I also don't get this. I mean you are confident, you are also good and yet they act innocent.
I can't see how they can't tell you like them. I mean we text them, compliment them genuinely, and are nervous round them. Do girls not wonder why is this guy giving me his attention lol? Do they honestly think he doesn't like them?
Yet with another friend who is less sweet, they act less innocent round and let them get away with more?
I wrote a question on it actually. Care to help? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2182612-how-d-a-woman-act-around-these-guys-do-they-allow-some-men-to-get
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If you made no flirtatious moves at all on this girl after TWO outings together... you deserve to be friendzoned.
1. You are not in a relationship with this girl. Repeat that to yourself as many times as necessary. You are currently a friend because you have not asked to be anything else.
2. When you ask her on a date, and explicitly use the word DATE, and she agrees then you are now dating.
3. Stop using the term friendzone. It's for idiots who never bother to tell the person they are interested in that they want to date them OR for idiots who can't accept the reality that not all people they like will be interested in dating them.
Is it bad if a girl feels comfortable around you? Is that a sign that you have been friend zoned?
If a girl feels comfortable around you, it could be a sign that she sees you as a friend. But it could also mean that she's attracted to you and is trying to gauge your interest. If you're interested in her, make sure you let her know. Otherwise, you could end up in the friend zone.
To give a direct answer, I would need to know more about how she's acting. Does she show interest in other men? Another one is if she sits really close to you, like toching you. I only do this with people I like, not with my guy friends. It can be awkward if you don't feel romantically attracted to them! But keep asking her out and see where it leads you! You never know,!
I "friendzone" potential friends with benefits before I get physical because I don't like the idea is sleeping with strangers...
It's not always a bad thing, some people prefer being friends first.
On a sarcastic note, your question at first sounded as if you want her to be uncomfortable around you, which is plain creepy! LOL
Friend zone can be misleading. Not everyone starts out as dating right away, some people want to get to know each other first. Sometimes though, friends is because she does not want a relationship at all. Take it slow and see where she goes
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Maybe for whatever reason you didn’t make a move on the first outing (nerves, timing, etc). Alright I get you. You were trying to get to know her the way women “say” they want to meet a guy. But nothing on the second “date”? Now she’s getting too comfortable with you as “just a friend”. Unless she’s very religious than you just put yourself in the friéndzone although you meant well (and meant the opposite). But most women will take this opportunity up in a second because it’s a huge one way benefit for them.
Take my advice. If you think you are friendzoned than you are. The only way to get your power back is to take away what she desires from you: attention.
So I would withdraw from her. Don’t text her. Don’t call. Initiate zero contact. If she messages you first just act and say your busy. If she texts you again then I would be straight up with her and say “Hey so so. I really did enjoy hanging out with you but i got to be honest I am not looking to the friéndzone. But hey I wish you the best.” The ball is in her court now. She knows where you stand and she sees that you have the self-respect not to go along with her bs.It's not early in the "relationship" since you've known her for a long time. I think you're friendzoned, unless she's physical with you. Could she be one of those magical 1 in 100 shy snowflakes who's actually in love with you while she treats you like you've been friendzoned? Sure, but odds are she isn't and if she is she should make it more clear because with you now knowing what the odds are you're going to be smart and start looking at other girls.
It could be that she doesn't have many people to talk to and so she trusts you more but not like a relationship kinda way but she could also like you it really depends on certain things and there's not all that much to make an assumption from so I can't really tell for certain
So I'm in a similar situation. I'm hoping this helps. This girl came from the Philippines just a year ago and is extremely conservative in nature. She tells me she wants a boyfriend but no guy will ask her out. The thing is so many of us have asked her out but it was never declared a date and so she hasn't realized so many guys like her. I told her this and she thinks they're making fun of her by taking it slow. It's rare but it does happen.
Not really. Especially if she's reserved... Sometimes they do relationships differently.. sort of friends to start with to get to know each other, and then see where things go from there. Depends on the girl, obviously.
Anyway, Nigerian guys are usually the ones with bars, so just talk to her and stop being Mr friendly, and be more flirty.That's a good thing. I think she likes you, but it could be just a friend thing. However it all depends on how you act with her. If you are a pushover who doesn't call her out/punish her on her bad behaviour, you will be friendzoned. If you let her talk about other guys she likes, you are ating as a friend.
I had few female friend are getting too comfortable with me, they can just go naked in front of me. So in the situation you are in, you probably the "Best Friend Forever" or "The Bro" and is still possible to get into relationship if you talk to her more seriously about it.
It's a great sign if she's comfortable enough to trust in your confidentially. The best relationships are those that have a foundation of friendship first
I'd rather start out as friends then the friendship develop into a relationship.Of course it's possible. Friendship is all but an involuntary reflex sometimes.
Now (ish) would either be the time to ask her on a real date (being very clear that's what you want to happen) or accept you made a new friend.Everyone's different, but I know that when I start to be more comfortable with someone, enough to tell them secrets like that, it means that I really like them.
Being friends with a girl doesn't mean it can't be anything more. In fact, the best relationships you can have with the opposite sex is if they are your best friend too.
I don't think you should jump to conclusions just yet. She may be trying to flirt with you. Ask her as an off question, then move in like nothing happened if she says no.
This depends on the girl... I think being comfortable is a good sign of either romantic love OR a good friendship it could be either or
you might not b friendzoned. she might just b getting to kno u.
she trusts u, which is a good thing!Its really good that this girl you like, feels comfortable with you. For me, talk to her about your feelings and let her think if she really needs a friend or a boyfriend ☺
there is no way of knowing because everyone is different.
you have to ask her out and if she says no then you move onPersonally I'm never fully comfortable with a guy I like in the beginning cuz butterflies and all so I don't know but maybe she really is into you
Yeah it's bad when a girl starts feeling comfortable around you. That's when they start doing gross stuff. Like shitting with the bathroom door open and farting out loud. Never let a girl get too comfortable around you.
This is bloody hilarious. No , seriously, you look for signs and then as soon as you see something you expect it SOMEHOW means you're friendzoned. Good luck on your endeavors.
um no it's not bad. it doesn't necessarily mean friend zone.
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