I had a lovely first date that ended with a kiss by the railroad and deep lingering looks. I tell the guy that I had a nice time and he says, "Yes. Let's keep in touch and do it again sometime."
To me, "keep in touch" is sort of a kiss-off, though. What do you think, guys and gals?
- He's possibly interested and might call again. Have a little faith.Vote A
- He is not interested and is not going to call you again. Move on.Vote B
Yes...the real question is why I'm willing to nudge this fellow along when there are five other people calling and texting me all week long just b/c.
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Down there I read that you don't initiate texts and are very conservative and shy. That's a bad thing. Being a bit shy and hard-to-get (not that you should play mind games) is good, but being too shy really makes the guy wonder if you're really into him, and at least for me, if I was having doubts that she was into me, I would wait for some sort of sign from her before making another move, even if it was simply that she texted me to say "hi", indicating that she's still interested in having conversations with me and probably in me myself, too. Just shoot him up with a text - it's really not a big deal.
Yes, he's probably into you. Even you yourself said that you had a "lovely first date". He most likely wouldn't have said "let's do it again sometime" if he wasn't into you.1
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