All Questions

Why am I turned on by jerks?

The jerk A hole type seems to be attractive to me somehow , they turn me on . Why ? I mean can I like and actually enjoy being treated like sh*t ?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I slept with my boyfriends's best friend

I met my boyfriend 2 years ago we dated we flirted we had a thing going. But he left the country not long after. There was no commitment, nothing. In fact, I didn't hear from him until recently. While he's been gone, I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean to have a weakness for somebody?

What does it mean to have a weakness for somebody? This guy told me that he had developed a weakness for me and I'm not really sure what he means by that. So, what does it mean?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl flaked on second date, what to do?

I met this girl a couple of weeks back, we hit it off since then. We exchanged numbers talked and texted for a few days and then agreed to meet for a date. If was amazing, we were into each other and we before she left we...

PntBlnk

Xper 5 Age: 36

Accidentally popped cherry?

Basically, I did my self so hard I bled. What does it mean, And if I took a test to see if I was still cherry would I test positive or negative?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ants in my pants: Why does it feel like there are ants biting me?

As a part-time job I work in a landscape company. Today we were cleaning out this person's garden and it required a lot of rock moving. Most of the rocks had ant colonies under them so I ended up getting some on my body...

musiclover100

Xper 7 Age: 30

Wondering why do girls stare at me?

I don't know if I am ugly, or cute, or if I have a distinctive face. I do have a large frame but I think my face has a little bit of baby fat. In most of my classes, some girls look at me and then when I feel them...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy I don't know say hi to me in the halls?

Today some guy I've maybe seen around and never talked to (he's not in my grade or I'd know) say hi to me in the school hallways? This is exactly what happened: I was walking down an empty hallway (except for him) and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Thin but with a wide waist?

I've googled it and apparently many women have this, and I was wondering who else has this body type: I am short- 5'1 and pretty athletic. I am 135 pounds and work out most days of the week. My measurements are 36-29-36....

madmisskelly

Guru Age: 36

Is online dating for losers?

Where I'm from, and most of my friends tell me, match.com and eharmony are for desperate people and those who can't get people in real life. Is Online dating considered pathetic for somebody in their early 20s? Any insight?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Girls: Have you ever had a wardrobe malfunction?

Have you ever had a wardrobe malfunction while wearing a dress, low cut top, a plunging top, a bikini? Or if you have your own please answer below,

Swimmerdude1994

Xper 6 Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

Do Puerto Rican/Dominican girls/Women like Chinese guys/men?

I got rejected by a Dominican girl in my math class last Friday, but it's not like she doesn't know who I am. I'm guessing I'm not Hispanic, or I'm a Chinese guy. I am just curious, do Dominican/Puerto Rican girls/Women...

ChineseMath32

Xper 5 Age: 46

Girl Goes Cold - Lack Of Respect?

When you're dating a girl that's pretty moody and tends to go hot/cold on your, and she has multiple partners, don't you think I have the right to cut her off due to the lack of respect? In my opinion, respect is the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys: If your girls cooks for you..

what goes through your head? In general a how much do guys like it when their girlfriend cooks for them? And what is your favorite meal that she makes? or you wish she would make?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it flirting if a girl keeps saying your name?

So I've known this girl for about 2 years and we've always been pretty cordial and joke around alot. Recently within the past few months I've noticed her using my name much more often and in a girly/babyish/almost whiny...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Who else can't stand couples who are ALWAYS touching each other?

Who else can't stand those couples who think they have to constantly be touching each other. Not in a sexual way but always just grabbing on to each other. I see these couples a lot in school. Thinking they have to...

seeya36

Xper 6 Age: 32

How would you date someone who is going travelling soon?

I've met a few guys recently whom I've really hit it off with, but they are leaving soon for 3-6 month travel expeditions in Europe or Asia. How would you date someone like this? Would you? Why or why not?

hot_princess7

Xper 7 Age: 38

A guy I like tried to kiss me but I pulled away?

ok so I'm really stuck here! I really like this guy and have done for a while now and we get on so well. I was walking with him and he started feeling my butt (he does this a lot though) and then he leaned in for a kiss...

hahahooo

Xper 5 Age: 31

Society & Politics

Why is nudity a big deal?

