Blame the Woman, ALWAYS!

[princesskayle]

We're living in a culture where we always blame women. We pit women against women. For instance, when a woman finds their husband/boyfriend with someone they go after the women. Why? She didn't cheat on you, he did. She could have not even know about you, people lie all the time.

If women ever want to report assault they get asked what we are you wearing? Why were you there? Why didn't you stop it? Why are they getting blamed? They didn't assault themselves. Their clothes have nothing to do with it, they could be wearing a maxi dress. If the person wants to assault them they're going to regardless. What does it matter why they were there they could be at a party enjoying themselves that doesn't give anyone the right to do anything.

Similar to domestic abuse. People are so quick to blame the women. The women made him into a monster. She made him crazy. He would never do that. Sure, because she threw herself down the stairs. No one deserves to be abused whether they are male or female.

Another one is dating. People always want to call out women for being "promiscuous". They're called sluts and whores but no men are ever mentioned. You can slut shame and it's okay because they're women. You sleep with anyone and you're automatically a slut. You want to experiment with your sexuality you're a whore.

When a man stands up for himself or someone else he's applauded. He's the man he's the best blah blah blah. When a woman does it she's told she needs to relax or asked if she's a lesbian if it's for another girl.

Women can't get certain jobs in certain fields because they're too "inferior" to men. How would you know if you never gave them a chance? But what does not being able to perform a job have to do with being female? If you can't perform a job that's an individual problem. However, we have to blame the woman because she's always to be blamed.

Another thing is why are women not able to do things because they're too emotional? Sorry, my feelings bother you. I'm sure men have feelings and are happy and sad sometimes. Or are men just robots that just magically do everything perfectly?

Why do men feel the need to tell women things about themselves? How would you know about my period? I didn't know you bleed one a month maybe we should sync up and be blood buddies. Why thank you, sir, for I would have never known about periods because I apparently don't get them and am too inferior that I need you to tell me about my own body. Oh, what would we do without misogynist men? *eye roll* And women for that matter because sadly some women still believe that we're stuck in 1920's.

Why are every woman blamed for one women's actions or something they say. Just because one one believes something doesn't mean they all do. When a man says something it's just them when it's a woman all women believe it. I don't think that's how that actually works.

Why do women blame each other? Especially for their low self-esteem. Saying you don't like your body because it doesn't look like someone on Instagram isn't their fault. It's your fault you have low self-esteem, learn to love yourself. It may take some time but when you do it's so worth it.

Why when a girl takes a bikini photo and she's a whore or a slut. Why is clothing associated with what you do in your private life? There is no correlation. You could wear the shortest dress and have never done anything with anyone. Clothing has nothing to do with your self-worth or what you do its just clothing.

Another thing is the dress code at school. I can't wear a tank top because of the 100-degree weather outside because of its distracting to boys. How are my shoulders distracting? Do they have a shoulder fetish? However, it's okay that he has a shirt with a girl with little clothing on but that's not distracting. Wow! Can you not see his shirt? Oh, wait I forgot he's male so he can do anything and there will be excuses made. Lovely. Sadly, I'm not surprised. It's always the woman to be blamed. Didn't know that his education was more important than mine and I have to miss class to change. If a boy doesn't follow the dress code he's told not to do it again but I am forced with no slap on the wrist.

I know I didn't cover everything so if you have ever witnessed something like this feel free to tell me about it. Also feel free to tell me what you think about it? Do you feel the same way? If not, why?

#itsalwaysthewomen #blamethewomen #sexistsociety

[bente2]

Jesus christ. This take was about WOMEN. Not about how men are being blamed. Because yeah, each sex has their disadvantages and stereotypes etcetera. You could make a whole take about how men aren't seen as good parents, or how they're stereotyped to like soccer.

But this take was about women. And the struggles many women face daily. The reason you think these things are untrue is because women don't speak up most of the time. Why? Because they're always shut down.. as soon as you enter the conversation saying "but men..." it's already over. What you're saying is basically, "yeah okie you got issues but we have more important issues!!" Which is like the dress code in a way.

Gosh, can't we all just agree we have our own issues and see that they can be discussed seperately without adressing other issues? If the writer wanted to talk about male issues she'd written a take about them.😒

[princesskayle]

Thank you so much finally someone a female with a brain because no one seems to have one. I never said like you said that men don't face problems because I'm sure they do but it's not about them. If any man wants to write about it they should feel free it would be an interesting read.

[bente2]

Welcome. Can't stand the hate!

[Dred1614returns]

Interesting

[princesskayle]

Thanks

[OlderAndWiser]

I could not read more than a few paragraphs. What you have done is decided that you wanted to rant about how bad women are treated and then you fabricated some "facts" to support your argument.

You are only 15 so you don't have any experience with mature relationships but, in real life, most people blame their partner for infidelity. Really!

Investigators asking women about their clothing is a very proper question. Quite often, clothing contains evidence is a physical struggle and it may contain the perpetrator's blood or semen. Any prior history with the perpetrator IS relevant, regardless of whether 15 year old girls think it should be. At the end of the day, most people do NOT blame women for sexual assaults, but most people also recognize that there are many false claims of rape and they don't want to unfairly accuse an innocent man.

Domestic violence. You REALLY think people blame the women? Are you KIDDING? Go spend a day in court when judges are reviewing domestic violence injunctions. I have been there many times and NEVER heard a judge blame the woman for her black eye! NEVER! NOT ONE TIME!

This is as far as I got before I stopped reading.

