All Questions

He calls me his girlfriend but never asked me out??

Sometimes he will say that I'm his girlfriend when he refers to me when we're talking alone. We've been together for a few months but he says we're dating and he wants to see where it goes. Why does he call me this then?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys: Why does he run away from me whenever he sees me?

He's always staring at me in class, eaves-dropping in on my convos...and watching who I hang out with and talk to! It's really confusing cos he acts like he's interested, always staring and then when I catch him he turns...

royal_emerald88

Xper 3 Age: 37

First date - No chemistry. Do you go for a second date?

Guys and gals, imagine you have a first date. It goes pleasantly enough, and after a couple of drinks, you're both having a laugh at least, and there's no awkwardness to speak of. But for whatever reason, there's no...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Do girls flirt by touching and standing close to you?

We were studying together, I've known her for a week now. Passing notes our hands would touch. Flipping through the book our hands would touch. Standing next to each other working out a problem on the board, our bodies...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Jeep or BMW - Which is more sexy?

Which car do you find more "sexy" for guys? The obvious answer would be the BMW since its a more expensive luxurious car but I'm curious as to how many girls find a Jeep more sexy.

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I get over being grossed out by dirty dishes when I clean them? lol

Darn it. I'm trying to clean the dishes and I keep holding them awkwardly cause I don't wanna get any food and germs on me. I hate it, is there anything you can suggest I do? Maybe gloves? How did you get over it?

Kain6th

Xper 4 Age: 42

He stood me up...again

i need some answers. all my friends advice are very contradicting and I'm totally confused. I ve been dating this guy for a month. He is not like any guy I've met. he's not a jerk. He is very sweet and nice. he's a good...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What makes a girl different?

Most guys go through so many girls until one girl changes everything for them and they fall for her. What is it that makes her different then all of the other girls in the past?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I look innocent, good or bad?

A guy I like told me a week or so ago that I look innocent. I think I said something that surprised him because he was like "awww but you look so innocent" not like he was put off by what I'd said but yeah. Any clue?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Why does my roommate (girl) want to wrestle with me all the time?

Even though she's already 19 years old, she provokes me and pokes me on a daily basis. Isn't that childish? I need to defend myself and that's why I wrestle her down and humiliate her. I never let her win (of course), yet...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I've been thinking about you a lot lately. What does he mean?

A guy you aren't friends with ask you to hang out, when your in the car with him he say's something about not getting on the bad side with my dad, then says 'I don't like you like that, but I've been thinking about you a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When a girl tries to make a guy jealous does it ever actually work?

i know most girls get jealous really easily so I guess that's why they're quick to try and make a guy jealous. does it ever work?

xobrowneyedbeauty

Guru Age: 33

Do girls go home with guys they first met at clubs or bars often?

Go home with guys as in letting the guys taking the girls home, not girls going to their own homes with guys. Taking a girl home for me is not my style, I rather take home with a girl's number instead, at least for now...

yellowmamba024

Explorer Age: 35

Why do girls look down or away when I try and make eye contact?

This specifically relates to when I am walking by someone coming the opposite direction. Somebody that I do not know! I could venture to guess two main reasons why a girl would not make eye contact with me. First, I am...

Anonymous

(36-45)

GUYS when drunk, would you hold hands with a girl you didn't fancy?

basically, I got the major hots for this guy but he's very hard to read and gets so drunk he does some outrageous stuff. on the same night he playfully touched my boob (to get a fiver I put in my bra) and walked down the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I hooked up with a co-worker. How should I act around him?

This guy and I have had so much tension between each other for about 8 months. A few weeks ago, we finally hooked up. He said he really had been wanting to kiss me for a really long time. Since then, he's been acting a...

DizzyLizzy

Xper 4 Age: 44

Guys--what topics if any are off limits with your best friend of the opposite gender?

Are there some things you're only inclined to discuss with a woman if you have romantic type feelings for her vs. just a friend? Tell me about them if so.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

If you could invent a holiday, what would it be and be about?

If you could pick the date, and the purpose of any holiday, out of anything you want, what would it be and be about? I think March deserves a holiday, so ill make March 17th a day about World Peace Day. A day where we...

Phoenix1991

Guru Age: 35

Family & Friends

Do guys hate or like that the girl's parents are strict?

its all up there... any girls who have strict parents fill free and say how it has been for you. I have a very strict dad he lets me go out but there is always limits I kind of hate it but sometimes I see it as a good thing..

iveth

Xper 7 Age: 34

What are the pros and cons of dating a Christian guy?

