I believe men already know.





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Don't F with me and grow some F-ing skin.
I believe men already know.
I haven't heard this is what women say, but people that dont wish they are their own gender are transexsual and most people aren't this way. Growing up I was more like a "boy" in terms of being active, agressive, fighting, liking practical things... there were boys that were shy, withdrawn, sensitive... and none od these characteristic make you different gender, its just that the whole society is bananas putting us in boxes, only thing that is gender like is our physique and consequences that come with it. Society is mostly men made so you have men to blame for any legal injustices you feel. This also tells me you dont know how it is to be a woman, we are target to men to harass us, rape, beat and killed. We have periods monthly and we gotta give birth if we wanna have kids. And women are still waaay more disrespected than men, we are just not taken seriously. I would also personally rather go to war than wait for my man and go nuts (cause im more action oriented person), Id also rather do work than home chores. Point is each gender has its issues and society is just making some dumb boxes.
I BELIEVE THAT THE WOMEN THAT SAY THAT PROBABLY SAY IT BECAUSE THEY KNOW THAT THEY HAVE THE ABILITY TO FORM BONDS THAT MEN WILL NEVER HAVE LIKE THOSE WITH THEIR CHILDREN. THAT'S NOT TO SAY THAT MEN DON'T HAVE STRONG BONDS WITH THEIR CHILDREN BUT THE BOND BETWEEN A MOTHER AND CHILD IS THE STRONGEST BOND ON EARTH.. SIMPLY BECAUSE WE WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO CARRY A CHILD FOR 9 MONTHS WITHIN OUR OWN BODIES WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO EXPERIENCE THE BOND THAT A MOTHER AND A CHILD HAVE NATURALLY...
yes you can, by being a child, with your own mother
In My Honest Opinion, The Reasons Are Contributed But Not Limited To :
1-Once you become a part of something you wanna identify with it, in this case its their sex,
2-They have a better sense of Hyginene, Interior Design and Catering, guys suck at this, their lockers look like a disease ridden biohazard ( This is something im actually jealous of women about, like how the fuck do they do it, they re pros at this kinda stuff and its so natural for them ).
3-Women have the upper hand when it comes to emotional support, maternity, and suport in general as there exists a common bias within our instincts to see men as intimidating and women as nurturing and vulnurable so therefore there is some kind of halo effect towards women, which is natural but not healthy all the time because men need support too and are often overlooked.
@brutus21
Most Women keep their rooms and locker rooms cleaner because its important to them to live in a clean environment. This is probably programed into most of them hormonal, because of how important it is to be clean in the place you and your babies stay. Men by contrast are more likely to be lazy because historically we were on the move most of the time.
it hardly mattered if we left our temporary camp a mess since we were leaving the next day.
@monorprise Seems to be a very good point made there.
There is one important thing i forgot to mention, the picture that was acutally removed, made some sense i dont know why they removed it, but it is true, some men out there are treated like that, not just some but many. Even other men laugh at this matter, tells you how men too are self deprecating because they gotta please society so they dont end up like those guys, and its not just them to blame, society conditions them to think in such a way too. So yeah, being a man sucks, and we have failed men, society has failed men ! No wonder !
They know who is really privileged in society. How many house husbands do you know? I read this 25 years ago, so the stats probably need to be adjusted for inflation, if a married woman makes $200,000 per years, there is a 96% chance her husband has a job. If a married man makes over $200,000, there’s a 13% chance his wife works. Women tell you all day long that they earn 73% of what men earn. It’s total income having no consideration for hours worked, seniority, etc. In spite of this, women own over half the wealth of this country.
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I think most women who embrace their femininity LOVE being a woman and they would never want to lost that feeling.
Well I've always known I was a woman. This is how God made me so it would be weird to wake up tomorrow as a man.. would feel unnatrual.
Either way female privlige in the western world is huge so...:). I don't know what its like to be a man but from what I see it doesn't seam super nice.
Yeah that sucks.. i've heard its very lonely?
Alright well I hope you find your woman!:)
Yes! I'm sure she is out there😊
Hahaha what?😅
No.. you just be there for her as she is for you.
No you aren't cursed. You need to change your minuset. :)
Oh okay. Well looks is the first thing people see but you should only change what you want. Im sure you'll meet a woman for you soon
Haha well you gotta put yourself out there
Some do yes. But if you never make a move it won't happen
Yes I see. Well you can always make more money if you make a plan for it:)
I see, well hope you make a lot!!
