How much time do you spend with your girlfriend or boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

How much time do you spend talking on the phone or texting with your boyfriend or gf?

How much time to you spend with your boyfriend or girlfriend in person?

Also what do you usually do during quality time.

Thanks for answering.

[cun7n1nja]

We live together, so we spend quite a bit of time together. We'll talk on the phone briefly most days at some point, just as a means of finding out or relaying information, or for longer [like an actual conversation] if he's out of town for work or something. Or a text every once in a while, a simple 'miss you' or whatever. He's not big on texting, and that's fine. We both work full time, and usually opposite schedules, so at worst we only see each other for the couple hours before bed until morning when I have to go to work, during the busiest part of our work weeks. On days off that we have in common, we're together most of the time hanging out, or even if they don't match up, our schedules are such that we still get a good portion of the day together. I think it's a pretty good balance, we see each other plenty, but both have our time apart/social time with friends when the other is at work. Though we do have friends in common, so we also hang out as a group on occasion.

Quality time consists of watching tv/movies, discussing/debating various topics, preparing meals, playing Magic cards [lol I know], taking turns reading to each other, working on some random project together, exploring out in the woods/floating down the river, picking cherries together [today] for the pie I plan to make, cuddling, having sex, showering together [sexual OR nonsexual], making fun of each other, going out to the bar together with or without friends, going out to eat, rummaging around Goodwill for cool stuff, planning fun activities that may or may not actually happen, lol. I dunno, we do a lot of random stuff.

[Asker]

Omg I love you for this long answer!

Seems fun. Would you say your boyfriend is the person you spend the most leisure time with?

[cun7n1nja]

Yeah, mostly. My best female friend is going through some issues right now and isn't really available to me. I try to be there for her, but she's been pushing me away, so I'm giving her her space until she feels like she's ready to resume 'being friends', lol. I'm not going to beg her to talk to me because I haven't done anything to warrant the coldness, but I'll be there for her when she wants to talk to me again.

[cazza3]

I live with him so probably spend 12 hours a day together, speak on the phone 2/3 times a day just quick convos. During our time together have a lot of wide ranging discussions and debates, teasing each other , cuddle up on the couch watching telly or just chatting, and of course having sex.

[bunnahies]

we text everyday randomly

i see him 3 days 2 nights per week

we usually cuddle, sleep, eat, kiss, sex, watch cartoons/ movies, go shopping to stock up on things ...thats all I can think of now :(

if I'm lucky, we have family game nights and go out to do stuff

[TeamNiceGuy]

thats basically what I want from my GF...

[ken11356]

Physically, we only get to spend maybe 5-6 hours a week.

Phone and texting, several times a day.

Usually for quality time, we will sit and watch TV or something like that, oh yes, we do snuggle, kiss etc.

She just moved into a new apartment, so I am helping her with that. Right now, that is our quality time and I love it because I am still spending it with the woman I love.

[TeamNiceGuy]

we send maybe 20 min talking on the phone a week

4 hours in person a week :(

Watch movies, cuddle and makeout

I want to spend so much more time with her tho, we just got out of school and now we have so much free time but she never seems to make the effort to chill...

[Alanaaa]

With my ex, we'd text 24/7. And talk on the phone for maybe an hour a week, it depends. We'd hangout 1-3 times a week. We lived in different areas, he worked, we both played sports, so it was hard to find times to see each other. But that's not why we broke up! We'd usually just watch tv, go to movies, sometimes I'd go to his games. It didn't really matter what we were doing.

[big_poppa_pump]

I am single now.

but when I was dating,I used to spend one hour on the phone if we didn't meet up that day.

time in person depends since if we went for a hike or something,it was the entire day.

or dinner consisted of 2-3 hours.sex was around an hour or so.

but when you in a new relationship,you guys are inseperable and spend much more time.as time passes by you guys spend less time together

[arashmenalagha]

3-4 days a week 8-9 hours a day <3

we make some good love. I love my girlfriend so much. she's my life.