If you have that much hostility for men, you might want to consider counselling to deal with this problem. This hostility will cause you problems throughout life unless you do something to get it under control.

[princesskayle]

I never said everyone blames people for assaults I just said that people do because they do. You can feel however you want but you're complaining but you clicked on my post. Thanks for reading and clicking hope you enjoy the rest of your night 😊

[OlderAndWiser]

"If women ever want to report assault they get asked what we are you wearing? Why were you there? Why didn't you stop it? Why are they getting blamed? They didn't assault themselves." Your statements painted the landscape with a very broad brush.

[pinkesweet]

Gee thanks for the lecture. Pontificate much?

[princesskayle]

Yes victims get blames from SOME NEVER SAID ALL I'm over this thanks to everyone clicking and helping with the popularity I really appreciate it *rolls eyes*

[raspberry0416]

If I could downvote your post 1 million times I would.

[KingRamesses]

Do you ladies have any counter-argument to his post or will you continue your trash talking and personal attacks?

[DooMguy]

+ 1 owned, OP ^ this guy is older and wiser than you. You had no chance

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[GirlThatDraws]

@DooMguy XD

[princesskayle]

@DooMguy Yeah sure I have no chance sure. I may be young but I have things going for me unlike yourself and him have a nice night.

[DaddysGirl18]

People do use what women wear as a way to place blame on a woman, during a police investigation they do ask about clothes for the matter you're saying but they have also done so to blame the victim, not ALL do but a lot have. in the courtroom? STATISTICALLY they blame the man initially because STATISTICALLY men abuse women more than women abuse men. NOT ALL MEN ARE THE PERPETRATOR but a lot of the time men are the abuser. and a lot of the time the rapist as well. this post isn't meant to be hostile towards men. its about ANYONE who views women as less. including other women because believe it or not NOT ALL WOMEN believe we all are equal to men, you may be in your 60s pal but that doesn't make you wiser. knowledge is learned, wisdom is experienced, you have years on us that doesn't mean you have more experience, it means you have had more opportunities to have had more experience. i can dye my hair every day, doesn't mean ill take that opportunity. get off your pedestal.

[Osman712]

Shut up, kid.

[Tanuron]

Find title alone just ridiculous, considring how ridiculous society have become at blaming men in particular. Like the worst thing you can be in this day an age, is white, straight and a man. Then you are hated an blamed for everything it seems,, for racism, sexism, "privlieged" etc. But personal experience too, my own experience I would say the guys I known and myself included are in 90% of the cases blamed without reason even. Women are always "too innocent" to be blamed, supposedly anyway. From what I seen anyway, although personally I think people just love throwing blames around so they dont have to look at themselves who are instead often the cause of the problem they are against.

Sadly I know too many women who have been raped, but never have either of them even been blamed for being raped, people blame the rapist. And asking what you are wearing for example have nothing to do with blame, its a typical police prodecure (although they usally just ask what happen) , but if this event took place some weeks ago, days ago etc. Asking what you were wearing is a good way to indentify you, to find witnesses and proof. Like you if ask someone else if they saw this brunette girl, that really isent much to go on, if this girl was wearing an ugly Christmas sweather you are way more likely that someone might remember or know who you are talking about. So in order to gather evidence, stating what you were wearing is helpful. Not to put blame, but again to find evidence, as well beside the obvious though, evidence on the actual clothing if you aren't wearing them/it.

Blame the women for domestic abuse?, statistic wise its the complete opposite, thought everyone kinda knew that even now. Abusers blame the victim though naturally. "You didn't do what I said so I had to make you see (hit you etc) . In real life anyway despite seemingly its closer to 50/50 on whos gender get physical and violent first, 80-90% of the cases its the guy who will get the blame.

ugh, also hate the uneccsary sexist "slut" picture. Yeah people are idiots, women get called sluts for not sleeping with people even, but overall is much more women who "slutshame" than what men do, which is ironic, cause essentially blame men again then for women using the term "slut" so much.

What kind of job can't women get or do supposedly?

And what things can't women supposedly do cause they are "too emotional"?

[Tanuron]

As for the "dress code" thing in school. I find it personally just ridiculous when people try to say girls can't wear like normal clothing really, like as you used as an example, a tank top. The side of it all that dosent get mention enough in my opinion, is how demeaning it is to seriously blame "boys" for getting that easily distracted, like they have no self control,, like we are mindless beast. I personally find that pretty sexist really, which I suppose is kinda ironic. Its sexist towards guys that way and its stomping on girls freedom at the same time. Like sure, not saying you should go naked or whatever, naturally. But like normal clothing, jeez. shouldn't be a problem.

[hellionthesagereborn]

This is idiotic beyond compare. You are literally blaming men while claiming all society does is blame women in a society that actually gives women not only significantly more legal rights but greater leeway in all respects. A society where a woman can accuse others of rape and the person accused goes to prison or has their life destroyed immediately even when all evidence shows she has lied. A society where a 12 year old girl accused her father of raping her despite the fact that their was no evidence for this what so ever and the man was imprisoned for the next seven years until the girl finally admitted that she had lied and said it because she was angry at him so a little girls words hold greater weight then a man and all evidence, a society that didn't even punish the woman in any way and the first thing the father did was buy his daughter flowers after she put him away with a single accusation for seven fucking years. We live in a society where 75% of all suicide victims are male, where men have no reproductive rights no parental rights no rights to bodily autonomy, where by law, BY FUCKING LAW, a man has to pay a woman child support regardless of how the child was conceived thanks to hermsmann vs seyer which was a court ruling for a case where a 12 year old boy was RAPED by his babysitter then forced to pay child support to her, she having suffered no consequence what so ever for her actions of raping a child because she had a vagina and he was male. In a society that doesn't acknowledge male victims of domestic violence by law, by literal fucking law thanks to the violence against women act men are always viewed as perpetartors of violence despite the fact that statistically they are more likely to be abused by their spouse then women are. In a society that portrays men as rapist even though statistically women are as about as likely to rape as men are and by law a woman cannot rape a man but a man can a woman (as feminist have actively fought for in multiple societys by the way) where men are viewed as pedophiles even though 93% of all rapes that occurred in juvenile detention centers where commited by women, where if you look at any occurrence of teachers raping/having affairs with their students its almost always a fucking woman with a male student, in a fucking society where 98% of combat deaths and workplace accidents/deaths are male, in a society that male dominated fields have to hire women or suffer a legal penalty but female dominated

