I'd definitely refer to them as "she" and "her" It's not like it's going to harm any of us to refer them as "her"
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u No, and I don't owe anyone an explanation.
If you are trans, that has nothing to do with me. You are a person. And I respect you for who you are. However, If I’m going after someone and they don’t let me know they use to be a “guy” before they are a girl or whatever. Then I believe that is wrong. Just because you believe you are female and you changed yourself for yourself, you should not be depriving me of my right to decide if I want to be with you as a trans person. That should be the first thing that comes up. If I’m cool with it. Good for you, if not.. we move on.. sorry tangent but yeah. As far as your decisions. It’s not me to decide or judge you for your choices. That’s you and only you
No, not as a dating option, and none of them fully pass. The first one is like 80% passing, Blaire White is like 85% female looking, and the third one maybe 90%, but I can still tell they're male. I don't mind being friends with a transwoman. I knew a trans bartender here. But you can't force straight men to be gay.
However, if they can fool my eyes, then yes, I can call them by female pronouns. Only the bottom two girls here look female enough for me to do that though; the first one still looks like a man, so I'm not calling that person a she/her.
Mental genders aren't real, only biological sex = gender.
A person of any gender can do whatever they want socially (participants willing).
As far as actually being women goes, if trans, they aren't (unless they started out as hermaphrodites and only removed their male organs).
The only reason I would call them women though, is because I honestly can't tell that they aren't just by looking, so much so in fact, that I genuinly think these are just photos of regular women, because I've seen real trans people, and it never ends up looking like the opposite gender, it always ends up looking like a drag queen, so I have to sit here and question the claim that that grade of transformation is even possible.
I've dated Trans women but they were all pre-op so they all still had dicks
Of course. Several of my best friends are trans girls who are on the hormone therapy treatments. I do not think that they should compete in women's sports if they waited until later in life to begin their transition though. People who wait until they are in their 30’s and older are not going to change their body very much.
Realistically, how am I going to know? Maybe it's just my more egalitarian attitude, but I don't go around asking people their gender, except under VERY strange circumstances. Unless I see evidence to the contrary, I'll probably accept you as whatever you claim to be.
No thank you. If I’m going to pass on Thai trannies, who are “prettier than women” sure as Hell ain’t messing with those he men. FYI, In Asia and too perfectly beautiful to be true likely is a male package 📦
Depends, if it acts like a girl, looks like a girl and sounds like a girl, I'm going to assume it's a girl.
Some of these seem like women, so I would assume so.
"Accept" is a strange word to use. When do they need my acceptance? Only when it has something to do with me. I wouldn't accept to date one for example. But why would they need my acceptance just to be? That seems weird.
How I outwardly refer to them has no bearing on how I inwardly feel about them. I personally think transwomen are exactly that, neither men nor women. I'm not sure what you're asking.
u I wouldn't for sports or in a relationship but anything else I wouldn't care about
I would accept them as they are. They are people and their gender choice has nothing to do with me and does not affect me.
Look do what makes you happy, but I personally don't wanna date a trans person ever
Accept them? In what way? If you mean date them, then no.
That's soo creepy, the thought that I could technically mistake a man for a woman. This kind of thing is one of the reasons why God will destroy the Earth. The sin, such horrible sin.😰
Yes, in a social scenario. In part because I wouldn't be able to tell them apart and because in a social scenario it really doesn't matter what sex a person have.
They are still blokes, kiddo.
Shit rolled in glitter, is still shit.
First is gorgeous. Second has a literal boob shelf. Third is about 50% cute 50% basic white girl, so probably does the best at passing.
Either way, your previous gender doesn't bother me all that much as long as it's in the past.
No, because they're pretending to be someone they're not. People say that we should "accept them as they are", but since they themselves don't accept the gender they were born as, why should we?
s I'll accept trans men and women regardless if they pass. It's not hard to do. It really isn't.