Yeah but its a start!:)
I do think sometimes that it might be nicer to be a woman. I think women's bodies are much better than a guy's and honestly it can be a pain for a guy having all that meat between our legs. Like awkward.
@Hithere4567 loll well im straight but I can somewhat understand what you mean
Your hair doesn't matter your money don't matter.
What MATTERS is that you think it matters.
And women can see that you are fucked up about your hair or some other perceived imperfection.
Trust me, I've dated girls who are like "do you still love me?" Over and over and over and over and over.
Every girl i dated thinks I'm player (meanwhile grew up a social outcast freak everyone hated)
It fucking SUCKS to date someone who is constantly afraid you're gonna leave them or you don't like them anymore or who knows what.
And according to the many women I know, most dudes are like that.
IT IS THE FACT THAT YOU ARE BEAT UP ABOUT YOUR "FLAWS" THAT MAKES YOU UNATTRACTIVE.
All confidence is, is not having a complex and a small man syndrome and whatever else.
Confidence is NOT being fucked up over bullshit that doesn't matter.
It makes you undateable. Girls might even like you but they know that ultimately, you're broken over things that don't matter.
AND SHE can't FIX YOU AND SHE KNOWS IT.
Women can get aroused without anyone noticing, unlike guys lol
Most men feel the same way, about both being men and how unfair female privilege is in the west.
@monorprise yeah I can understand that. But on the Bright side you have biological privliage
@spongebobssocks
That is true, it must suck being a woman, particularly if you don't see the offsetting benefit of enormous love and bond of motherhood. Then all the suffering dealing with this stuff is kind of just a waste.
@monorprise yup! Its even a thought sometimes like "what if I go through all this pain and I can't even have kids" but I can. 😅
Sadly feminism is ruining a lot now for both men and women so motherhood is not looked up to anymore.
@spongebobssocks
Men are happy when they can protect, provide, and support a woman and their family. When a woman lets a man do this with appreciation she too will be happy to protect and focus on her babies.
Feminism even in its best least man-hating form tries to make men into women and women into men and the result is both parties are bitter depressed and unhappy. Men feel useless and women work too hard and suffer too much.
@monorprise i agree with everything you said! I hope you keep telling people this!:) Society needs to be better
This whole question is silly. I am comfortable in my own skin and wouldn’t want to be anything other than me which includes my gender. Do you wish that you were a woman? If so that’s ok, but you should probably go to a therapist and see what options are available to you to live your best life
Women today are soo privileged by the state at the expense men that I suppose it makes sense simply to live their lives why some men might want a part of this super-citizen status.
That said women clearly have a bunch of physical drawbacks if your not planning on being a mother. Its hard to justify the weaker, slower bodies, monthly periods , etc...
I honestly can't understand why a woman would want to go thou all that and not at least have the offsetting benefit of the bond and love of motherhood.
I wish I had been born a man because then I wouldn’t have to live up to the impossibly high expectations that women have to live up to. Because if a woman doesn’t look like a stripper, she has no value. If she hasn’t pumped herself full of silicone, she’s worthless.
I don't understand the second one, the income statement. The relevant details, and context, are lacking. Are you presenting this here as evidence that men don't get paid enough for the work they do, or that women get more for the same work and it's not fair, or... what?
Anyway, I don't know about "most women", but yes, being male must REALLY suck! Here, let me get my tiny violin :D
Western women know that they are the most privileged community that has ever existed in modern times. And more over most women are solipsistic meaning they cannot identify with any other experience. You ask the same question to most Asian and African women in Asia or Africa and they'll tell you the opposite.
I’m glad I wasn’t born male because I love feminine things like getting dressed up and the sort of friendships I have. Women seem to be able to have more open relationships with their friends and I like doing girly things with them.
Also, men’s humour just isn’t for me. I don’t like the whole ‘lad culture’ thing so that’s why I’m glad I’m not a man!
Because it’s far easier being a woman in the modern era as opposed to being a woman in the past. Which explains why there are more trans women as opposed to trans men. Some Men think being a women is so much better then being a man to the point where instead of killing themselves they force society to treat them like women and “become” one themselves because life is easier as a woman. It takes real courage to be a man.
I bit
Do you know why?
