All Questions

Tan Skin/Dark Hair vs. Pale skin/Dark hair?

Kim Kardashian would be an example of the first one. and Megan Fox would be an example of the second. WHICH IS HOTTER?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Being rude vs being blunt?

How would you describe the differences between the two? Is it possible to be blunt without being rude? Why or why not?

Kain6th

Xper 4 Age: 42

Break Up & Divorce

Why do men want to stay friends after a break-up?

My ex and I broke up about a year and a half ago. For a while I still had feelings for him as it was a long term relationship. I decided to keep my distance after we broke up as he started dating someone else almost...

EnchantingAthena

Xper 4 Age: 37

Does it bother you when they fall asleep when texting?

Ok guys and girls when you're texting the opposite text does it bother you if they like will text you until they fall asleep but they won't tell you that their tired they'll just not answer after a while. Cute or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What pet names do you like?

What pet names do you like your girl/guy/other to call you?

BlackStar

Xper 7 Age: 36

Guy's Behavior

My roommate sits down to pee?

Okay this is really none of my business but I'm curious. I've noticed that my roommate always leaves the toilet seat down. Even when he pees. This is obviously a little odd since he's a dude. He is really overweight...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a girl smiles a lot around you?

This girl I like is always smiling when I'm around her and occasionally chuckles at my jokes. What does that mean?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why does he sit next to me and not across from me?

I go to lunch with the same co-worker everyday, sometimes just the two of us sometimes in a group. Whenever its just us, he always sits next to me and never across from me at the table which feels very unnatural to me....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls- When a guy asks you to coffee..

I worry that asking a girl to coffee is going to be seen as a "weak" date. Granted, the girl in question is aware I'm attracted to her, so is her saying yes to this one on one encounter a decent sign that she's also...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What to do with big forehead?

I think my forehead is too big. what should I do with it? is there any way how to hide it? (without fringe or bandage) is it really bad to have big forehead? what do you find more attrective? waiting for your answers and...

belby

Xper 6 Age: 33

Ladies do you think my friend is right about how he gets so many girls?

He sent this message as a reply to my question of how he gets so many girls: "First of all, your thinking is all wrong. There is nothing sexual going on when I flirt with these girls at a party or in a bar. I grew up...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Toe fungus after spray tan?

SO, earlier, I'd gotten a spray tan, which left my body orange in random areas. IT stained my toenails, so I thought. Until I'd realized it still was there after months and months...what else could it be? Fungus? Some...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are guys intimidated by shy girls? Why don't they approach us?

Well ya the player will but that's the only type :( and those aren't always the best looking...nowadays as I'm getting older I think I'm getting more prettier and my self confidence is higher but guys haven't hit on me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Do you wish you were born the opposite gender?

Question says it all. If you wish you were born the opposite gender, explain why. If not, explain what you like about your gender.

Anonymous

(30-35)

When a girl is nice and chatty to everybody but me?

Theres this girl whom I've always felt she treats me differently. She is nice, giggly and chatty with everybody, she is a bit on the shy side but when she gets to know people, she opens up. I've known her for a while but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls like a direct approach or "get to know you"?

Hey so there's this girl who I think may be interested in me. She was the one to first intiate conversation about how I did on my midterm and she seems to look at me a bit in math class cause she sits one seat over to me....

newzinski

Xper 5 Age: 33

Do you like it when you manage to get under peoples skin?

You've found a way to really get to someone and hurt them or make them angry. Do you like knowing that you can do that to a person? Why or why not?

Kain6th

Xper 4 Age: 42

Is she basically my girlfriend?

We have not dated because her parents don't know about me yet. What we do is text each other a lot and I occassionally visit her church to see her. Anyway, I know we haven't dated but we both admitted that we like each...

Phillyguy47

Xper 3 Age: 38

Break Up & Divorce

Was I too harsh to my ex boyfriend?

My ex boyfriend of 9 years was a really great guy. He was loving, sweet and kind but the problem is he "wasn't a phone guy." I called him often. He didn't call me often or even send me a text to tell me that he was...

Avangelis

Xper 5 Age: 35

My girlfriend thought I was going to hit her?

My girlfriend was over and we were laying on my bed. I moved my hand, not even near her. But when I raised it she flinched and said "Please don't hit me." I'm still sort of shocked and I didn't know what to do. I've asked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why can't anyone stay faithful anymore?

