I've had a massive thing for younger guys as I've gotten older. they are all I ever attract. it can be frustrating tho', because I feel I have to initiate a lot of things. perhaps I intimidate them? guys how do you feel about dating older women? like 8-15 years older than you? are you intimidated? is it hard for you to ask her out? is it hard to make moves to take it to a sexual level? how about expressing your feelings? I want to know...
also - what do you like about dating older women? what do you find attractive & hot?
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From my stand point, as a guy in his upper 20's, I don't have a problem dating older men, and I think by the time I complete my term in college, I'm going to prefer it.
I've been dating a lot of girls who are ages 21-24 over the past year and half since I transfered here, and it's fun, but it also comes with a price tag. That being, someone who you can't have a decent conversation with. They try, and some of them are even good at keeping up, but the problem is they never own anything they say.
Their actions don't ever align with what they say, it's very troubling from the stand point that these are girls that are juniors and seniors in college, and they have yet to learn this valuable lesson in not only dating, but in being social as well. Sometimes I wonder if college is actually preparing young people for anything more than failure, simply because we all know that academics does not prepare people for everything.
I've dated women much older than me, and I like it because they can handle a conversation and their words line up with their actions, but the problem I've found is that they are usually bitter, even though they do not always show it.
Some man whom they married left them scared, or they won't let go of their pain, you name it, many older women allow the past to dictate their present. This is the commonality between many women, and many men.
And that is lesson that is hard to teach anyone.0