Ex girlfriend texts me she misses me 2 days after breaking up for space. What do I do?

2 days ago my ex broke up with me via text message. We had a huge fight and went our separate ways. She broke up for "space" and find out who she really is. This morning, she tries to add me on fb and texts me "yeah, I'm not gonna lie, I miss you"

I want her back but don't want to rush things and look desperate. What do I do?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Okay, so I get what you mean but a lot of times, you only notice that you messed up once you've messed up. She'd noticing that she was only upset or flustered. What you need to do if you would like to keep her is tell her what you want to do. If you don't want to rush things then tell her that. I'm pretty sure she'll understand. If you don't want to tell her then just do it yourself. Don't totally blow her off but strictly do things that she likes to do when you hang out with her. Make her fall for you all over again by becoming someone slightly different than what she was trying to get away from. Make subtle changes for her. I don't me go and change your personality but widen your horizon and try some new things for her. That's what relationships are all about, commitment just to make your special someone happy :) Good luck I really hope I helped!

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What Girls Said 12

  • you said you want her back, so take her back. tell her you miss her too. but make sure you talk about your feelings as corny as that sounds. like you both need to get everything out in the open and say what you feel. if she misses you after only 2 days, then I'm guessing she really cares about you. and wants you back too. so just do it.

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  • You do nothing . It's a part of growing apart

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  • let her know you miss her too but now you just need some space because you were really hurt by the break up... it sounds like she was just really upset and made an impulsive decision that she now regrets... but yeah give it a day or two so your not rushing right back to her ...then she will take you for granted.

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  • Yu should ask her what kind of space did she want because it sounds like she wanted to test the waters on another man instead of doing it while yu guys were together. But I wouldn't take her back so fast. She will have it in her mind tht she can do it again and again if yu take her back so quick.

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  • If you still want to be with her, if you don't want anything to do with her, or you don't want to talk to her for any reason, delete her number,

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  • give it a few days, then say "hope you're doing well" wait to see what she responds. then have a frank discussion about your relationship

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  • Maybe just tell her that you also missed her, and perhaps you guys should talk. There had to be something going on for the break up to occur, so perhaps before going back completely things need to be cleared and worked out.

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  • Just start over. Don't start again at where you left off. Say that you wanna restart your relationship from scratch and forget about the drama before. It'll be nice, a fresh start :D she may be the sensitive, drama type of girl probably. But she's thinking about you a lot and its bothering her so she regrets breaking up with you.

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  • may be she does not want to break up with you. It was just an accident. May be she was not in her control and texted you because of her anger. So if you really love her giver her a chance.

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  • She sounds immature. Date somebody else.

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  • Maybe she didn't really want to break up but just wanted some air. Now that she's had her air, she wants to continue the relationship. I don't think you'd be desperate if you got back together. People do this all the time.

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  • you should just keep talking to her slowly but don't give in all the way too fast

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What Guys Said 1

  • Exactly; if you try to rush things, she will no bout push you further away.

    So play it cool, tell her you miss her too, maybe set a date in a few days to meet and chat Talk over why you broke up, and whether it's a good idea to get back together.

    Often it's better to stay friends and avoid pressured decisions, and enjoy your freedom, for some extended time.

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