All Questions

In your opinion, what is the fine line between playing hard to get and not interested?

Both of them are too similar for me, I can't honestly take them apart and it seems that most women play hard to get, its rare to see a girl who shows interest.

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

Valentine's Day

My ex responds to my texts but doesn't initiate any.

We are in our early 30's, we built a house together, we were engaged. She ended it saying I made her feel unattractive. She struggles with her weight, however her weight was never a concern to me as ar as her looks. My...

AntonioTea

Xper 5 Age: 48

Fashion & Beauty

I have wide hips. Are hips a bad thing?

Are hips a bad thing? I always feel really chunky next to my friend who has a very thin body and straight hips. I wear size one to 3 depending on the brand but I feel much bigger than that because I have wide hips.. is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Who is the coolest person you know/have ever met?

What is it about them that made you think "wow, this person is really cool, I really want to get to know them more"?

MILWJ

Xper 6 Age: 33

Fashion & Beauty

Do women like men who are bulky or lean?

Do Women like men who are bulky or lean? Which is better? Which would a woman fantasize being with?

GymStatus

Xper 6 Age: 38

How can you tell if a girl likes you or if she is just friendly?

I don't know how to read girls so I don't know how to tell.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a guy lightly brush against a girl's sleeve when passing by her?

There is this guy who is in two of my college classes. In one of my classes he sits on the same row as me. I am quiet and we hardly never talk. If he does say something, just to ask me a question about class. When he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Very intense eye contact?

there is this boy at my school and for the past 5 months we have been staring at each other and making eye contact and stuff. Also I know he likes me cause every body tells me he does and he had a conversation to his...

Bryannarocks227

Xper 5 Age: 31

My girlfriend doesn't know that I know her tumblr account and has posted something scretchy

Ive know my girlfriends tumblr account for a while now but she thinks its well hidden. I've found its a good way to learn all the things she won't tell me in person. Recently she posted something about getting a phone...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Cheating Ex-GF sending subliminal messages?

My ex cheated on me about 8 months ago, left me for another guy and I've cut off all contact with her for about 7 months now. I've removed her from my life in all ways possible. So just today I noticed that she has...

brokeninhalf

Xper 5 Age: 40

Other

Ladies, do you flirt with your mouth open?

Sometimes when I see a woman who's interested in a man, and they are talking, usually at a bar or club, the woman leaves her mouth pretty wide open during the conversation. Has anyone else ever noticed this? And what...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a girl brushes onto you when there is plenty of space?

Why would a girl do that? For example I was pointing out a car to a girl asking her if it was hers, and she was standing next to me. So when I pointed out the car and started talking she leaned in closer and brushed her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Haven't really seen or heard from my boyfriend in about 10 days and I'm feeling forsaken, what do I do? :S

we had a date planned last week that he had to cancel at the last minute because of work. He's a profession and he's really starting to break through in his field and so lately he hasn't had much time for anything other...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Which gender "needs" the other more?

This is going off a point made in another question. I'm going to stay neutral for now, but I just want to know what you all think. Do you think men "need" women more or do you think "women" need men more?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What does it mean when a girl says she is blushing via text?

I was texting her before on fb she said that had a bad day. I ask her what was wrong? she said everything. I told her don't be upset and keep that pretty smile on your face. she replied back, "awwww... I'm blushing". what...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you think it's weird that my aunt calls me "Daddy"

I am Hispanic and my unt calls me "papi", which means "daddy" in spanish. My girlfriend learned about this yesterday because she heard my aunt calling me like that and she told me that's weird and creepy.

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend plays minecraft alot.

My boyfriend plays something called minecraft alot, I don't know a lot about, but should I be worried. I mean whenever he's at home he plays it (but he's not a nerd ;D.)

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls: if you hang out with a guy after he says he likes you... Poll!

If a guy says he like you a ton(and you were dating up until the point) but you say you "don't like him more than a friend" and that the "feelings aren't mutual", but you still hang out with him just a few days after he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Are men 'trained' to hate on women?

I read this article on cracked today about how men are 'trained' to hate on women: link Granted, its supposed to be humorous, but I was wondering how much truth is in this? (in your opinion) Here's the main bullet...

windy-rose

Explorer Age: 38

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a guy says he has to deal with his demons before he can have a relationship?

What does it mean when a guy says he has to deal with his demons before he can have a relationship? What do you guys mean by having 'demons' you have to deal with? I'm confused.

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a girl HATES you, does that mean she loves you ?

I mean every time I go up and speak to her she ignores me and today I said "Hey" and she goes "We have nothing to say to one another". And walked off. I bumped into her later and said "Where are you going ?" and she just...

JacksonWonder

Xper 5 Age: 37

Losing interest vs getting comfortable?

What are signs of a guy losing interest vs the signs of a guy just getting comfortable in the relationship?

Anonymous

(30-35)

My girlfriend texts other guys. Don't I have a right to be upset?

My girlfriend texts other guys and I have told her to stop but she keeps doing it should I just dump her (I'm using my friend's account)

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Do girls know when you like them?

I have known this girl for about 3 years now. We started to hang out a lot when me and my ex of 10 years split. After the breakup I started to have feelings for her. This went on for about 7 months. Then something...

drjrd711

Xper 5 Age: 44

Fashion & Beauty

For tall guys, about kissing? :S

Hello, I have recently gotten a boyfriend (well he's been my boyfriend for about a month now) and I've kind of put off the kissing thing only because I'm not sure how to kiss him :S He's quite a bit taller then me (by...

Lemonnie036

Xper 3 Age: 33

My boyfriend has secret emails

I have been getting a weird feeling lately, my boyfriend has been sort of distant and we wouldn't do stuff with me unless I iniate it. I have been hurt very bad in the past so I need to know if I'm freaking out over...

jax2282

Xper 5 Age: 40

When does it get clingy or desperate always starting the conversation?

So I like this guy that I'm friends with, and I find myself constantly wanting to talk to him so I usually start the conversations. It might be through SMS or Facebook or even in person. When I do he responds well but he...

locademierda

Xper 3 Age: 37

When a girl seems nervous around you is that a good thing?

Some women get nervous around me when I approach them, some don't. The ones that don't are very obvious, but what about those girls that look nervous maybe scared around me? So, is that a good thing when a girl seems...

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

Have you ever used 'I'm going to a funeral' as an excuse to get out of work or school?

When you just don't feel like going or you have to do something else but you think they won't let you take the time off if you tell the truth. Have you ever used 'I'm going to a funeral' as your excuse? What do you think...

Kain6th

Xper 4 Age: 42

Ladies, how do you feel about guys that fight?

When I was a younger guy, I got in A LOT of fights. I'm a white kid from a black neighborhood that is also notoriously violent in Boston. I always had a bulls eye on my back growing up being the minority where I was, and...

WhiteSteve

Master Age: 47

Why is being desperate so unattractive? why is neediness, clinginess, so repulsing? why is it such a turn off?

I really never understood why, why does it turn a person off, why is it so unattractive when a person is desperate for a relationship, boyfriend/girlfriend? Shouldn't it show the person you are devoted to them? that you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I become unsheltered in life?

Growing up my parents were always overprotective and strict when it came to my siblings and I, which meant no parties or girlfriends or even staying at a friends place and now that I'm 2000 km away in university, I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)