is it weird for a 20 year old to be interested in a 16 year old? I would think of just him trying to get ass, but I've been talking to him for almost a year and never even truly met him yet.. (the circumstances are complicated) but if anyone reads this, inform me on it also please.
It's written in our genes. Men are attracted to younger women because genetically speaking, we want a mate that is fertile and therefore able to carry on our genetic material better. Men wanna have babies. I can't wait till the day when I can hear the little pitter patter of little me's running around my house. :)
So when they're youg the look OK together, then they get older and they're seen as being into youg women, then they get hugh heffner old and are seen as creepy.
Most everyone likes 20 year olds. that's just how it is. Personally, ill be sad when I'm too old to date 20 year olds. Unfortunately, I doubt ill be interested in relationships, till I'm too old for 20 year olds- oh well ;)
Actually already am too old. I'm 20, and I've always preferred to be with guys at least 5 years older than me, as many of you guys can be really inconveniently rediculous. Age seems to improve this slightly .
I am in that 30 age group and I find younger women more attractive. However the difference is at 20-21 the girls will want to hit the town and bars while at 30 I have been through that and it is not as fun as it use to be. So there would be a conflict in personalities. But younger women are a ton hotter in my eyes just not as compatible.
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Girls in their early 20's and even in their 18's love guys like:
Jared Leto (40 yo), Eminem (almost 40 yo), Keanu Reeves (47 yo), Ryan Gosling (31 yo), Ryan Reynolds (34 yo), James Franco (33 yo), John Mayer (33 yo) Justin Timberlake (30 yo), Tom Cruise (50 yo), Ashton Kutcher (33 yo), Johnny Depp (48 yo), Leonardo DiCaprio (36 yo), David Beckham (36 yo), and so on, and so on.
Would it be weird if these guys were dating a 20 yo girl? Well, of course not! What girl wants to date an immature 20 yo boy, anyway? Men age better, don't forget. Especially the hot ones.
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I guess it depends on the people : many men and women are trick , whether they are 20 or 30. The thirty-year women's biggest flaw is most of them already have children or plan to get some.
As for me, I'm nearly 20 and I would rather date thirty- year men because I don't want to attend beer contest or see guys being delirious as soon as they see someone eat a banana. That's as simple as ABC !
@see guys being delirious as soon as they see someone eat a banana. lol
haha you nailed it;) That's how the guys where I go to school, behave. Its come to where I do not eat bananas , anything I have to eat with a spoon, or suck with a straw or suck on in any way, in public ;)
I know for sure it's not my case. I can't vouch for other men but indeed, guys wanting to get laid easily turn to less experienced girls who don't know their tricks as well as women their age know them.
I don't hink guys start doing that when they're "older", it's just a way of bagging an easier prey. I've known 16 year old guys doing that to 12 or 13 year old girls. :-S
it really depends on the guy there are some that do prefer younger women because it makes them feel younger in addition in the relationship. it doesn't mean they would love the girl any less because she was younger.
ever put an older cat that may seem littless when by himself put that same male cat wth a younger female cat and watch how friske and playful he gets.
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Yes, men prefer younger prettier women. No one likes to admit, but it's simply the truth. If you ask a guy, he'll say it is not the case, but don't listen to what he says, watch what he does. Actions speak louder than words & men always want younger prettier women.
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Older men probably like younger women because of the fact that the younger women can have kids for a longer time than an older women. Like I have seen on girls ask guys that a 40+ year old single guy never married wants only women in their 20s so that they can have his kids for him...
Well, girls tend to peak in attractiveness around 20, and men tend to be more visual-oriented, and as a man gets older, obviously the difference between his age and that of women at their peak beauty increases, so, yeah, what you said.
But there is more to a relationship than looks, so a lot of older men are much happier with someone their age. Doesn't mean they won't be tempted by the babysitter, but what can you do.
older me like younger women cause they're inexperienced and a good bang. just buy them a gift and they're happy. my friend who is 28 married a 50 year old and got divorced after 6 months and had a baby with him.
I most def. get hit on by older men a lot more than younger/guys my age... Weird, guess it's because I have the whole "exotic" or "foreign" look thing going on. lol
Not all older guys like younger women. There are some who are attracted by younger women. But not everyone likes younger women. Older people tend to like people who they are comfortable with or who can listen to them. They may also fall for women their age. Who can predict men?
I think its all just because a habit in our world. I am not confidence enough to date a guy younger than me. So I am searching for an older one (not that older). Basically I am just scared about what people would say when I am dating a younger guy. I think some guys maybe just scared to date older women. Maybe
It depends on the man. If a guy is getting older, having a younger girlfriend might make him feel younger. Guys tend to like girls around their own age in general, though.
Yes...might make him feel younger, but then one night he goes out with her friends /and maybe he brings a friend of his own/ and BAM he feels like the oldest dude on the planet...
Ad least that's how her friends are going to look at him (and his buddy). :/
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is it weird for a 20 year old to be interested in a 16 year old? I would think of just him trying to get ass, but I've been talking to him for almost a year and never even truly met him yet.. (the circumstances are complicated) but if anyone reads this, inform me on it also please.
That's not a huge age difference. Quite possibly not just after 'ass'. lol
It's written in our genes. Men are attracted to younger women because genetically speaking, we want a mate that is fertile and therefore able to carry on our genetic material better. Men wanna have babies. I can't wait till the day when I can hear the little pitter patter of little me's running around my house. :)
I personally like older women though. ;)
Ok it's not like that.
Men prefer women in their 20's period!
