All Questions

Why do guys like to have there scalp messaged so much?

In class one day one of my girl classmates just started gently and slowly running her fingers threw a guys friend of hers hair and messaging his scalp and he just turned to mush. He dropped and literally in a few minutes...

Haley10015

Xper 5 Age: 32

No kiss after spending the night-is that a bad sign?

So a guy I met recently spent the night last night and when saying goodbye,there was no kiss-just a long,tight hug. Now I'm thinking a)he doesn't want to see me again or b)he wanted to avoid morning breath. He did...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Did my boyfriend break up with me because of stress?

He broke up with me the other day after getting irritated because I asked him a question. It was a simple honest question, he got pissed off at me. So because I did not want to deal with him being difficult I told him I'd...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

I keep accidentally "liking" stuff here on Facebook!

It shows up on my Facebook page that I "liked" something on this site, which I had no intention of "liking". I need it to stop happening! Is there any setting I can change (either on Facebook or here) that will prevent...

Anonymous

(30-35)

It bothers you when you have to obey a lot of rules?

It bothers you when you have to obey a lot of rules? This is yet another question to one of those job assessment tests at the end of an application. So pretend you are answering from that perspective Choose from the...

Kain6th

Xper 4 Age: 42

Why are women so harsh when they reject men?

Whatever happen to respect and honor? I mean if you don't like a guy its totally OK and must men would be fine understanding that, but most women seem to be so out of line, a mean as if the guy owe them respect for...

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

Society & Politics

What does touche mean?

I hear people say it but I have no clue what it means so someone please tell me Thanks Oh and I don't even know if that is how you spell it lol

THAT-1-guy

Explorer Age: 30

Is it good to be called a player?

This girl I'm really close friends with knows me to good. We hang out a lot, eat lunch together, we trust each other, we buy each other things, and so on. I do find my friend attractive but I don't know why she called me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy kisses your hand while lying in bed?

I know its usually a way for them to show deference/respect to the woman but does the meaning change if you're lying in bed together? I've known this guy for awhile, we used to work together and this was the first night...

Samnyc

Xper 3 Age: 40

I'm waiting for her to text me - is this the right move?

Hey all, first of all, thanks in advance for the advice. This website is really great sometimes. Anyways, I met this girl a while back, and we really hit it off. She always returned my phone calls/texts, but it's been...

etwake

Xper 5 Age: 39

How to stand out at a concert? (Small venue)

Me and my friend are going... I want to stand out (hence this question). Is there anything a girl can do at a venue like this that would make an impact? (Way she acts, way she dresses, hair, makeup, etc...)

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did she suddenly change attitude toward me?

So there's this girl in my class who I have heard likes me and well I like her too. Usually she enjoys talking to me and it is pretty obvious she likes me. Everyday for 2 weeks, I would ask her if I could borrow her...

Skrizzel

Xper 5 Age: 31

How would you deal with a rude sales person?

Like if you were shopping for expensive item(s), and he says something like "...you take too much time to decide" along with a face gesture that's very rude as if he can't stand you. Aren't you supposed to take your time...

knowmeyourself

Master Age: 39

Will he ever contact me again?

There is this guy who I was really into a couple years ago and we broke up. Right now he is dating someone else and so am I and we aren't even talking but I think about him a lot still. I just don't contact him because he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I like a girl, but she has too many guys behind her? Too much competition?

How the hell can I make a girl to fall for me, when I have a lot of competition? I mean this girl is gorgeous, good girl, nice and friendly...i mean its pretty much anything a guy could ask for. But yeah like I said I...

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

How should I respond to this apology letter?

So after almost 8 months broken up from a 4ish year relationship, I got an email yesterday from my ex, apologizing for the way he treated me. It's not a letter from him regretting that he lost me and want me back, but a...

emily155

Xper 5 Age: 40

He insulted me the whole date?

I went on my second date with this guy and he basically put me down at every point in the conversation. I felt like it might be a defense mechanism because he's intimidated, but he seriously made me feel like an idiot....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is it bad for me to be upset when my girlfriend grinds with other guys?

