All Questions

Showing bra straps, hot or not?

Do guys like when girls bra straps show? Or do they think it looks trashy?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Is "grinding" trashy?

Do you think girls that grind seem trashy? or do you simply consider it dancing?

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a girl strikes up a conversation with you can I take that as a sign of interest?

Every once in a while I'll have a girl start a conversation with me out of nowhere if we're close to each other or waiting somewhere or in line, etc. Sometimes it's obvious, like I was waiting at the bus stop and a girl...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Do any of you moms wear bikinis in front of your children?

I was with one of my girl friends the other day and we were at the beach and she decided to invite her mum along. When we got to the beach her mum got into a bikini and boy did she look sexy as hell! I didn't mind but I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it instinct for men to want to protect a girl?

I've heard that from quite a few guys, and always find it hard to believe. Because if that was true, wouldn't that mean that there was no domestic violence, no rape and no violence towards women at all? So I don't know,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why Do Asian Women (Pakistani, Afghan etc) Rarely Date Black Men?

The rarest interracial parings tend to be South Asian women with Black men. What is it about black men that you Pakistani/Afghan/Iranians find so difficult to be attracted to. In fact, you guys seem to date...

Tukindz

Xper 6 Age: 39

If a person has a tongue tie, does it interfere with kissing?

OK so I believe that I'm tongue tied and I'm just wondering if that interferes with kissing? I mean I can barely stick my tongue out of my mouth. p.s. In case you didn't know being tongue tied is when that thing that...

donthate25

Xper 5 Age: 31

Family & Friends

My boyfriend is ashamed of me beyond belief, what should I do?

We've been in a relation for 3 years, living together for 5 months. He never took me out (EVER!), we always dated at night in his car or at his place, always just the 2 of us. I know just one of his friends and that's...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Recently he kissed another girl. What to do with my confusing ex?

so my ex broke up with me about 20 days ago, but I've still been going to his house, he still wants to kiss and have sex with me. but recently he kissed another girl, I was furious because he still tells me he loves me...

tippsanna

Xper 5 Age: 31

Ladies: Pretty Boy, Tough Guy, or Nerdy Guy?

Okay, would you date a pretty boy, a tough guy, or a nerdy/geeky guy? I ask this provided their personality is within what you are attracted to besides this general ascertainment... I can say I am a weird hybrid of...

Jinmetsu_Rasetsu

Xper 3 Age: 47

Why am I so worried about a promise ring? I love him.

I was wondering if anyone could help me out. I have a boyfriend who's 20 and I'm 19. We have been together for a year and for my 1 year anniversary gift he got me a gorgeous ring that I really love. He said it was a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Will it be rude to ask if I'm wasting my time?

So I've been dating this girl for about a month and a half. Our relationship is good and when we hang out it usually ends up kissing/cuddling/making out. She said she is afraid of commitment. But next time we hang out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When a girl says "I'll let you know"

Hey peeps just trying to get an answer here, I texted a girl earlier on as the previous night we I had arranged to call her, basically I said "can I call you tomorrow night?" and she text back saying "yeah OK ;D" So it...

Gooner1989

Xper 5 Age: 36

Father ended up in the hospital. My girlfriend was not as supportive as I thought she should be.

The other week my father ended up in the hospital. My girlfriend was not as supportive as I thought she should be. Crying because I was not spending as much time with her as normal because my dad was clinging on for...

Phantom_operator

Xper 6 Age: 42

Why is that girls in southern part of the U.S. look more attractive?

look more attractive and have a greater number of attractive women and I guess men to. I live near Seattle and its like my god the women here are not good looking at all and my standards are not crazy either. For example...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I confessed my feelings to him and he hasn't replied back?

I have been casually dating a guy for nearly 5 months now (we live a distance away). At first I was okay with taking things slow and waiting to see if he transferred for work or not before we made things exclusive (he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Sure signs a guy likes you?

I know flirting styles change from guy to guy, but what are some universal signs that a guy likes you? :)

kenzielovescharlie

Xper 4 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

Does 5 days of no contact mean he's not interested?

If a guy doesn't call or text in 5 days is he trying to give you the message he's not interested? when should you just give up?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is being shy a turn off guys?

i was wondering if a girl who is really shy and a little insecure is a big turn off.would you even waste your time on a girl like that?or would you at least be willing to try. once I get to know someone I'm more outgoing...

raineydaygurl

Explorer Age: 34

A "flirtationship". Is it cheating? I don't think it is.

Flirtationship-When you regularly flirt with an acquaintance or friend but do no more. I have a flirtationship with a guy friend of mine and I'm not sure if its cheating. I don't think it is so I haven't told my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He keeps asking me to send him pictures..

He's married, we had a fling while his he and his wife were seperated. He recently started talking to me again and keeps asking me to send him pictures. I haven't done it yet and I don't intend to. I don't know if he is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How old were you when you got your first girlfriend/boyfriend?

dothack

Xper 3 Age: 37

Why do women have so much pressure to look good?

I mean, I realize everyone should put effort into themselves, but it seems like the world defines a woman's worth based on her looks. Women with good looks are highly praised, & other women want to look like them. Not...

TheCheshireCat

Yoda Age: 39

Flirting

My boyfriend has feelings for another girl.

I was talking to my boyfriend yesterday about if he still has feeling for his ex. His exact words were: "I do have feelings for her, I mean I got loved her. But not as nearly as much as the feelings I have for you, In...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to convince my mom to give me my makeup back?

OK about 8 months I got into huge trouble! I was at the mall with my parents and I wanted a mascara I couldn't afford so I stole it (I know it was wrong and I regret doing it 100%) it was my first time ever stealing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hooked up with my ex, what does it mean?

So my ex girlfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago because of some communication and distance issues (she was going to college out of state). She still is attending this college, but is back home for the summer and...

superconfuzed

Xper 5 Age: 36

Flirting

Who should start the conversation?

Who should start the conversation, a girl or a guy? I want to know because this girl I like hardly ever starts a conversation with me, other than in person, and I feel bad that I have to start the conversation, and then...

Anonymous

(30-35)