If a guy doesn't approach me first then should I just forget it?

[rachiee]

So if I'm out in public and a guy looks at me, and then glances over at me multiple times then should I just walk up and give him my number or is he not that interested since he hasn't approached me? I'm tired of good looking guys who I'd go for staring at me but not coming up to talk to me. Or is there a reason they're not coming up to me?

[minimiminimi]

no, grl don't walk up to him and give him yo no. if see him one time, it ain't worth i, but if you see him often then let him get the no. if you give him your no. it makes you luk desperate. if he won't come up to you then he might not be worth it. he might be talkin about u? hang in there, if he's right itll all work out accordinly.

[Anonymous]

Personally I would. Guys have reasons for not approaching girls. They almost always approach you if they really want to. Maybe he had a girlfriend or something. If a guy doesn't approach then he's not that interested.

[faberfan]

Yeah well if she doesn't give welcoming signs to the guy then he won't approach either. It's a two way street.

[Opinion Owner]

If she does that and he still doesn't approach then I don't think she should.

[The_Love_Guru]

if he doesn't go it doesn't mean he doesn't like you he's probably shy like me!..maybe they are not coming on to you because they might thnk that you already have a boyfriend, that's what goes through my mind..so yea tlk a bit then do what you want, unless he does the first move then you don't have to worry

[WeaponZero]

if you will only wait for guys to approach you then youve got a lot to learn. this isn't the 1950s. you should approach them too.

[l-hedoniste]

They're afraid of crashing and burning. It might be you (ask an honest male friend), but if you just talk to them and act friendly, they'll loosen up and get the hint.

[Cromwell]

Don't forget it! He's most probably shy, like me. For some reason guys are given the task of going up to girls nd starting a convo, believe me it's not as easy as you think, especially if your really into the girl. My advice would be to talk to him, or put yourself in a situation where both of you could have a chat. He should be able to open up then.

[St-Dank-Tanks-LG]

Approach them, if you catch them staring more than a couple times than chances are he is into you, but for some reason doesn't apparoach you.

[anonclguy]

Go approach them! Guys love getting approached, and the guys you would have to approach are probably the guys that would be better for you anyway.

[Sticks11]

Just saying "hi" or giving a smile gives the guy the idea that it is o.k. to approach you. After that the guy should take the hint and talk to you if he is interested.

[Anonymous]

Wow awesome question! My thoughts exactly!