Men are charged by God to be responsible to his wife to his children
That pressure to men these days because really since 1985 and on lames ass dad left the home
Mom work two jobs just to make it
Naturally Mom told little Jane about life and how to love her man
Little Johnny from 1985 and on grow up into men who no faults to their own they simply do nothing know low to love
To fix this ladies you either got to teach him how to be a man but you really don't either. You have a good ideal
Therefore we as church leaders we need to bring men into a class a d church, School and colleges to teach men how to love a woman or keep on divorcing and go the way we going
There more single mothers out there today
I pray some one somewhere will light a fire that will burn across this land and teach men who don't how to love theirs woman
Probably because many of them know, even if they won’t admit it that their life is actually easier than a man’s life. A lot of women think being a man is easy because we usually don’t complain about the shit we go through, so to many of them that means life isn’t hard for us. Especially nowadays. Men are expendable. Women have some sort of value when they’re born, men not so much.
It depends on the time period and location. Being born as a woman in medieval India was about the worst era in history to be a female. Parts of the Middle East are close (female genital mutilation, for example).
But, in the industrialized world now and for much of history around the globe? Yeah, being a man bites. You're completely disposable.
Lets see -
Nicer clothes, Nicer body
You can have close friends of the same sex without people thinking your gay
Ability to make babies
I'm glad i was born me. That's why.
If i was born in this body, this who i was meant to be.
No other reason besides that.
It has nothing to do with those pics. I just wouldn't want to be a man because y'all cannot create life. I enjoy being pregnant so would hate it if I were a man
But your life isn't only about the pregnancy, right?
@artgorgeous basically it is. Pregnancy and raising my kids. Everything else about my life sucks. If I just had to be a childless woman I'd be unhappy
Is it you talking now or is it your hormones while you being pregnant?
@artgorgeous I'm not pregnant atm. 4 months pp with my 4th baby
Oh wow, you have a big family then. Congratulations!
@artgorgeous thank you!
I've heard that Chinese 'scientists' invented artificial womb. But knowing how everything is done in China, i assume it just might be a scam. www.scmp.com/.../chinese-scientists-create-ai-nanny-look-after-babies-artificial
@artgorgeous interesting but still won't be as good as a women's womb. Natural is always the best way
lol thanks for proving my point. I knew you were one of those girls that needed to belittle men in order to feel valuable as a woman. The reality is, you don't need to push others down in order be valuable as a human being. As a woman, you are absolutely valuable in this world, as are men. There is no need to compete with men because we aren't the same. We both have our own set of strengths that complement each other.
@Apple1996 hon, this makes me wanna hug you 🥺
@Pegases men will never be as valuable as women. That's just how it is because we create life. You are obviously projecting here cause you are trying to belittle me for having that power.
And no there are many many men that envy mothers. It goes deeper then just being able to give life but also to be the ones that are provided and protected for.
What's wrong with the pain of birth? That's the fun part of having a baby
@Apple1996 tell your man he better makes you the happiest woman alive or I'll come around and do that job for him 😤
The word create falsifies that statement. Men don't give birth.
@Sharkstealth men also don't create/grow the baby. It's physically impossible for them to
The sperm and the egg are both required items in the creation of a child. If we put a bunch of females on an island they would all just die out. Same as males. If we put 4 males, 2 of which are male and 2 that got changed by doctors to females then they would also just die out.
@Sharkstealth sperm and egg are only the ingredients to make a child. That's not how it's created. A woman's body also chooses when and when not to ovulated. It controls if it accepts the sperm and if it can make the life grow
@Sharkstealth woman can literally take a embryo that isn't even their own and make it turn into a baby
I'll bet that there are many singles mothers wishing that they did control this and yes I know your statement wasn't so black and white. I see that this is a pointless discussion with you.
Males have so much expectations to me. Leadership, the bread winner, making the first move, and people say it's a man's world. Sometimes it's overwhelming, especially when females try to emasqulate men. I think both sexes have their good qualities.
Because I'm not transexual?
That I wouldn't want to be born as a man - doesn't mean my life has been a fairytale, where everyone has kissed my ass and carried me on a pink little cloud.
Half because they have no concept what it's like to be a man. So thier comments are of ignorance. The other half because they will never be a (biological) man. People tend project opposite of thier feelings. They'll tell you how wonderful it is to be a woman. A little too wonderful, if you know what I mean.😆😆😆
Getting raped easily and cat called?
Well raped of course that's bad. But this tells you how toxic some women are. Because a lot of them on some level actually do enjoy catcalls. Some women don't care what kind of attention they get from men, good or bad, so long as they're getting attention
Where did you hear this jazz? Where do you get your ideas from, a cookie jar? If that were true there would be way less FTM transgender's around.
There is a lot of things you've probably never encountered, but that doesn't mean they don't exist.
ask Norah Vincent. she committed suicide after becoming a man
Because overall life for women is easier. And i would like to emphasize "overall". And pictures from the author of this post decently represent why.
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