All Questions

What do shy girls like to hear as compliments?

What do shy girls like to hear as compliments? I know a lot of girls like being compliment on their personality, but I would feel awkward saying something like that (example saying to a girl she's cool because she is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Thinking your cousins are attractive?

This is NOT me asking if you find your cousins attractive. Are you one of those people who can say your cousins are attractive? My girlfriend makes comments about how her cousins are attractive and I find it weird. She...

statusone

Xper 5 Age: 36

Break Up & Divorce

Should I go to my ex boyfriend's mother's funeral?

My ex boyfriend who has been basically ignoring me called me Fri night, drunk to tell me his mom was dying. She ended up passing away last night and I was told by his sister not by him. Let me tell you a quick...

rn116

Xper 4 Age: 57

Sweet gesture? Or some sort of deep meaning?

A guy that I have been talking to for a while now gave me his class ring yesterday and told me to wear it. It's a sweet gesture but, I'm not sure what he meant by it? Is it some kind of guy code ha ha?

AnsaMe

Xper 5 Age: 32

Why are girls attracted to masculine guys? why are they hard-wired, instinctively attracted to masculine guys?

Why? what is the logic in it? why is it that the things, traits, qualities that make a guy "masculine" according to life, society, make him attractive to girls? It's not nearly as important for a girl to be feminine in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it bad to ignore his texts because he ignores mine?

I have already told him that I do not like when he ignores my texts. I didn't come down on him or anything, in fact I was very humorous about it. He was trying to make fun of me for calling him out and I told him "well, I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do eyes really sparkle?

I have heard about a guys eyes "sparkling" when he likes you. Has anyone experienced this? A guy I know used to look at me like that. It seemed like his eyes sort of glittered. I hadn't seen him over the summer and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

He said let's not talk for a while.

I been seeing this guy for 2 months he's cold and hot one say he asks me to meet his mother and then he changes his mind he's 40 and I'm 33 ..then he was really stressed out with his job and he send me a text saying its...

lululemon78

Xper 4 Age: 47

Fashion & Beauty

How do I differentiate a pervy gaze from a longing one?

Can you help me tell the difference between a guy who's staring at me like a piece of meat and one who's staring at me because he likes me? Sometimes it's easy to tell because some dudes (a minority!) just give you this...

saragigli

Xper 6 Age: 36

Family & Friends

Why are some guys so secretive/set a barrier with what they share with a girl?

I have a couple of guy friends I love hanging out with. We see each other every week over dinner or drinks. We've known each other for a year plus. The thing is, unlike my other close friends, girls and gays, we tell each...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girls have you ever rejected a guy but still liked him?

Did you ever reject a guy but you still liked him in some way? And why did you do it? And how could he have had another chance with you? And if you did mean it, would it be final? Does that mean you don't want him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Will I ever find a girl?

I am a 17 year old guy and I'm a senior in high school. I've never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. I go to a really small school and church with a VERY limited selection of girls. None of which I like in that way. To...

Ineedyourhelp

Xper 5 Age: 31

I spoke to my crush, he seemed caught off guard and surprised that I came up to him and started the conversation?

I spoke to my crush, he seemed caught off guard and surprised that I came up to him and started the conversation. He started fidgeting and I got a nervous vibe off him. When I said bye, he raised his eyebrows in a quick...

HoneySpiceSugar

Xper 5 Age: 38

Co-worker flirts with me but complains about her boyfriend.?

I work with a really attractive girl. We worked different shifts for about one year. Now she switched to cashier so I see her a couple times a week at work. One day it was slow at work so she asked me to keep her company....

ThCasualSupernatural

Xper 5 Age: 35

Should I be suspicious of my girlfriend for linking arms with another guy?

The guy is her co-worker and they usually hang out with their group of coworker friends. I was told by someone from their group that during one of their recent hangouts, they separated from the group arms linked while...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do men think foreign women are better than American women?