[hellionthesagereborn]

fields are held to no such standard. Where over 60% of college graduates are female while male drop out in all levels of schooling is at an all time high of 4x that of women thanks to the schools admitted feminization of education, even though their are many female scholarships and grant programs and none for males, in a fucking society where women claim to be the victims of "objectification" even though every romance novel has a half naked muscle bound male on the cover of it (it being the most read genre in the world by women written by women for women) and every male movie star has to have a fucking six pack and chiseled jaw line, or a how a underage taylor lautner was fawned over by a bunch of 40 year old women (twilight moms) when if a 40 year old males fawned over a equally shirtless 17 year old girl they would be viewed as creeps.

[hellionthesagereborn]

When women get only a third of the sentencing for commiting the same crime as men on the rare occasion they are even sentenced at all, in a society that portrayes men as stupid and bumbling at best and at worse as rapist and murderes and abusers, in a soceity that literally says that everything is a mens fault your going to try and play the victim card? Your going to try and claim that you have it hard? Your a fucking idiot. I'm sorry but I have no other way of hammering this point home. You are a self entitled narcasistic machevelian psycho path if you actually believe the bullshit you have spouted. Your not a victim, your part of the most privilged group to ever walk the fucking earth. Your life statistically is so much better then any one born male that the very fact that you could claim otherwise is so incredibly stupid that I have lost brain cells reading it. IF you think your a victim maybe do some fucking research first before trying to throw your bitch fit.

[princesskayle]

I never blamed men, sorry you feel like a victim. Maybe instead of complaining about my complaining why don't you write your own mytake

[hellionthesagereborn]

Maybe instead of complaining about how evil men are you could, I don't know, look at the facts first? Maybe that might seem like a smart thing to do? If you write an opinion in a public forum guess what? People are going to disagree (some of them will do so with facts like I did). So I realize you are so privileged that your use to every one just agreeing with you so as to not upset you but this is the real world, you accused men of shit that is not true. you played victim which is ironic that you would then try to accuse me of playing victim especially since I gave actual facts instead of making up why i'm a victim like you did. Think before you write. You attack men and then act like you didn't, that's bullshit. You accused men of blaming women for everything, guess what you just blamed men for everything the difference is men have actual legitatment complaints like laws that hurt men and benefit women. You know unimportant things like legal rights, that's what men complain about.

[princesskayle]

I'm aware they are going to disagree but the only argument is that woman aren't only victims. Never in my writing did I say that so the argument is disproved. Thanks for clicking on my post

[hellionthesagereborn]

What ever delusions help you sleep at night. Your post stated that society/men blame women always. You can't undo that by pretending you didn't right it.

[princesskayle]

Society isn't only men sorry you feel like a victim

[hellionthesagereborn]

No its not and I never said it was. Its not about feeling like a victim I gave you actual facts and statistics showing that you where wrong, I'm sorry you can't handle that the world doesn't revolve around you, and am sorry that you think that the world owes you because you have a vagina.

[PropagandaMinister]

your words are so true. maybe its not a bad idea to open a mytake with them, to counter those 1000 feminism mytakes here. i want to know what other feminism write to them. i know they can't argue against those points. so its maybe a good step to destroy feminism mytakes on gag.

[princesskayle]

@PropagandaMinister I hope someone actually does rather then wasting their time arguing with me when I could care less. This is hilarious to me. They say I complain but don't do anything but they're doing to same thing. Why don't they talk about sexism affecting males it would and interesting read

[pinkesweet]

Oh my, that purple vein on your forehead looks like it's going to pop.

[hellionthesagereborn]

People have and feminist scream and cry like you have done about how they are being victimized by evil men and the (imaginary) patriarchy.

[Iraqveteran666]

So you wrote a take about blaming women. You do realise that 51% of people are women so in fact you yourself are blaming women.
I really should write a take about how women blame men for all their problems. Anyway..
1. It's low down to cheat but it's also very shady to knowingly sleep with another person's partner no matter what gender you are which in most people's minds makes you untrustworthy and dishonoranle.
2. If a woman reports a man for sexual assault she is believed while the man is practically convicted without a trial. A police officer asking a supposed victim what she was wearing is part of establishing the facts of the case and gathering evidence.
3. In a lot of domestic abuse cases the woman far from being the victim is instead the instigator. We live in a society that tolerates women assaulting men.
4."When a man stands up for himself or someone else he's applauded. He's the man he's the best blah blah blah. When a woman does it she's told she needs to relax or asked if she's a lesbian if it's for another girl." If your standing up for yourself this shouldn't bother you and who applauds a man standing up for himself? For most men it's a daily thing or else get trapped, men don't crave applause.
5. Most slut shaming is done by women who are insecure about their own promiscuity. Men will often sleep with a promiscuous woman but will have a preference for women with low numbers for long term relationships.
6."Women can't get certain jobs in certain fields because they're too "inferior" to men. How would you know if you never gave them a chance? But what does not being able to perform a job have to do with being female? If you can't perform a job that's an individual problem. However, we have to blame the woman because she's always to be blamed." Women are given the chance often the can't cut it in labor intensive jobs and in other jobs they do phenomenally well.
7."Another thing is why are women not able to do things because they're too emotional?" Your feelings are your own and should not be forced upon others to be a burden.
8."Why do men feel the need to tell women things about themselves? " women are always telling men to talk more and women will tell anyone almost every detail of their lives even strangers.
9. Why are every woman blamed for one women's actions or something they say. Again 51% Of the world is female so...

