There are many ways to be an attention seeker. There are probably many more but here's a few listed below.
-The girl on facebook, showing her ass or cleavage...or worse
- The girl on tumblr, complaing about how someone looked at her the wrong way so she must be ugly!
- The guy who says "Oh I must be ugly since I can't get a hook up"
- The guy who just HAS to enter his problems upon other peoples problems.
Example: Person A- "My mom just died last night."
Attention seeker= "I know what you're going through, my dog and my grandmother died a few years ago, still can't get over it." (this was a real thing that happened to me too, my family friend said it to my mom)
There is nothing more annoying to me than an attention seeker. Some people do drugs for it, some post provactive pictures, some just send a shit ton of nudes! There are also the ones who bury their feelings in sex.
Then there's the people who complain, whine and stomp, throwing a hissy fit until they get called Beautiful or Talented, or people take pity on them.
There are some good out comes like someone makes a friend, which always good as long as they're real! Or that someone got the help they needed, wheather it be from a friend or a therapist or anti depressants.
Then there's the bad attention, your father calling you a whore, your nudes getting leaked, rumors going around that you have an STD from fucking one too many people.
I have seen way more female attention seekers than males but the males are slowly catching up. Lately, its been my male friends complaining about their friends dogs death years ago or that they think since i dont want to fuck them, they must be ugly. Well its obviously the reason why I dont wanna fuck them. If you can't tell, that was laced with sarcasm.
I mean, just cause someone finds someone else attractive, doesn't mean theyre gonna wanna fuck them. My friend thinks he's ugly, when he is adorable, just cause I dont want to date him.
My female friends and female strangers have been so much more confident and down to earth and plain out badass than the guys I am encountering.
Sure it is the guys and girls both, probably equally but people need to stop attention seeking if it is for a bull shit reason.
If you think you're ugly, change what you dont like so YOU feel better about yourself. If you think you're depressed but do nothing but complain to your friends, please, PLEASE, visit a therapist. If you're telling all your friends how suicidal you are, you need to stop and call a suicide hotline.
Attention seeking people just need to stop with what they're doing, grow a pair and be confident. It is easier said than done but it is possible.