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What does it mean when a guy says he wants to keep his options open?

I asked this guy if he was into me, and he said I don't know it's a possibility, I'm just keeping my options open.

mintysky

Xper 5 Age: 30

What does it mean when girls are playfully mean?

Seriously, what is up with that. It seems like 2 out of 3 girls I meet have this attitude and this way of talking to me. They obviously like talking to me, because they always initiate conversations when I'm just minding...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend goes to vacation by himself, what should I do?

My boyfriend will take two weeks on vacation. I feel like he has his own life, he doesn't need me in his life. But more important, I can't go anywhere because of the stupid visa. Why he can't just come and visit me? He...

serena18

Xper 5 Age: 39

How do show signs to shy guys?

There is one guy who shows signs of interest and he is really shy...and I am interested in him too! but problem is I am shy too... so shy guys! How do you know that girl likes you? and what should I do to show him that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How important are eyes when it comes to attraction?

My eyes are a really dark brown. You can't even see the limbal ring unless sunlight shines into my eyes. Is eye color or having "special" eyes important when it comes to attraction? What's your eye color and which color...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys do you like corsets?

I think they make women look odd when they were them. Do you like them why or why not?

Shameneyes

Xper 5 Age: 31

How do some people never smile or laugh?

I have a couple of coworkers who never smile or laugh. The most they showed was a really tiny and brief wry smile, which I don’t count as a genuine smile (as if they’re just saying “who would’ve thought?”). They did it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy texts you for hours, do you think he likes you as more than a friend?

A co-worker texted me to say "have a nice trip" --- since I was going on vacation. The conversation carried on for about 6 hours (on and off of course) well into his work shift but he continued to talk to me About 50...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My girlfriend texted me "I love you." Did she really mean it?

Well last night I texted my girlfriend goodnight and she responded by saying "GoodNight Babe I Love You" and then after that,she sent another message saying that she didn't meant to write that but she did meant it but she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

No bikinis allowed in youth group?

So my youth group has this rule that the girls aren't allowed to wear bikinis for any water events with the youth group. However, when we hangout together outside youth group, they do wear them when we go swimming. Guys...

HeartofDarkness

Xper 5 Age: 31

Would you date a 5'2" guy?

Simple question, if I told you that this guy isn't the most academically strong, but does pursue what he wants with a passion, is confident in himself mostly, doesn't show his insecurities (although height is one, but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are there any dating websites that don't cost money?

it seems like dating websites I go on they always say the credit card thing its like I'm on the site to meet people not to waste money and I don't even have a credit card so does anybody know any dating websites were you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I be mad if my boyfriend goes to a strip club?

Should I be mad if my boyfriend goes to a strip club? Is it wrong If I tell him in the future I don't want him to go?

xonycutiepie

Xper 5 Age: 39

Ladies: Do any of you like to make a guy beg?

I was just wondering if anyone else enjoys making a guy beg(for anything, not just with sex)? I personally love it. lol I mean I don't do it a lot, but when I do get one of my guy friends to do it, it's kinda hot. lol

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is being a "Pretty Boy" a bad thing?

Never before in my life was I considered a "Pretty Bay". In HS I was a "Skater" and dressed pretty ratty. I worked in construction from 16-21 and then joined the Military as a Paratrooper. All of a sudden I had plenty of...

nlh921

Xper 5 Age: 42

Boyfriend left me for another girl and now wants me back?

He left me in January and then about two months later we got back together and I had no idea that he had originally left me for another girl. He told me he freaked out because we had gotten so serious and that was why he...

shimmer580

Xper 5 Age: 39

Girls, if you don't hate or dislike a guy, why would you treat him differently than everybody else?

This girl does this to me and she just keeps telling me that its because its me. I can never get her to just be that friendly and bubbly girl she is with everybody else, I get the somewhat difficult and sarcastic girl. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ladies: What is it about the Quarterback that you find so attractive?

So I met up with an old friend from high school last night and me and him got to talking about our sports memories. I was always a baseball player for our school whereas he was always a football player and by senior year...