[Iraqveteran666]

10."Why when a girl takes a bikini photo and she's a whore or a slut" most people just think she's at the beach or fishing for compliments.
11. As for your dress code at school remember that 76%Of educators are women. Also that young boys are being failed by the school system so you right his education doesn't matter as much as yours.

[independentman]

First about assault I think is right to ask a woman what she weared and how she behaved most woman tend to act bitchy and actual they blame guys not admiting thy have their fault too. They just blame men for rape but they kind of atract that atention.
Second of all women rape is bad why men rape is never speak of, oh yeah because women can play better victim exactly like you do when posting your take and they get less punishments from society unlike men.
Domestic abuse, hmm why does that happened?
Women love bad guys and love pain -..- so they kind of want it.
About slut thing on men is not men fault is women, let me tell you why. Ok women see virgin guys bad and they want someone with experience actually they prefer it and want too feel satisfy in bed, even virging women want that, if they aren't they blame the guy...
Stand up for themself is ok but when women do it they just play like they we're the victim it happened to me so many times, and I was the blame for what happened and she was just the victim.
Women can't get certain jobs in certain fields because they're too "inferior" to men... and then you write it "Of course woman don't work as hard as men" wait they want money high jobs and just to receive what about the work? Being a CEO can be a real chalenge not to mention not many women start a buisness to lead in a internatinal company...
Second of all most H. R and are women and also nurses, teachers, social workers, councelors, meeting planner, social and convention planners, accountants and auditor, advertising manager, financial specialist and stewardess.
Women like to be every where but not on hard jobs because they don't like hard work :))
I knw nothing about period so I have nothing to say about it.
Men tend to do that too. Media is the one who promote such images like thin bodies or curvy one, wealth and overated sex and fun.
Depends on where picture has been taked if it was on beach no argue if somewhere else they seek atention. And guys either they tart promte her or blmae her, I don't know such attitudes.
I don't like dress codes at school. I have a shoulder fetish but I more like when it's show not hide so I pretty much sustain showing shoulders.
Last but not least women seek attention and whatever they do they want to be seen good in every situation if not possible they play the victim!

[AleDeEurope]

You gotta be kidding me right? A single father can't even take his daughter on vacation without the hotel assuming he's a pedophile. Hell, a grown man can't even enjoy the day sitting on a bench at a park without people assuming he's a perv.
A man can't even defend himself from a crazy violent woman that is attacking him, because if he even pushes her away, he's assaulting her.
I can't even sit on a freaking train without having my balls crushed because "mansplaining", but oh wait, you're a woman, you know how balls feel... or not!
Fathers are important for a kid's development? Naaaah, let's screw the dads and not let them get custody of the kids, who cares if the mothers is an unemployed alcoholic.
A virgin guy? At 18 years old? Oh mah gawd he must be a fucking loser!
Wait... more than 40% of domestic violence victims are men? Perfect, let's just make 12 shelters in the whole country because who cares!
2/3 of the homeless population are men? But poverty is misogynistic (looking at you, Trudeau).
Prostate cancer is as prevalent as breast cancer? "It's just 1.1 deaths/year less than women"... oh ok, so fuck it, no one cares.
It takes two to create a baby? "Nah dude, only the woman matters"... oh ok, so let's give women the chance to opt out of pregnancy... "but what if the man wants to opt out" nah he can't, because he shouldn't have had sex if he didn't want a kid... "but same goes for the woman right?" no, you sexist piece of shit, she's a woman, it's her body, her choice... "it's the man's money, his ch-" sexist!!!
"There's not enough women in the STEM field... that's so sexist!!" well, there's barely any women in mines digging up for coal, isn't that sexist? "Ummm no, because... shut up, you sexist pig".
"AC is sexist!!!"... what?

This Take is a JOKE.

[princesskayle]

I never said men don't face things because of society this is just not about men. Feel free to write one and then you can discuss all of this.

[AleDeEurope]

My point is that society/people don't always blame women, like you said. Both genders go through some shit the other doesn't have to go to, saying women are always blamed is pathetic and extremely ignorant.

[princesskayle]

I never said that It's called click bait. They say have a catchy title and I did and that drew people in and it got promoted. Both go through stuff but this post was about women

[AleDeEurope]

Umm yeah... no lol I get the title can be clickbait, but you don't need "clickbait" during the rest of your post xD What a lame excuse to hide your sexism lol I'm starting to believe you're just a troll lmao

[princesskayle]

I'm not but If I was I'm really successful because this is the second time this happen with the majority of men in their feelings. It's hilarious.

[AleDeEurope]

Well, what do you expect when you try to make fat women hot, and act like a victim? Lol I don't think you'll get flowers and fireworks, right? xD

[princesskayle]

What are you talking about this isn't about fat women it's about sexism and women in society.