I read a question earlier and admit that I had never really heard about that before. I was wondering the reasons why men feel this way? I think I got the question I read linked here.

sajajo

Xper 5 Age: 56

Do guys text girls for an ego boost?

I used to text this guy a lot and he told me twice that he wanted to hangout but the 2 times we made plans, he fell and had something else to do. I figured he didn't like me as more than a friend but then yesterday he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys: What is too needy?

I am having trouble of holding on to the guys that I start seeing, I think I might be too needy, not sure. What is a total turnoff for you guys when you are seeing a girl and what to you consider too needy? Is being needy...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Jewish girls: your opinions on Jewish men?

I am Jewish, and proud of it. However, many Jewish men, feel put-off by many personality traits they perceive most Jewish women to have and alienate them from dating, which include sexual prudishness, nagging, and overly...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Taurus man.... confused if he likes me?

I've been seeing a Taurus man for a few weeks now, but it seems that I always have to suggest dates or when to get together since the last date. We hang out around the house quite a bit, have great conversations, and I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

How long does it take for a Pisces man to forgive you & contact you after a fight?

he says he loves me and cares about me yet he does not have time because or his work / life or want a relationship because he's not ready / never had one before we got into a fight a couple of months ago and it took him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend deleted a text conversation with a female co-worker?

He knows I'm jealous and insecure, and sometimes I nag him about cheating. He knows I goes through his phone but doesn't mind, We were laying on the bed near each other and I got a glance at him texting a female...

1a2b3chyfr

Xper 5 Age: 33

What specifically makes a guy boring, too predictable? people say that is why girls reject nice-guys

and what specifically makes a guy fun, exciting, unpredictable, because those are the traits that make a "bad-boy", and why do girls extremely crave, are attracted to guys that are exciting, unpredictable? is it an Instinct?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

My boyfriend suddenly disappeared. It's about a month we didn't contact each other. I miss him a lot.

About 40 days back I called my boyfriend but he didn't pick up my call. I called him so many times but he didn't receive my calls and neither he called back. since than we didn't contact each other. we met each other on a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fun ways to flirt with joggers?

I've been getting into jogging recently and the area I run I see cute or sexy girls running. Many do have earbuds in so I don't bother. But a few don't. I know many don't like to be bothered while exercising but I...

acealmighty13

Xper 6 Age: 44

Would a guy who watches My little Pony/Brony have less of a chance of getting a girl?

Well I never actually tried that show until recently. When I started seeing it all over YouTube and seeing how many people were actually watching it, I decided to give it a try and when I did I found the escape of reality...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a guy plans a date with you 2 weeks ahead?

Is that a good sign if a guy plans a date 2 weeks in advance? I know the question sounds silly, but I just want opinions to confirm that its a good sign...Or other possibilities, thanks!

cookiemonster12

Yoda Age: 40

Society & Politics

Is it an OK look for me to go out with a leg cast on crutches barefoot and shirtless?

The crutches have annoyed my sides and it feels so much better when I take my shirt off. I have got a cast on my left leg and I have hurt the little toe on my other foot so I can't even wear a flip flop on it, the doctor...

crutches

Xper 4 Age: 58

Catching a guy's stare from across the room?

there is this guy I like and sometimes it happens that we are standing in a room and it could be full with people but I would catch his stare and we would be looking each other directly in the eyes does this mean...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

My boyfriend sleeps with his cell phone...is it "okay"?

We have been going out since 3/17/2009, for the past 1wk he has been sleeping with his cell phone...what does this mean

Cindyy

Xper 5 Age: 33

He did it to boost his ego?

He flirted, led me on, and out of no where disappeared, our texts went on for months, he led me on to nothing, false hope. I know girls do this too but what are signs that show a guy does this for ego boost? or what...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

What is the most common female fantasy...if there is one?

I am sure everyone's fantasy is slightly different, but is there normally a common ground for the average female fantasy? If so what is it?

whateverdude

Xper 4 Age: 45