I plan basically all of our 'dates' (be it which restaurant as well as when we'll visit it, looking for cool things to do downtown like the sex convention at the end of January, the german Christmas market, or the beer festival, which we'll be going to for the fourth time this June). We're not big on going out on 'dates' on the regular, though. It's much easier for both of our schedules to just cook something or grab some food from a nearby restaurant and eat in while cuddling+watching a movie.
What's the most romantic thing I've done for him, though? Probably when he was really sick and his parents had left him alone for the weekend. I'd seen him the day before but knew he's really bad in terms of self-care (like taking any sort of medications to relieve symptoms, or even just 'remembering' to eat) so I dropped by again the next day with a couple of medical remedies to relieve him of most of the symptoms his illness was causing him, as well as to cook him some Greek-style dinner.
the most romantic thing my girlfriends ever done would either be when she made me a scrapbook of our first year together or when she filled a Masson jar full of 100 things she loved about me.
as for the most romantic date, that would have to be showing up unannounced with a hand full of movies to watch :)
and I love when we take it upon ourselves to plan romantic surprises for one another!
When we were dating (25 years ago), my wife baked and mailed me cookies. The postage was $4.70, which far exceeded the value of the cookies. It was one of the most illogical things she could have done, but it had a huge positive impact regardless.
for my birthday last year she planned a dinner at my favorite restaurant and surprised me by inviting my closest friends
one night she planned a date night by buying my favorite bottle of scotch and getting a steak from my favorite steak house. candle light in the living room we ate a awesome meal and then watched a movie
My girlfrience once bought us train tickets and got us a hotel room in Chicago. I never been there and up to that point Ben wanting to go to Shedds Aquarium. Another time she surprised me by taking me to the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame museum. She knows how much I enjoy different types of music and learning about it, the musical acts etc. Those are the more expensive obese but she has done others that did not cost a lot over all.
Honestly nothing stands out. In all my relationships I've been the romantic one. I guess that's fine for me because I'm a very romantic person but just once it'd be nice not to be the knight.
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i like this girl and one day i was with my and was expecting this girl to pass by the place we are standing. . then, suddenly she came there and then stopped , turned and looked at me for couple of seconds. we didn't said anything , i look at her and she looked at me.. now we looked at each other for more than 10 15 seconds . we didn't talked , no words exchanged , not even a smile was transpired. a drop of silence between us.. then, she went her way and i stood there..
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the most romantic thing a woman could do for me is not say a word for a whole 2 hours while i watch basketball plus an blowjob until the game was over is required.. i don't want to hear anyyyything out of her mouth.. besides sucking noises...
@MysteriousDarkness The notion that one day you will find The Perfect One and live happily ever after – is responsible for more mischief and misery than any other myth of modern life.
All grownups ought to know this. But they don’t. Our culture tells them to follow their hearts first, and not their heads. The trouble is, following their hearts makes people behave like idiots.
Generally, the concept of romance leads to females having unrealistic and sexist expectations of men and leads to men being forced (or else shamed) into gynocentric acts of financial and physical acts. For the generally false promise of sex which women hold as a reward for behavior they deem worthy of a prize.
@MysteriousDarkness Generally speaking... the majority of women yes. Society raises females to be this way. To expect shit from men as if we were disposable attention, money, and gift machines. This is why valentines day is a borage of male shaming ads telling men to spend spend spend or end up in the dog house or couch being punished for not adhering to the gynocentric sexism.
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