Hey I need some advice that I can't seem to get a answer too. I have been with my girlfriend for 2 months now and we are going great. except... I don't like when she grinds with random guys at the club when we go...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does he keep coming back to me? need a guy's opinion!

OK so trust me I already know what I've done is wrong so if you are just going to harp on me for that then please don't comment- I need a real answer. So this guy and I have been texting and sexting for over a year now...

Anonymous

(36-45)

"I'm just going with the flow" ...what does it mean a guy says this?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. Yesterday he said he is "just going with the flow" of the relationship. Does this mean he's not thinking of taking it a step further? Or does it mean that he is only with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when someone says you do no wrong in their eyes?

My sisters husband said zoey does no wrong in my eyes what does that mean I have never herd that saying before

iloveyouto

Xper 3 Age: 30

Girls, what would be your motivation for constantly teasing a guy?

I have noticed that this classmate of mine teases me (playfully) a lot. Actually we do it to each other and most of the time we are arguing and calling each other names. Although her personality is being a bit of a smart...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is it an ego boost for a man to get with a girl his daughter's age?

Not if his daughter is a child but if she's in her 20s?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dream Interpretation: My boyfriend had a baby with his ex and never told me?

I just had a dream that my boyfriend had a baby with his ex, not while we were together but in general He learned about it and was ranting about it on Facebook but it was indirectly like "i can't believe shed do that to...

DesiVega

Xper 4 Age: 33

Why do guys like girls so much? What is so amazing about us females?

I have always wondered what the answer was, so now I am asking! Say anything and everything! Lets make this fun! Add me;)

Debraness1996

Xper 5 Age: 30

Fashion & Beauty

What is your first reaction when you first saw your girlfriend without her make-up?

Is it a great difference?Do you prefer her with or without make-up?I have heard of guys leaving their girlfriends or loving them less due to disappointment when they saw her without make-up.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Fashion & Beauty

What is the most you would be willing to spend on a jacket?

Wondering in your opinion what would you think is an acceptable price for a good sturdy jacket? I am figuring 300-400 dollars for something that will last around a decade if you treat it properly is acceptable. What is...

NothingGoldCanStay

Xper 3 Age: 36

My girlfriend left me, and is going to marry another guy.

My girlfriend left me and is going to marry another guy. Her reasons for a that were: I didn't proceed or develop our relationship (but the moment I wanted to proceed I felt that she was a bit cold with me, and I decided...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy I liked told my friend I gave him goosebumps?

There was this guy I liked that told my friend I gave him goosebumps. He also told me the same thing. Does that really mean anything cause when we did date? But then. He ended up making excuses to end it for reasons like...

Tiarra

Xper 6 Age: 46

Tthe triangle of intelligence, looks and emotional stability, do you agree with it?

link From my observations I find this to be very true! Which of those combinations are you? And which is your spouse or you'd prefer them to be?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does raised eyebrows signify attraction?

OK so this guy saw me the other day and he looked at me,raised his eyebrows and he looked top to bottom with a wide-eyed gaze. I wasn't wearing anything flashy that day, just jeans and a purple v-neck. So I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you date an "ex con"?

OK so here it goes. I've met a lot of people online...all "respectable" and from all walks of life. However, most recently I met a man who told me that he had been incarcerated for eight long years. He completed parole...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

My boyfriend is white and I'm black... racism/insecurity issues?

I've been dating my boyfriend for about a month now, and we've been official for about a week or so. we've been out on dates and talk a lot, and he's a real sweetie. but since he's my first boyfriend, I've run into a...

supervixxen

Xper 6 Age: 33

Fashion & Beauty

If a girl had a bit of a lazy eye, would this turn you off?

I have a slight lazy eye, in that, every time I focus directly at something and stare at it, my eye turns inward in order to compensate and focus, I have no control over it. My main issue is with eye contact, because I...

madmisskelly

Guru Age: 36