Every other creature on the planet walks, flies, swims or slithers around completely naked and unashamed. Humans are the smartest and most advanced yet we are the only species that is ashamed of our natural state, a...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why does my girlfriend want me to walk her home?

So at night when we are finished on our date or our work shifts end my girlfriend always asks me to walk her home and when I do she holds onto my arm the whole time. I don't mind walking her home and stuff its sweet and...

HeartofDarkness

Xper 5 Age: 31

Break Up & Divorce

Boyfriend broke up with me because I didn't trust him, but I don't want to, what do I do?

My boyfriend of 2 years just broke up with me at the worst possible time. We haven't been getting along or a few months although we Le each other. Late last year he home my trust by telling a massive Le, since then I have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If you could describe Hershey, Godiva, and Dove chocolate as people, how would you describe them?

If you could describe Hershey, Godiva and Dove chocolate as people, how would you describe them?

DianaDDreamer

Yoda Age: 40

Girl touches my arms a lot..would she do this if she was not attracted to me?

Whenever I hang out with this girl (with a group of people), she would poke, touch, or squeeze my arm playfully (they are pretty big and muscular). She would make it a point to stand very close and is always leaning into...

verbatim

Xper 5 Age: 40

Other

I just want to know WHY he stares but doesn't say anything or take it to the next level.

Stare at a woman repeatedly but never speak to her. I'm talking about over the course of weeks/months in a day time setting, not a drunk night at the bar. This guy who is a couple years above me at university is always...

iPood

Yoda Age: 33

Should your hips suddenly have a growth spurt/widen at?

the age of 18/19? I've just turned 19, I'm not fat at all, I'm very slim but I can't fit into ANY of my jeans since about 2 weeks ago. Its like I get to my thighs/hips and I really have to pull them up over my hips, and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

Is It True That Australian Men Love American Women?

So I heard this rumor that Aussie men love American women? Now I know this is more likely a stereotype more than anything, but I was still curious as to how many actually do like American women. I want to visit Australia...

Tigerbaby994

Xper 3 Age: 31

Guys, would you get insecure if your girlfriend was hotter than you?

Do you feel like she'd be more likely to cheat, etc because she's able to find someone better if she wanted to?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Do guys like it when a girl sits on their lap?

My boyfriend wants me to sit on his lap at the movies and I don't know why I'm kinda nervous its not that I'm heavy or anything I weigh 98-100. So I was wondering do y'all like it? And why am I nervous? please and thanks

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do the number of Ys in 'hey' have any meaning?

OK I'm already telling you this is a silly question but I was still curious does the number of Ys have any in meaning in the word 'hey'? I think I saw this on a poster somewhere that supposedly if its one then is business...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My best friend's sister keeps hitting on me. What to do...

These past several months every time I'm around my best friend's sister she keeps on trying to flirt with me. I could easily go for her but l don't play along too much with her little flirt activity because of the long...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do guys think of a corset piercing?

Okay so I have a corset piercing down my back and I usually have black ribbon laced through it I've had it for about four or five months I love it but I was wondering what do guys think of it do they think its trashy I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend won't wear the gift I gave to him?

All right so I was always a low on budget person but for the people I love I would do anything .. I saved up a fortune ( for approximately one year ) to buy my boyfriend a watch I knew he loved.. but now I never see him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Is it attractive if a guy/girl speaks another language?

I'm talking to this guy, getting to know him, not sure if it'll amount to anything to be honest. I'm biracial and so is he(I typically don't go for biracial guys but he's the exception). He's white and filipino and I'm...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

I regret not taking care of my teeth...

When I was a child, I never took care of my teeth. Now that I'm older (not much older) it's something that I'm ashamed and embarrassed about. Is there an effective way to whiten my teeth without going to the dentist?

Anonymous

(30-35)