Clipklop

Xper 5 Age: 38

Why is he so consistent?

The first day I met my co-worker, he let me know through his actions that he found me attractive/had feelings for me. Since then, he's been very consistent with me in going out after work and he has given me his phone...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, How do You Feel about Chest Hair on Your Guy?

Hi! I have a guy friend who’s self-conscious about his looks. I won't go too far into the story, but what I want to know is; Ladies, how do you feel about chest hair? Thanks.

monica7777

Xper 6 Age: 33

What outfits do girls think look hot on guys?

My girlfriend always looks really good and I need some new clothes. We're going out later this week. I know some girls say it depends on the guy so I'll link a photo of myself. I am only 5'6 if that helps. link

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a guy turns his back towards you?

I have a crush on this guy, and he does as well but I am kind of shy. So a couple of times when I saw him I walked on by. Now recently, I am stirring up the courage to talk with him, but he turns his back towards me....

angelsofheaven

Xper 5 Age: 51

Are bad boys rare??

girls, are bad boys rare? i think I am starting to becoming more of a bad boy type and less the nice guy type, in the sense that I am becoming more laid-back and less needy towards girls, which I know would give me an...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to become naturally funny?

I am not naturally funny. Most of my jokes and humor I got from comedy shows, reading comedy books or friends. Ive spent a large amount of time memorizing funny peoples sayings, comedy speeches and even translated humor...

MarikYo

Xper 7 Age: 36

Passionate love versus compassionate love?

After reading "The Happiness Hypothesis" by Jonathan Haidt, It came to my knowledge that there exist two kinds of love: passionate love and compassionate love. Check out these two graphs: link link (The first...

knowmeyourself

Master Age: 39

Best women's forum name?

I'm going to make a forum for women 18-35 and I'm trying to decide on what to call it. Here are my ideas so far. Ladies Lounge Powder Room Lush Lounge Short Skirt Saloon Which one is best? Throw out ideas of your own...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys what do you think of 'gothic' girls?

NOT ones that look like this Ones like THIS...I think if done right it's really pretty :)

Anonymous

(36-45)

Just how shy is a pisces man?

i am dating this new man. a pisces. I am confused. a couple dates in and I am getting texts about how he can't get me out of his mind. can't stop thinking about me. he bases his relationships on horoscope compatibility...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Is it possible to rekindle a girls interest in you?

So this girl was very interested in me a year or so ago, but I had a girlfriend. After me and my girlfriend broke up, I thought I would wait a bit to get myself settled then ask the girl who was interested in me out. But...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend hasn't texted or called?

Ok so here's the deal. My Boyfriend is off to his brothers bachelors party, he had warned me that I was not going to exists that weekend. They left Friday Morning and there planning on leaving Las Vegas Sunday around mid...

lulubella7

Xper 5 Age: 38

Do you consider yourself a cultured person?

Do you consider yourself a cultured person? Are you a worldly person?

7gnat

Xper 6 Age: 55

Do you choose friends based on looks?

This is an argument my friend and I got into earlier today. She made an observation that people mainly choose friends based on looks and age. I've honestly never observed this, and I don't do this myself so I told her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

What Do guys think of "bookish" girls?

I've always been one to read in my free time and be pretty comfortable with spending time alone,The type who sit in coffee shops and reads...What do guys thing of this? Yes I have friends, no in not popular. So what's...

lyssams

Xper 5 Age: 30

How do I get over a long-distance crush?

I've lived in the Netherlands for fifteen years, so I know practically everybody in my hometown. I've lived in Arizona for almost a year-and-a-half now, so I don't know that many people yet. Five weeks ago I went on...

missdeboerxx

Xper 5 Age: 31

"The moment you allowed her to confide in you is the moment she stopped looking at you as a man?"

his was taken from this article link So do you agree or disagree with this? why or why not?

Frustration

Xper 3 Age: 36

Girls, do you like the feeling of being 'taken care of' by your man?

Is that something most girls want out of their man? I've always wondered this.

Robotic

Xper 3 Age: 38