[AleDeEurope]

I was referring to your other Take too lmao

[princesskayle]

What does that have to do with anything and I'm not saying they were attractive personal preference had nothing to do with anything

[AleDeEurope]

Damn you're thick lol

[princesskayle]

What?

[AleDeEurope]

Exactly hahahahaha

[princesskayle]

Yeah thanks for continuing to help this with the popularity and giving me a good laugh appreciate it

[AleDeEurope]

I'd like to thank you for the laugh too, you could have made the Take a little bit shorter, but it was still quite funny. Keep it up, kiddo! :)

[pinkesweet]

Not a good night for you either eyhh?

[princesskayle]

Nope should have had it longer like my other one and that was very successful

[CubsterShura]

Omg yes! Especially the clothes thing girls literally get sexualized at 12 if their bra straps are visible but none of us really ever get any sexual freedom even after being adults, even if we find some for ourselves we are called whores.

I remember my ex was telling me about one good girl in his class dating a bad boy and how the boy magically changed and became such a nice guy... then he indirectly told me that I'm not a good girlfriend for 1) not changing the way I am 2) not making HIM better. Yeah, it's my fault for not being good enough that he used to flirt with other girls, and I'm a slut if I don't block my guy friends (who are my best and most supportive friends) for him.

I still loved him anyway but the relationship didn't last. It was very hard but I successfully made myself get over it pretty soon, and although I didn't wish I date anytime soon because of studies, I actually started dating a boy because... we both loved each other so why not? Now my friends call me a player simply because I fell for another guy soon after breakup. What do they want me to do for my ex? Cut myself for longer? Get bad grades for longer? Not giving any other guy a place in my heart to prove myself loyal to a relationship that doesn't exist anymore?

I'm 16 and already fed up with life.

[RolandCuthbert]

Well, some of this does happen little one. As a man I have to admit that. Do you see your whole list as being unfair to women? Do you think it is unfair that boys look at you and sexualize you at a young age?

I know about the women tearing women down thing. Once long ago when I was married, my ex was having issues with her period. We were going through a stressful time in our marriage and she was really upset.

Well, she was having excessively heavy period and prolonged bleeding. I kept taking her to a woman doctor. I was thinking this would be best because a woman doctor would be more sensitive to women's issues. I was dead wrong and almost lost my ex because of it. My ex had this issues on and off for a month. Her blood count got so low, I rushed her to the emergency room and checked her into the hospital. She took a few days to recover. The first day, my head was in her lap. . . I was crying so hard, I couldn't see.

We switched doctors after that. Her doctor kept dismissing my ex's complaints because she felt my wife was faking it. She didn't think my wife was telling the truth about what was happening.

Anyway, you talked about a bunch of different issues. I would be interested to see what you think are solutions. I think if we had more women in position of authority, it could help. But, we have to watch what Russell Means called, this process of making women into men.

What do you think?

[princesskayle]

Of course, it's unfair I'm sexualized for absolutely no reason. How is my shoulder a distraction?

[RolandCuthbert]

? At what point do you think you will start being attracted to boys? And how is your attraction to a sixteen year old boy, different than his attraction to you?

[princesskayle]

It's a shoulder I doubt they would be looking at my shoulder of all things but no one would be looking at me regardless so, i don't worry and I don't go after boys now. They still have a lot they have to get together with themselves and I have stuff too

[RolandCuthbert]

I am quite sure you don't go for boys now. That's good. Its smart. You should be commended for being so mature. Unfortunately, the world is filled with fifteen and sixteen year olds who are not. You might think those are mostly or only boys. I am here to tell you that is not true. And while you might be smart enough to stay out the dating game, most your age are not. They are holding hands, kissing, and doing much more.

Those young people see the members of the other gender as sexual beings and that has little to do with how an individual boy or girl views themselves.

I am not saying that exposing your shoulder should or should not be allowed. I am not saying wearing shorts should or should not be allowed. This isn't about dress codes. This is about the facts of human biology. If you want to outlaw the sexualized thoughts of teenagers. . . boy or girl, you might as well do something much easier. . . like shifting the orbit of Jupiter a few degrees.

[timesplittersxsxd]

Princesskayle it is a mans right to sexualize you

[ObscuredBeyond]

The reason you are asked: "What were you wearing" is to gain a profile of the attacker's interests. Also, how you behave at a party can be misconstrued by some party-goers as an invitation, especially if drugs and alcohol are involved.

And many women protest to being asked about this because they don't want to get in trouble for unlawful possession of certain substances.

And no... not all assailants are eagle-eyed serial killer archetypes. Most are belligerent drunken buffoons who go after the first woman that appears "easy."

So you do owe it to yourself, your family, and your future, not to be seen as easy prey. That doesn't excuse the predator's behavior in the slightest, regardless his motivation.

And if you initiate sex at a party, changing your mind mid-coitus is as much your fault for being a tease as it is his for wanting to punish your for your teasing by continuing to go at it. You don't have the right to entrap someone with false hope like that, any more than you have the right to set bear traps in your neighbor's yard with bait to trap your neighbor's dog.

Anyone who goes though life acting like they have all these "rights" to do what the Bible forbids, but then also act like rights never ever imply responsibilities attached, are immature and dangerous for it. To themselves and others. And that goes for both sexes equally.

You are a child spewing the leftist, anti-family, anti-responsibility arguments you were spoon-fed in screwl. Acting like your parroting somehow makes you sophisticated, and that posting said parroting with no real variation or innovation in application of theme will somehow still earn you intellectual brownie points.

