My girlfriend is starting to spend less and less time with me - should I be concerned?

[Anonymous]

We have been dating for a mounth and things are starting to slow down between us is this normal

[Atomizer]

Define "spend less time with me." How often did you see her at the beginning? How often do you see her now?

Define "slow down between us."

In general, it's normal to see each other a lot in the early stages of a relationship. And if you've been seeing her only a month, you're still in the very early stages of a relationship.

Have you asked her what's going on? Has she explained anything about why she's not seeing you as much as before?

[Asker]

By slow down I mean were not talking or seeing each other as much we were seeing each other about every other day until this last week I haven't seen her in 5 days and every time she says she's doing something like sleeping or work I don't know if I'm being perinoid that's why I asked this question

[Atomizer]

She might be putting you off.

I suggest you stop contacting her.

If she's interested in you, she will contact you eventually.

If she's losing interest, she won't contact you.

[Asker]

Thanks that helps it gives me an idea on how to play the situation

[cinnamonlips]

I agree with the previous poster, if you have been moving fast then she may be doing this so she can preserve both of your emotions. However I would really need more information to make an accurate judgement. I think that you should definitely talk to her about it before you make any assumptions, because it may be for another reason.

[rachelrox505]

if you guys had a crazily fast relationship, then yea, id say its normal. she just wants to hang with different people other than you all the time. but if not, then id say she is trying to avoid you and it might even mean she wants to end the relationship so watch out O_o