And what about if you yourself have a different faith? He also seems moderately to fairly religious. Any experiences are also appreciated..thanks

Paris7

Xper 3 Age: 37

How does one properly hug the opposite gender?

The poll is for hugs in general, with no meanings intended. :) How do you hug someone... 1) Who you like? 2) Who you're related to? 3) Who you love? 4) Who you're dating? 5) Of the same gender? 6) Who you...

xxxmegan

Xper 7 Age: 34

What does it mean when a girl talks about her ex every now and then?

as the title asks. what does this mean? would this woman still have feelings for her ex? by her talking about him, would this mean that she has set a standard of what she is looking for, off of him? the background to...

sincerelyedward

Xper 3 Age: 53

Guys: Why does a guy avoid the girl he likes and act cold towards her?

He liked me, I overheard him say so but he never asked me out officially and never went out. He was an outgoing guy and would speak to other girls so easily. When it came to me, he would be weird and go all serious and...

royal_emerald88

Xper 3 Age: 37

Family & Friends

Should I marry this girl who has minor thyroid problem ?

She is beautiful but short and is professionally qualified. But she has a minor thyroid problem she says. Has any of you dated a person with thyroid problems ? Are they worse ? I have read that these problems are...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does a wink face ";)" in text messages have a meaning for you?

cause a guy asked me out...i said no, and he said "lol OK then :)" and I said "ok ;)" and he asked me if I was teasing him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Too tired to talk, losing interest?

I've been seeing this guy and things have been going along great. Oh this is a long distance by the way. He's been really sweet to me and calling everyday but this past weekend, he was hanging out with his friends. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My girlfriend keeps talking about her ex boyfriend...help?

what should I do, say or how should I handle it? I've already said that I don't like it, and it makes me feel bad. She often talks about him and even meets him! She even keeps in touch with his family! wtf. She...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys really like natural beauty?

I mean, I'm really natural and feel uncomfortable about looking too fake but I'm yet to have boyfriend. This isn't a "I don't have a boyfriend, my life sucks" rant, I could really care less, but out of my friends I'm the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Texting tone changed

So I've been texting/chatting with this girl that I'm interested in for the last week. In her texts, she always seemed cheerful and casual, so generally just happy. Well today we hung out by going to a theme park, but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Will giving him the cold shoulder make him want me More or Not?

Guys Please advice,I'm in love with this Guy we once had a thing we even slept together once,He works out a lot as well,and we call and Text each other regularly,Until we had an Argument 2 weeks ago and ever since I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Why do only black guys like me?

So I started a new school this year and the only guys that talk to me and like me are black and i just wanna know why?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy says "lol" a lot? I don't get it.

I only say "lol" when something is awkward. Are they really laughing? Does anyone else find "lol" awkward?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys jokingly ask a girl on a date if he doesn't like her?

My guy friend jokingly asked me on a date 2 times already. I have a crush on him but I don't know what he feels towards me. The first time I agreed and we laughed it off and he laughed and said just kidding...the second...

koala7

Xper 5 Age: 32

Do some guys actually take a while to warm up to girl?

Is that because they like her or not? Does giving a girl awkward smiles mean anything? Or if his voice changed to a more gentle voice? If she asked for help, he would help her as best as he can? He share his secret...

htarmort

Xper 3 Age: 37

Relationships

Boyfriend cheated but still won't let me see his phone?

I used to look at my bfs phone and laptop if he wasn't around. That is how I found out my boyfriend cheated on me. We decided to try again and work things out. He has put passwords on everything and keeps his phone on him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Women have more options than men do?

I hate it when they rejected you then they always say keeping trying keeping head up but they don't realize how much rejected really hurt guys. you know why men less approach women? Because we are very fear of rejected,...

jacar288yahoocom

Xper 3 Age: 38

He thinks I still like him, how do I make him believe I don't!

this guy I used to like thinks I still like him, how do I make him believe I don't like him anymore?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Signs he is seeing someone else?

What are some signs your ex is seeing someone else?

nitrochic

Xper 5 Age: 52

Have you ever rejected someone, then months, maybe even years later, longed for the qualities they possessed?

I believe that dating life works in a very complex, unpredictable timeline of growth. When it comes to break-ups, they really suck, but sometimes it's simply just about two people not being correct for each other. For...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a girl says "you're a great nice guy"?

what does that mean? I ask a girl what she thinks about me, she said I was funny, outgoing, and I think your a great nice guy. like is she interested in me, or just saying I'm a good friend. we Haven't dated yet, we been...

legiontext

Xper 5 Age: 41