I'd be harsher, but there are posters on here three times your age that make the same mistakes. So I have to give you some room that you can grow up and make wiser decisions - and arguments.

[ObscuredBeyond]

And don't misconstrue my poking holes in your arguments as "hate."

I don't know you, I have nothing against you personally, or your family, your dog, et. al.

Those who insist "agree with me 100% or else you're a hater," but then go out of their way to post actual hateful comments to those who disagree with them, are bratty children. Prove to me you can do better. Please. If I wanted to be yelled at by a little brat, I could always just take this to the "debate" groups on Facebook.

[Hashirama]

Before i even get started i have a question for you @Asker, have you even experienced this? You're 15, do you even know what you're talking about?

"You said women can't get certain jobs"
What job can a woman not get?
we have women in the military, a woman almost became president.
so what do you mean women can't get certain jobs?

You're making it seem like you're a victim when you haven't experienced any of this, at all. you've only ready about it online.

You can't believe what you hear, read, or see online.
we read online that the world was supposed to end in 2012.. did it?
If you actually got a job you would see most women get jobs easily just because they're women. Women get into places for free just for being women.

Tell me a place where men get in for free when you normal have to pay?
Nobody ever tells a girl she isn't pretty enough, they assume they aren't because they're single.
No boy will tell a girl "no get away from me, you're ugly"
That's something else you've read about and have no idea what you're talking about.

& nobody randomly calls a woman a slut, if a woman kept her mouth shut about how many people she has been with nobody would know...
therefor nobody would call you slut.. just don't tell anybody your business.
simple. So stop ranting about things you have no experience with, stop reading online and getting butt hurt about things that have never happened to you,
get out, and live life.

[vonasaurus]

this take does have a few good points, namely:

#1 if you are sexualizing children, you have issues;
#2 how tf are shoulders/knees/etc "distracting"?

i am no feminist, but i will say that mgtow are basically feminazis. most of the ones i've met blame women for all of their problems instead of fixing themselves, and have what seems to be a violence fetish. ugh.

there are lots of incredibly idiotic double standards that need to be done away with, and i'm thankful that most of the antiquated social norms we've clung to since forever are starting to die.

that said, one point i'd like to address is the first one op made re: women blaming the other woman instead of the cheater:

-not entirely accurate. yes, most women who have been cheated on will blame both the cheater (for being a scumbag) and the other woman (for other reasons):

if the other wo/man knew the guy or girl was taken and made a move anyway, she's just as much a scumbag as he is and they deserve each other. however, the presence of another wo/man leaves many people asking "what does s/he have that i don't?" and they are angry with that person for having the mysterious something that led his/her partner to stray.

in other words, they blame the other person. they just hate what s/he represents.

/my 2 cents, for whatever they're worth.

[princesskayle]

If she knew that he was in a relationship and continued anyone yeah she's bad. I wouldn't say just as bad because she wasn't in a relationship, she didn't cheat unless she had a boyfriend. Not all side women know they are siding women. I'/ not a feminist either I like equality but I have other feels. I don't like how everyone assumes everyone woman is a feminist. Some aren't and want to be treated like objects.

[vonasaurus]

very true; i'm an egalitarian~ i don't cherry-pick which aspects of equality suit me... but say one word about women's rights on a site like this and it's all "oh, you're a feminist sjw libtard" (at which i laugh and simply turn the other way).

whether the side chick knows she is or not, the wife or girlfriend will probably still resent her because of what she represents: something side chick had that wife/gf didn't that tempted their man into straying (although the guy in this scenario is a scumbag to begin with if he strayed).

[LogicBomber]

You have been indoctrinated by the feminist false victim complex already.
I get that you are only 15 so you have no idea of how much society coddles you and protects you as a female. Women are pretty much excused of all responsibility for everything.
Females who have consensual sex with even small amounts of alcohol are no longer responsible for their choices.
Females who are violent towards a male... "he must have deserved it".
Females who sexually assault males (even children) are generally excused because "men (even little boys) want it"
Females who kill their children, are generally excused for having "depression, chemical or hormone issues, or some how a mans fault.

The dress code debate is simply stupid. If a male teacher had his penis visible while you were trying to learn, you would have a hard time concentrating. Entitled spoiled little brats who feel that dress codes are "against women" need to grow up. Exposing your sexual parts in a place of education and business, is NOT appropriate regardless of how entitled to expose yourself for sexual attention you may feel.

Men are blamed for everything. Especially by women for their own choices.
You need to get out of your victim complex, you are part of the most privileged group of humans to ever exist on planet earth.

[I-am-a-nobody]

@LogicBomber
Well said.

[princesskayle]

Women don't kill their children Lol you're funny. Also, what's with the whole generalizing feminists. I may be female but don't just call anyone a feminist. Well, of course, I would be uncomfortable if he was nude. My shoulders aren't a sexual organ used to reproduce so right there you already lost completely invalid. You're a joke thanks for the laugh.

[Blocking_is_pathetic]

@princesskayle 71% of children killed by a parent are killed by the mother.
www. acf. hhs. gov/programs/cb/pubs/cm06/cm06. pdf

No one stated that ALL women are feminist. YOUR mentality is very feminist influenced.
Also there is a difference between universal and general statements.
Universally there are some women who claim to be feminist who are not evil.
Generally feminism as a whole is a hate group. It's biggest leaders are misandrist, it's biggest accomplishments are also misandrist.

