I love my girlfriend to death, how can I make her more comfortable with our relationship?

So, my girlfriend seems to be convinced that I'm playing her. That I talk to a bunch of girls, and she's just one of many, which is not the case by any means. We've been through quite a few arguments, always about her paranoia that there are other girls in my life. I know she loves me, because she tells me that. But she has a hard time trusting me... I've tried so many things! Getting rid of all social media, letting her see all contacts in my phone, I don't know what else I can do... Please. Someone who can give me some REAL advice instead of the obvious... Thanks y'all

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So, I sent her a pic last night. A pic I only took for her. All it was was a shirtless pic. I sent it to her at about 1 am... She likes that kind of thing, because she knows I'm thinking about her. Anyways. While I was sleeping, at 5:49 am my phone decided to send her the same pic all over again. She took that as me trying to send it to another girl, but I sent it to her by mistake. She gets extremely upset and tells me to lose her number, and talk to whoever the pic was supposed to go to.

CiaraX

Xper 5 Age: 26

I do the same thing to my boyfriend, but only because he gives me reasons to not trust him. I suggest you don't do anything you think she would be upset about. Girls tend to read way too into things. If you're really not doing anything wrong, just keep trying to show her and maybe just have a heart to heart talk. She's obviously insecure and it's really hard to love a girl like that but if you really love her just keep trying. If things don't change over time and it gets unbearable, move on. Also maybe there's something in her past that makes her have trust issues, dig deeper and see what's really going on. I would also look into more with blogs, advice columns, etc. if it's really an issue. Good luck!

Wrestlr00

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I've never given her a reason. But her reasoning is that I have a lot of friends who are females. I like having these girl friends cuz they give great advice about women!! Also, because I like to stay in shape, so I do spend a couple hours in the gym everyday... That's her "reasoning" on why I'm such a player... She has been hurt in the past, her last boyfriend before me, really messed her up pretty bad. And I keep reassuring her that Im not her ex, and I love her deeply. Its been like this since the start about 5 months ago, I love her more and more every day, and I'm not giving up on her, I can see us getting married one day... Just gotta get through this one obstacle.

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CiaraX

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Do any of your female friends come off as maybe more than just friends? Every girl gets jealous whether it's something stupid or a legitimate reason. I give you props for not giving up because that can be really frustrating. You need to support her and show her what it's like to be loved the right way. It could take awhile but it's worth it. And maybe you should consider cutting your female friends off. I know, it might sound kinda crazy but from a girl perspective, that might be what she's looking for. If you have sisters, cousins, etc. you could go to them for advice or even use this site like you are right now. Also, have you tried asking her what you can do to prove yourself? I would ask her or try cutting off the female friends and see if that helps things.

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Wrestlr00

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Well, I did cut out all my female friends. I got rid of fb and another social networking profile. Let her go through my phone and everything. But she's still not satisfied... She doesn't lime that im in the gym a lot either

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CiaraX

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Just try talking to her and tell her you've been trying really hard to prove yourself and ask what she wants you to do. Tell her whatever she wants you to do, you will do it. Maybe that will make her realize you really are trying your hardest and that you care about her.

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