I'm not talking about just guys or girls but in general. It seems there are more and more friends or questions about their SO cheating on them. What is the thrill of cheating? I know many people who have been cheated...

AllDay

Xper 3 Age: 35

Do you think there is a difference between a flirt and a player?

Do you think there is a difference between a man who is a player and a man who is a flirt and charmer or are they basically the same thing?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does a hi with a big smile and eye contact mean anything?

So there's this girl I like. We get along but most of out chats we are either arguing playfully or teasing each other. She has told me that I annoy her quite often (she has a smile when she says it) but still, she says it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

A girl on match.com gave me her number. What do I text her for the 1st time to not seem awkward?

I had been emailing a girl on match.com and at the end of her last email she gave me her number saying "If you'd like to contact me feel free to text me, it's a bit easier. =) xxx-xxx-xxxx My question is what do I say in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Soldiers are the government's puppets. Why do people glorify simple men?

I honestly feel sorry for soldiers aka government's puppets. They fight for what their superios believe in. They risk their lives while their superiors lean back and smoke their cigars. No self-respecting man becomes a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Who loves more, men or women?

Who do you think loves more, men or women? One of my friends told me that she didn't think men were capable of love as deeply as women are, and another friend argued that he thought men actually loved more than women do....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys always have to text first or is she just annoyed?

This girl likes me and I like her amd she knows it I guess we are "talking" or whatever they call it but anyways I am sick of texting her first and I feel like I'm annoying her! We were texting at school amd she just...

goodolboy

Xper 5 Age: 30

Texting me when he has a girlfriend. Why is he doing this?

I was dating this guy for a few months, he told me he is interested in a serious relationship with me, so we started sleeping with each other about two months in (we are both late 20s). Slowly I started to find out that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ladies is 5'7 too short for you?

would you be attracted to or consider dating a guy who is 5'7?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls is 6'3 too tall for you?

ladies would you consider a guy who's 63 too be a little too tall? I mean I work out a lot so I'm toned and I'm not lanky but I feel like sometimes girls think I'm too tall and we'd be awkward together... girls would you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

What is wrong with Womanizers/Players?

Now before you start attacking me thinking I'm defending then, which I'm not, I have my opinion but ill leave it out. Womanizers/Players have a code of ethics/parameters they go by such as rules of things never to do/or...

Phoenix1991

Guru Age: 35

Why do girls get so defensive and uneasy when you actually like them a lot?

just wondering. it's like they think you're dangerous or something, or automatically think you've been stalking them purely because you like them a lot. its so hurtful and unfair. why would a guy that likes you be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you feel about women who don't paint their nails and toes?

I personally as a woman feel pity for women who don't paint at least their toes... I mean to me it's cute and definitely a better look. You don't have to pick a dramatic color even a nude/beige color would do. I think...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are girls attracted to guys who workout and have muscle?

I never understood why girls are attracted to guys who have muscle. Feedback from girls would be great. Any guy advice is great too. Thanks.

DANNYstyle

Xper 6 Age: 38

No contact during his guys trip, boyfriend is gone for 4 days and I miss him?

I know my boyfriend is having a great time with his friend but I miss him. I am at work while he is partying with his friends. I want to bother him but I am not, I will just wait to hear about all the fun when he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls not like dating a guy who has never dated before?

Would you be OK being The first guy he ever has dated or is that too weird and awkward. what if the guy is shy and 22. I feel left out being the only guy who has never dated

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

My roommate is constantly fighting with her boyfriend... What should I do?

Okay -- a few notes: - My roommate is clinically bipolar, and therefore really emotionally unstable - Even though she's taking medication, I feel like she's just an overly serious, critical person - She's constantly...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I get my boyfriend to return the money I have loaned him?

I have loaned my boyfriend lots of money over the years - to help pay his tax, to help put down a deposit on his house. I also recently transferred some to him before I moved to his city to go to Uni there, so he that...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

How do you feel about the West Burrow Baptist Church?

I think that they are despicable people and would like to do nothing more than hit each of them in the face with a grocery bag a feces, but I think that as Americans they have the right to do what they do. I am wondering...

Anonymous

(30-35)