Also the "distracting boys" scapegoat needs to stop.
Dress codes tell males they can't have sleeveless shirts. But males don't piss and moan about it because dress codes are setting you up for the real world.
Skin tights spandex is technically cloth body paint. Short shorts, booty shorts, see through tights, rompers, and generally anything that will expose your genitals without effort are inappropriate.

If you are wanting to debate, you need to stop blocking people who simply disagree with you

[princesskayle]

@Blocking_is_pathetic My mentality is not feminist influenced. The point of the dress codes was that it's not fair. At my school boys can wear tank tops but if a girl wears it she's sent to the office. How is that fair? Maybe you should come up with your own opinion rather than going off what everyone else says

[timesplittersxsxd]

That point about women killing the children spot on.

[timesplittersxsxd]

@Blocking_is_pathetic Your username is brilliant, it is what the majority of women do and all feminists do it, if a man disagrees with them it is the only way they can win the argument.

[randomocity]

I don't say shit about women or men or whites or blacks or Asians. I say shit about individuals, because every individual is different and unique. Not unique as in "OH your so special, you can do anything!" But unique in the way of differing personalities. Let's take you for a second, I don't hate you, I don't like you, I don't even KNOW you, so I can't say shit about you as a person. What I CAN say is what you wrote about here. You were most likely told that all of what you just said is 100% true by other people in whatever circle you partake in.

All I have to say is go listen to other people saying different things, don't stay in your bubble forever or else you will only ever hear how much the world hates you for how you were born when that simply isn't true (no matter how badly the media wants to shove it in your face.) Might I suggest a YouTube channel MORALLY GRAY. Or if you would prefer to only listen to women (which is fine, IDC) watch Roaming Millennial.
You don't have to change your opinions, you don't have to agree with a single thing they say. All I'm asking is that you hear different sides and not drown yourself in an echo chamber because at the end of the day open dialogue and listening to others is healthy.

[Unit1]

So I took the time to read your entire mytake and here are my conclusions:

1. Rarely ever have I seen women being blamed for problems like these. Sometimes there are "jokes" about these, that 'women' are to be blamed for something, that happened. Other times they come out from misogynists. Yes, I am talking about the current state of MGTOW or just plain misogynists. No denying in their existence.

2. I see a common pattern between feminazis and Misogynists-GTOW and that is hating and blaming the opposite sex for their problems. These people are not people you would like to interact with if you have some self respect.
Men face also being blamed for stuff like patriarchy for example. This kind of blaming is not too gender specific.

3. I personally find ranting to not progress to solving problems, so I save myself that. But I still like to communicate with the members of the opposite sex or same sex mates, who face the same issues as I do.

At times I feel bad for women being treated like (sex) objects in involuntary situations like in the 3. th world countries because of their sexist laws. Other times they asked for it since they keep being in a relationship with a dangerous and manipulative freak.

[princesskayle]

I'm not blaming anyone for my post but don't be a hypocrite. You're complaining about me complaining. Makes so much sense.

[evenlift]

There are many women who go after a man because he is taken. Very few men do this with regard to taken women.

Advising precautions does not equal victim-blaming. By locking the front door of my house, I am not blaming myself for any potential burglary

All it takes is a woman's accusation of domestic violence, with no evidence, to get a man arrested.

Very few men are promiscuous. Your focus is probably on men whom you find attractive, whom many other women also find attractive and who therefore have a lot of opportunities.

It is women who make excuses for themselves and their emotions.

The law forces employers to discriminate in favour of women. And then you wonder why women are often suspected, even by other women, of not really being competent.

It's women who created a philosophical and political movement to demonize, and to violate the rights of, the whole opposite sex. It's called feminism.

If you want a high-quality man, of course you're going to feel pressure to look good. At least a generation or two ago, you could quite easily get a confident man. He might not have been rich or handsome, but his assertiveness at least would have been a turn-on. Now even that is a rarity, thanks to feminism's assault on masculine self-confidence. Now, as a woman, you're doing better than the competition, if you get approached at all! When will you feminists stop self-destructing?

[Nmalinova]

There may be SOME truth in that, however I also do disagree on some points. Ok sure a woman/man should not have to reason why they were harassed but come on, have you seen the youth? Mini skirts running around the streets completely drunk up to the point of not being able to stand anymore? Jesus, no wonder things like this happen! If you don't want anything happening to you than be responsible. Ofc you can wear mini skirts, or even just underwear, as long as you are fully aware of yourself and your surroundings! Don't expect to drunk drive, crash and then think it's disgusting to be blamed for it, same goes with dressing for a nihht out: don't go out wearing provocative clothing, get drunk to the point of not being able to stand anymore and then blame people that have assaulted the person that could have quite easily been avoided... anyway sorry rant over lol! I do understand that sometimes things like assaults also happen with sober people, but I would say majority of the cases with drunk individuals... sad story but true >.<

[princesskayle]

That's a whole different thing. My point was that JUST WEARING CERTAIN CLOTHING DOES NOT GIVE CONSENT FOR ANYTHING TO HAPPEN TO YOU.

[Wwwyzzerdd]

Personal accountability is not an entirely different thing. The behavior of an individual accounts for how they are treated by the rest of society. Females are quick to pull out the waterworks (after having behaved poorly) in an attempt to manipulate the emotions of those around them, often to raise their social standing back up once they crashed it into the ground. The drunk girl in a minskirt laying on the curb after the club complaining about how no man loves her is trying to get attention from male pedestrians. What she doesn't seem to realize is that it was her choice to go clubbing, to get drunk, act sloppy, then she gets mad when her behavior alienates males. It's totally not her fault though, yeah, sure.

