Here some good advice for guys that find themselves friendzoned. Friendship with females is an aberration and must be shunned by masculine men of today who are cognizant of the realities of modern sex relationship. And as an alternative, I propose a basic system where you limit your interactions with a given woman to a single category without muddling the lines between them. The categories are:
1. Women who you are already in an intimate relationship with.
2. Women who you want to pursue a romantic or sexual relationship with.
3. Women who you must communicate with out of necessity, whether it be co-workers or the cashier at a grocery store.
4. Optional: Dependable and trustworthy women who are able to provide equal or greater value than what you offer her, or has a special value you can’t get from anyone else. A woman of this caliber is rare, and even if you find one, you must tread carefully. I got scalped by at least two women whom I thought deserved to be in this category only to have them talk shit behind my back and throw me under the bus later on. Right now, I only have couple of women in this category. And even then, the've proven themselves countless times as true blue loyal friends.
5. Do not remain friends with an ex who seeks friendship to maintain all the benefits she had with you while you were together minus the sex while she dates various guys. Be friendly but move on she's not your problem.
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