I was dating a law enforcement guy for 2 months, he is a single dad and was texting me everyday. We see each other once or twice a week due to his schedule and our 4th date I met his friends and coworkers and their wives.
He didn't make a move on me for 4dates and our fifth date we were physical although he was willing to wait. he's never texted me later than 10pm and we typically talk about each other's day with some flirting.
The sex is great, lately he has been sending me pics of his daughter and talking about his mom and family. I met his brother last week and we hung out at his house to watch a movie.
Now he is taking a long time to respond to texts and I asked him out and he's not responding. Is he wanting to slow things down or pulling away completely? Should I move on?
I really like him, he is a gentleman, attentive, makes me feel protected and is fun. He can be very reserved but has opened up to me slowly about his divorce 3 years ago and his fears on it affecting his daughter. He is an amazing father.
At times he has made comments about how "nice" my car is and "how big is your tv?" And has also been making some comments about me being "stunning". I haven't talked about my job... but he knows I make a good living and manage a team of six employees. I'm hoping that this makes him feel good about being with me but I'm not so sure... at times he seems insecure.
My last text I sent was when I asked him out and said "I like you, so I'm leaving the ball in your court" this was 3 days ago. But I've sensed him pulling back the last week and a half. I'm in the dark here... so any male feedback would be helpful.
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He may be intimidated by you... let him sort through things.
Having a daughter he is likely discussing things with her and making sure things are okay. He may just be working through some of these things in his life to calm things down too!
On top of that... there could be job issues, etc. that go on behind the scenes that you are not aware of.
You may just have to give him a chance to sort things out... if he is being pressured in these other ways... giving him some time to sort them out without pressuring him will work in your favour.0