All Questions

The scale says I weigh less than ever, but I really have never looked chubbier?!

110 pounds and 5'7". I'm skinny everywhere else but my stomach is so chubby! I've been looking at the same scale and I went from 116 to 110 and my stomach looks fatter than before?!

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Why does this guy always sing around me?

Okay this is a legitimate question, my classmate who I think likes me always sings around me and its songs like Boyfriend (Justin Beiber) or Layla (Eric Clapton) or other songs like them. So why does he do this? Is he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why does this guy always takes his shirt off in front of me?

This guy that I know , He's a mutual friend of me and my man. But I noticed he likes taking his shirt off in front of me. We could be talking and instead of him going in the bedroom to change he does it right in front...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does it look like I'm balding and have a big forehead?

My mom commented on it today. She said in pictures it looks like I'm balding and it makes me look stupid. This is the pic I took today that caused this convo. Does it look like I am balding? Does it make me look bad and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it weird that I find girls attractive wearing the hijab?

In case you do not know what the is here's the definition and pics: A head covering worn in public by some Muslim women. link link For some reason, it looks nice to me. It's intriguing. Just to yet you know,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why the hell does my 12 year old sister scream so much?

All she ever does is scream at me, scream when things go wrong scream for no real reason. For example she will think the cat is going to pounce at her but will be crouched down starting at the cat and start screaming and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to lace Converse low tops (chuck taylor)?

Howdy I just bought some converse lows, but I have no idea how to tie the laces so that the bows don't show e.g. link I've done it with adidas high tops, but that was easy as you just put the bow behind your ankle...

lozza4

Xper 5 Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

Why is she avoiding the boyfriend word in front of me?

There this girl I was interested in and we hit it off really well but I found out she had a boyfriend (she doesn't know I found this out) but she has never mentioned him to me and she never talks about him to any of her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Could I work out everyday if I'm taking Creatine?

The same muscle groups everyday. Creatine is supposed to lessen muscle breakdown and speed up muscle recovery, is this enough to make working out everyday a viable option?

tmc1324

Xper 5 Age: 32

Girls, how long do you ignore someone?

Girls, if a guy best friend, or a boyfriend upsets you, how long do you tend to ignore them? Do you expect them initiate contact after you have cooled down? Do you become stubborn? I just want to get an insight into the...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Other

I made out with three guys in one night?

Hi, I need to get this out. The other night me and my friends decided to go to this party, and I never go to parties or drink or anything like that and everyone at my school sort of knows me as kind off shy. Anyways, I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Is it okay to date your brother's ex girlfriend?

Hi I have a situation about my brother's ex girlfriend. I've always liked her and she wound up dating my brother for some reason only girls probably know lol. So they broke up and I really want to be with her, I always...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What is your definition of petite?

Can a tall girl (5'8) be petite? is it the way a girl is built, small frame, skinny or does is it just height?

Mellinda

Xper 3 Age: 31

He cuddles and spoons with me, but isn't looking for a relationship?

I'm kind of confused. I'm okay with not getting into a relationship, but I would like someone to tell me through experience what this guy thinks of me. He's very respectful of me, and we get along well. We can get...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can he love me if he only sees me once a fortnight?

He is very busy with work, but I've always believed free time is never given, that it is always made - as there will always be something to do. He says he loves me but how can he love me if only makes time for me once a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shy girl blocks me but stalks me?

Ok, so there's this really sweet but really shy girl I like. She's a little younger than me, and she's with a guy already, so we're just friends. I'm not a jerk to try to cheat with her, and I doubt she would anyway. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to become less approachable?

For the past 2 months lots of older men have been consistently hitting on me. every time I go out on my own to a store, mall, park, friends place etc. AT LEAST one older man will speak to me. Most of the time they're...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I don't like being called "lady" don't people call you that when you're OLD looking?

i was always referred to as girl or woman...and today someone referred to me as LADY and it felt really awkward and wrong because I'm not used to it...and I feel so old and self conscious afterward. I know its just a word...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you think it's weird for high school girls to date younger?

like, would it be weird if a sophomore girl dated a freshman guy. I know it wouldn't matter so much later in life, but what do you think? Just in terms of how people might see it. Like, I'm aware of all the potential...