[princesskayle]

@Wwwyzzerdd If you're drunk that's A DIFFERENT STORY. PLEASE TELL ME WHERE IN MY WRITING DID I TALK ABOUT BEINg DRUNK I NEVER SAID WOMEN SHOULDN'T TAKE RESPONSIBILITY. MEN WANT TO BE VICTIMS SO BADLY NO ONE IS BLAMING YOU.

[pinkesweet]

@Wwwyzzerdd there is a cure for SPS ya know

[JDavid25]

Uuuumm Huh? Women are most definitely not blamed for everything.. LOL.. You are over exaggerating, and over-simplifying situations to fit yo narrative.. Cause I promise you some things run in women's favor.. In case of cheating like another user said we'll target the person who our partner is cheating with simply cause they are the ones cheating with them.. In case of sexual assault, people will more likely take the women's side, unless evidence says otherwise.. But, just cause they were assaulted doesn't mean that they are completely without blame.. It just means they were wronged.. And please.. Domestic abuse is mainly put on men (for good reason).. If a man even mentioned that his wife was abusing him, people would straight laugh at him... Same case with rape.. So, yeah society definitely ain't against women...

[princesskayle]

I never said they were blamed for anything and I'm not arguing thanks for the click

[JDavid25]

Wait huh? I never said you blamed anyone, I was explaining how society doesn't blame everything on women.. Ha!..

[princesskayle]

K but that's basically ever mans view one here so I may have assumed a bit my apologies for that but people on here get mad for no reason

[JDavid25]

Aw okay.. I gotchu.. Lol..

[DerSchweinehund]

Yeah, nah.

Now, don't get me wrong, I'm all for treating women well, and I'm pretty sure most of us do, but that doesn't mean you can just go around claiming that the whole world is out to get you. That's called "playing the victim."

Don't buy into this radical feminist agenda. It hurts you in the long run, and most of it is simply absolutely outdated if not completely false. Sure, there are some points to be considered, but most have already been addressed countless times, and you can find equally valid rebuttals all over the Internet.

If you want, I'd be more than willing to have a civil discussion. I'm just not ready to pour in a good counter-argument without knowing whether or not you will actually read it.

Of course, I live in Central Europe, so maybe we treat our women differently here. I don't know.

[princesskayle]

Actually, I would like it if you didn't generalize. I'm not a feminist for reasons that are irrelevant. I do believe inequality which I know a lot of men in here seem to think I don't. I'm not claiming to be a victim unlike the majority of the men commenting. I'm just pointing things out. I don't get why people read my writing if it bothers them just click off. I don't mind having a discussion as long as it's not trying to paint men as victims. We all have struggles not just men. Shocking I know the comments would make you think otherwise. I think men complain more than women.

[timesplittersxsxd]

princesskayle who cares what you like or don't like you are a silly girl who is very immature. You need to just grow up and realize the way of the world. And why not paint men as victims, you are painting women as victims.

[SovereignessofVamps]

It's just easy to spread hate about this. People will probably say your mytake is too much, but I can see why you'd feel like this. Even when people are joking, so many insults revolve around women, especially how women are sexually.

[guysaskgirls555]

good, now put yourself in a guys point of view reading this in fact, switch this around and pretend a guy is writing this. You think there aren't insults on men? read one of the comments coming from a girl on this page about men not being able to control themselves

[princesskayle]

@guysaskgirls555 If you talk about a guys point of view why don't you write a mytake then since you have so much to say.

[Wwwyzzerdd]

@guysaskgirls555 Yes, replace women for men and reread this. Sounds kinda sexist, doesn't it?

[princesskayle]

@Wwwyzzerdd No.. the things don't really apply. different things do I am aware men face sexism but this is not what this is about. Men want to be the victims so bad.

[guysaskgirls555]

@princesskayle actually you want to be a victim so bad and you will do so even if that takes overlooking some disgusting replies by some of the women here. I already know your motives and you have made them clear when there was a women calling men sex obsessed animals who can't control themselves and you did nothing but turn the cold shoulder and tried to say ''no one is saying that about guys'' when there are multiple replies saying otherwise. you dont know what men go through and I find it comical that you undermine other peoples hardships and then want people to listen to you. I am simply giving you the exact mirrored reflection of how this sounds reversed and you dont like what you see. Its not my fault, instead of talking about women women women, or even men why dont you do whats RIGHT? like call someone out when they make disgusting comments on your take? oh you wouldn't do that though, since its not insulting women

[guysaskgirls555]

@Wwwyzzerdd it is sexist, and sexism doesn't stop just because its a women saying it. Sexism comes from the same kind of hatred that racism comes from.

[SovereignessofVamps]

You can just ignore them Mytakeowner.

[guysaskgirls555]

ignore them for calling out sexist remarks? you are apart of the problem then

[prettygirl8]

I just skipped past most of what you wrote simply because I think it's a bunch of bullshit. I'm tired of some women screaming of equal rights and playing the victim. How about mention the fact that rapists who are women rarely see a jail, or how women who ingage in sexual relations with someone younger to her is given nothing more than a warning, yet when both of these situations are switched and the perpator is a male then it's a total different story.

[princesskayle]

Yeah I also skipped reading this for the same reason thanks for clicking

[pinkesweet]

By definition, I didn't know it was anatomically possible for a woman to commit rape

[Kirah]

@pinkesweet and that's the problem.

[Kirah]

@princesskayle "hurr durr I have no arguments, so let's just insult the opinion owner instead"

That's you right now.

[pinkesweet]

@Kirah Can you elaborate?