All Questions

Should I send my crush the song I wrote for her?

We have known each other about a year, and a month ago we got together and ended up sleeping together. It happened at a pretty bad time because she was in the middle of moving, trying to find a job, and saving up to buy a...

smca07

Xper 6 Age: 37

Would you seriously date a girl with an ex-boyfriend's tattoo?

... or lasered remains of an ex-boyfriend's tattoo, that gets more visible with tanning or in other circumstances

Anonymous

(36-45)

Texted to confirm details of date, never heard back

I texted a girl to confirm the details of a date we had scheduled (they were up in the air), but I never heard back from her. I know I shouldn't be angry or mad, or at the very least not show it, but I'm basically fed up...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What can you see are the pros and cons of being a Taxi Driver?

Been thinking a lot lately and I'm really good at driving directions, plus I like driving so why not make a living doing those things? Think been a cab driver is a good idea? Give me some pros and cons.

Robotic

Xper 3 Age: 38

Girls would you cuddle with a guy you didn't like?

I really like this girl and I hung out with her over the summer, and I'm the only guy she hung out with alone. If I came over to her house, or if she came over to mine, we would usually watch a movie, and we always...

thecubeman100

Xper 5 Age: 32

Which old fashion girl is most attractive?

Marilyn Monroe(yes, overreated & overused): link link Sophia Loren: link link link Jayne Mansfield(Mother of Mariska Hargitay): link (on the right) link link...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

Who typically initiates the topic of exclusivity, or a relationship?

When you're dating someone, who typically initiates the topic of being exclusive, the guy or the girl. And how did you go about doing this? Answer based on your own experiences or the experiences of your friends.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

My boyfriend hates my job and doesn't want me to work, even though I've been off work for a whole year!?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years now. We just had a baby 10months ago and I was off work for a whole year. I recently went back to work and it has caused so much friction between us. I'm a...

leahsantos

Xper 5 Age: 42

Family & Friends

Boyfriend never wants to do anything with my family, but expects me to do for his...

Ive been with boyfriend for almost two years. He has met my brother, father and mother once. He wants to always be with his family, but never mine. When I mention mine he says...well you have a car go, or why don't you...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

She kissed me on the cheek? Does she like me?

I'm 25 and always been single because I'm shy, and I met a girl who is 22 and she is shy as well.. we have known each other for 3 months and gone out to dinner and movies 6 times and during all those times we never broke...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why has he stopped contact? Has he lost interest?

I need some advice on a situation with a guy becoming distant. We spoke everyday, texts throughout the day everyday. Asking each other questions and getting to know each other. It became apparent that we were very...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is private school overrated?

Like I don't see the reason why someone should pay 60000 or more to go to school for a name Like there are public schools who are better. I don't believe that going to a private school makes you better.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Do guys like it when girls remember small things about them?

When talking to someone guy or a girl I tend to pick up and remember small things they say they like and dislike or even things they like to do. There is this guy I met a few weeks ago and he doesn't seem, as far as I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Guys, what is your ideal height for women?

girls can answer too, for guys, or whatever you want to add. also put your height. I'm just curious to see what is seen as too short for tall men and too tall for short men in actual numbers. is 5'4 too short for you?...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it really that bad for a girl to hook up a lot?

I'm in college right now, and I'm just trying to have fun. I hook up with a lot of guys...and I mean usually at least one every weekend. The thing is though, I have boundaries. I'm a virgin and I'm saving sex for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Is my flatmate flirting with me?

A month ago I moved into a share apartment with a man and when I met him I felt a connection. When he told me I got the room I was happy because for some reason I wanted to be around him again... His girlfriend crashed...

guycurious2012

Xper 5 Age: 39

My girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend but she still loves me?

I have been with my girlfriend for 9 months and she is a cheerleader for my school. I play football so it sort of fit. homecoming was last Friday and we went to the dance after the game and she said she had to leave to go...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

I'm attracted to deep, complicated guys..are we all complicated?

I've been called an "old soul", I'm a Gemini so I overthink a lot, am very analytical, not very one dimensional, have trouble making up my mind, think and feel deeply about things though I have to really get to know a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you find Ashton Kutcher attractive?

According to some family tree, I'm distantly related to him... but even if I'm not, I find I have some resemblance to him (Including the fact that I'm 21 but look 15). I always thought he was a good looking guy, but I...

Alextricity

Xper 6 Age: 35

I have a crush on my RA and...

Okay well I've been in college for around a month now (freshman) and there's an RA who lives on my floor (he's a sophomore) and his job is to basically build a community among the kids on my floor and organize events and...

jsyk14

Xper 5 Age: 35

What does it mean when two people are attracted to each other but ignore each other?

You know the feeling is mutual through the flirting, conversation and occasional touching. But sometimes you both ignore each other, and its a mutual thing?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What type of girl do 'alternative' guys like?

Most alternative guys I've seen love preppy girls. Is this true for most alternative guys? Why do they only like the preps?

lolalovescandy

Xper 5 Age: 32

Men staring, glaring, gazing, ogling

Guys, do you feel like you are rude if you stare at women? IS it part of your strategy for picking up women? I know there are many questions here that ask "what does it mean if he stares at me"...I'm NOT asking...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do looks really matter more than personality?

It's a question I see a lot on here. Guys and girls arguing about this. So, poll time to answer this question. For me, personality is important. I cannot be with you if you are a douche, simple as. However, I cannot be...

Hidden_P

Guru Age: 34

Relationships

Clingy and Depressed Boyfriend!

Alright, so here's the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months now and it's a long distance relationship. He lives five hours away and we see each other once month for four days. We've known each other...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

I would like to know how to become a female version of a player?

How do you be female player? I'm tired of getting hurt and being the only one in the relationship to be done the ways that I have.. Help me plzz

hannah72076

Xper 5 Age: 36

If a girl says she thinks your interesting what does that mean?

So I met this girl out and we hit it off and she gave me her number. I texted her and asked her out and she said yeah for sure. She used lots of exclamations points in her texts and said I found you real interesting. Is...

kriskiss

Explorer Age: 39

Why does he always wait for me to initiate contact?

Okay there's this guy I kinda like. It took me a while to like accept to go on dates with him. He introduced me to his friends is very open and chivalrous and I'm good to him but not open. I'm kinda a private person. He...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Is a guy serious with you if he talks about kids?

Is a guy serious with you if he talks about having children with you? and joke about how the kid would act me or him? Or is this something that happens in relationships?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do players handle rejection?

Players love conquering new target. If a girl just accept any moves he makes he will quickly lose interest. However, if a girl reject his moves and let him know she really interested in getting to know him. Will that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Anyone who didn't have their first kiss until college?

Wait, I'm still a high school freshman but I'm studying in all girls school so it's quite difficult for me to get a boyfriend or even get my kiss. But I don't wanna wait till college, it's too long for me and I'm...

Lonergirl0506

Xper 6 Age: 29

Guys: What does it mean if a guy says you drive me nuts?

I was talking to a friend over video chat and he kept saying this over and over and was like you "wow, you are seriously driving me nuts right now". I wasn't doing anything annoying I was just sitting there...haha. Answers?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Does Everyone Cheat At Least Once In Their Lifetime?

Does everyone cheat at least once in their lifetime? I feel that everyone knows not to cheat, but things happen, you end up cheating, breaking up, and then realize to never do it again. More of growing pains and lessons...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Does my ex want me back or is he just being polite?

So I ended my relationship with my ex about a year and a half ago. About six months ago we got in contact and hung out a few times & had sex. Then he started dating this new girl who didn't want him talking to me anymore...

Anonymous

(36-45)