So when they're youg the look OK together, then they get older and they're seen as being into youg women, then they get hugh heffner old and are seen as creepy.
But all along they were into the same thing.
lol this^
Most everyone likes 20 year olds. that's just how it is. Personally, ill be sad when I'm too old to date 20 year olds. Unfortunately, I doubt ill be interested in relationships, till I'm too old for 20 year olds- oh well ;)
Actually already am too old. I'm 20, and I've always preferred to be with guys at least 5 years older than me, as many of you guys can be really inconveniently rediculous. Age seems to improve this slightly .
I am in that 30 age group and I find younger women more attractive. However the difference is at 20-21 the girls will want to hit the town and bars while at 30 I have been through that and it is not as fun as it use to be. So there would be a conflict in personalities. But younger women are a ton hotter in my eyes just not as compatible.
Girls in their early 20's and even in their 18's love guys like:
Jared Leto (40 yo), Eminem (almost 40 yo), Keanu Reeves (47 yo), Ryan Gosling (31 yo), Ryan Reynolds (34 yo), James Franco (33 yo), John Mayer (33 yo) Justin Timberlake (30 yo), Tom Cruise (50 yo), Ashton Kutcher (33 yo), Johnny Depp (48 yo), Leonardo DiCaprio (36 yo), David Beckham (36 yo), and so on, and so on.
Would it be weird if these guys were dating a 20 yo girl? Well, of course not! What girl wants to date an immature 20 yo boy, anyway? Men age better, don't forget. Especially the hot ones.
I guess it depends on the people : many men and women are trick , whether they are 20 or 30. The thirty-year women's biggest flaw is most of them already have children or plan to get some.
As for me, I'm nearly 20 and I would rather date thirty- year men because I don't want to attend beer contest or see guys being delirious as soon as they see someone eat a banana. That's as simple as ABC !
@see guys being delirious as soon as they see someone eat a banana. lol
haha you nailed it;) That's how the guys where I go to school, behave. Its come to where I do not eat bananas , anything I have to eat with a spoon, or suck with a straw or suck on in any way, in public ;)
I know for sure it's not my case. I can't vouch for other men but indeed, guys wanting to get laid easily turn to less experienced girls who don't know their tricks as well as women their age know them.
I don't hink guys start doing that when they're "older", it's just a way of bagging an easier prey. I've known 16 year old guys doing that to 12 or 13 year old girls. :-S
it really depends on the guy there are some that do prefer younger women because it makes them feel younger in addition in the relationship. it doesn't mean they would love the girl any less because she was younger.
ever put an older cat that may seem littless when by himself put that same male cat wth a younger female cat and watch how friske and playful he gets.
Yes, men prefer younger prettier women. No one likes to admit, but it's simply the truth. If you ask a guy, he'll say it is not the case, but don't listen to what he says, watch what he does. Actions speak louder than words & men always want younger prettier women.
Older men probably like younger women because of the fact that the younger women can have kids for a longer time than an older women. Like I have seen on girls ask guys that a 40+ year old single guy never married wants only women in their 20s so that they can have his kids for him...
yes if you meet a women in her late 20s or early thirties its getting to late to really commit to her
Well, girls tend to peak in attractiveness around 20, and men tend to be more visual-oriented, and as a man gets older, obviously the difference between his age and that of women at their peak beauty increases, so, yeah, what you said.
But there is more to a relationship than looks, so a lot of older men are much happier with someone their age. Doesn't mean they won't be tempted by the babysitter, but what can you do.
Unbelievable - we 'peak in attractiveness at age 20'? Just speechless!
Well OK, 15 - but I didn't want to sound like a weirdo...
I'm very put off by any man in his thirties or forties that approaches me. I immediately think he's looking for easy p****, and label him as a loser.
I think all men like young women. But only nasty old dudes actually try to get with girls in their early twenties.
Assuming that a woman is at her peak of sexual attractiveness between the ages of 18 and 35, why would this phenomenon be a mystery to anyone?
this is kind of true
older me like younger women cause they're inexperienced and a good bang. just buy them a gift and they're happy. my friend who is 28 married a 50 year old and got divorced after 6 months and had a baby with him.
I most def. get hit on by older men a lot more than younger/guys my age... Weird, guess it's because I have the whole "exotic" or "foreign" look thing going on. lol
Attracts the old geezers. :/...
mid to late 30's early 40's is not a geezer ! we are in our sexual prime IMO
Not all older guys like younger women. There are some who are attracted by younger women. But not everyone likes younger women. Older people tend to like people who they are comfortable with or who can listen to them. They may also fall for women their age. Who can predict men?
I think its all just because a habit in our world. I am not confidence enough to date a guy younger than me. So I am searching for an older one (not that older). Basically I am just scared about what people would say when I am dating a younger guy. I think some guys maybe just scared to date older women. Maybe
It depends on the man. If a guy is getting older, having a younger girlfriend might make him feel younger. Guys tend to like girls around their own age in general, though.
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Yes...might make him feel younger, but then one night he goes out with her friends /and maybe he brings a friend of his own/ and BAM he feels like the oldest dude on the planet...
Ad least that's how her friends are going to look at him (and his buddy). :/
The rule of thumb is his age divided by two plus 7 years is the youngest age that works for most couples.
I know many happy couples that fall into that range.
But then there are the cougars, presumably who are independently wealthy and enjoy intimate pleasure from young studs.
It's because there bodies are newer and which means they'll last longer then theirs and sex will be better because your body's younger.
And that's a serious blunt answer.