Anonymous

(30-35)

GUYS: How do you feel about a bob haircut?

I cut my hair yesterday, and in the back it is mid-neck. The front of it is 1/2 of an inch above my collarbone. I actually really like the haircut because I feel that it suits me better than my long hair did (it used to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are backless dresses slutty?

So...i got into an argument with a friend about backless dresses..she kept saying it makes girls look cheap are whorish. I think they look cool link

Cuddle_Muffin

Yoda Age: 95

Ladies, is it creepy or desperate if your crush approaches you while you are both walking opposite ways?

Like you are heading south while he's heading north. In my imagination, it should be considered desperate if not creepy if I go for the approach. Problem is I have dealt with this a lot in school. I see a girl that I find...

yellowmamba024

Explorer Age: 35

Awkward stage after rejection?

Is there anyway to get past the awkward stage after rejection where the two people can't even look each other in the eyes anymore or are they doomed to be forever stuck never speaking to each other again?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do men like weak, submissive girls

after the way my ex treated me I am now a very strong minded, opinionated,open person who will stand up for herself and back then I was a very weak,shy girl...guys I know seem to like girls who act dumb purposely and are...

rachael19

Xper 7 Age: 35

Guy's Behavior

How to tell a girl is interested/not through text messaging?

Is it possible? What are the signs that she is interested in you/not interested when sending her text messaging or Facebook?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would you date a bald girl?

I was recently diagnosed with PCOS, which make me produce more androgens. And that leads to androgenic alopecia, the type men have. I know about the if he loves you he'll accept you thing, but to be in a relationship...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why do romantic relationships bring out the worst in me?

my motto is typically "i don't do relationships". I avoid them at all costs, at least deep down that's what I want. my behavior in romantic relationships or even in close friendships is I have a tendency to become...

supervixxen

Xper 6 Age: 33

Dating

Pros and Cons of dating a guy with a child

I've been getting to know this guy for about 2 months. He just recently told me that he has a child. I'm not really a motherly figure, I don't have the patience for children that other girls might. I think he picked...

DiEms

Xper 6 Age: 34

Girls, do you care if your man's room was messy when you went over?

And didn't bother to clean up when you got there? Does it matter that much to you or no?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Girls, if a guy had to drive a minivan would you date him?

Would it matter to you if a guy had to drive a minivan... maybe because it was a hand me down from his parents and he hasn't gotten enough money to buy something better yet. Could you date him or is that a deal breaker?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Girls: do you always feel bad when you friendzone a guy?

because I just friendzoned a friend of mine who is a good woman, but just not my type and I feel terrible

TedStar

Guru Age: 34

Society & Politics

What do firefighter's wear under their gear?

I am going in for firefighting. I was wondering what do they wear under the gear? How much does the gear weight?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Jealous of crush's Facebook activity?

i feel like a total creeper...but sometimes I can get jealous over the most meaningless things on Facebook when it comes to this girl I like. i recently saw that she posted a random song on a guy's wall she just...

amoda

Xper 6 Age: 35

Dating

Guys: you get that cute girl's number. How long do you wait before calling/texting her?

You meet a cute girl and really hit it off. She gives you her number when you ask and you both go your separate ways. How long until you contact her?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I think I'm harassing my ex boyfriend... Please help me..

a couple of weeks ago, I broke up with my boyfriend, hastily. I told him it isn't working for me, that I'm taking down the relationship status until we can have time for each other, and since we didn't really talk for 2...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it right for my boyfriend to travel with his platonic female friend since he has a girlfriend (me)? or is it OK since were not married or engaged yet?

My boyfriend and I are together for a year and 2 months. We are very close and have met each others families plus we cuddle a lot and he's always very affectionate with me and all over me (even in public) and we do...

Anonymous

(36-45)