All Questions

Always called cute, or adorable?

I've always been called the cute one or the pretty adorable one. It's not that big of a deal, but sometimes I would like people to see me as Hot or something a little different. I don't think it's from the way I dress...

amilleman

Explorer Age: 32

Boyfriend material vs Hookup material?

What are the big differences between the two types of guys? Are there any?

Benzema101

Xper 5 Age: 33

Health & Fitness

Are there any guys that think sports bras are sexy?

Just wondering since that's pretty much all I have/wear...or do think I should go out buy some normal push up ones

rossi

Xper 3 Age: 36

Visible stocking tops and or garters?

What are your views on having your stocking tops and/or garter straps showing? Is it a big deal?

34acup

Xper 6 Age: 48

Do guys like being called out on their sh*t (blatant mistakes like forgetting a date, etc)?

If you (GUYS) make a mistake, do you want a girl to call you out then get over it or do you prefer the girl to say "don't worry about it"?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

How would you tame a player?

like to make him stop chasing after other women and just focus on you?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Are raglans and crop tops slutty looking, in your opinion?

Today my friend and I were walking through campus. I was wearing a raglan: link My friend was wearing a crop top: link We walked past the frat house where a bunch of guys were sitting on the lawn. As we walked by...

Red_Raconteur

Yoda Age: 36

Will most guys pick a pretty face and average body over an average face and hot body?

my best friend has had 5 times as many boyfriends as me (we counted). she also gets hit on at least once a day, every day, no matter what. my friend has a really pretty face. she has tan skin, big lips, and small nose,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

What Sport Do Girls Like Watching the Most?

Guys like football and everything else, but what do girls like watching?

cornflake420

Xper 5 Age: 36

Flirting

How do guys feel emasculated?

so, I have been guilty of emasculating men without even knowing it. what do girls usually do to make you feel emasculated?

rigbyeleanor

Xper 5 Age: 34

Other

When a guy doesn't pick up the phone, does it always mean he isn't interested?

I'm confused. When we are together he treats me like a queen. When I do talk to him on the phone he is always apologetic for not calling but still doesn't call much and admits he is really bad at that. He has told me he...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Health & Fitness

Off the shoulder tops-- wear with or without a bra?

I know the obvious answer is to get a strapless bra, but I have yet to find one that fits me well and is comfortable. I intend to buy one eventually, but I don't have it now. Is it better to go braless with an off the...

Red_Raconteur

Yoda Age: 36

Signs of a girl being shy or nervous around you?

Hey, I need some help knowing the signs that a girl who is interested in me, is being shy and nervous around me. Body language, facial expressions, etc. Also, how can I tell the difference between her being shy/nervous...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what does it mean when a guy says he wants to kiss you?

i know it may sound stupid but does it mean he just wants to kiss me and that's over or he wants more than that? it's confusing because this guy is someone that I actually have a crush on and I definitely want more than a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Best setting for a kiss?

I've been on 3 dates with a girl but they were in very public settings that didn't give me much of a chance to kiss her. Hopefully it's not too late. I'm thinking of our next date- what should we do and where should I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Women abusing men, why is it allowed and even encouraged?

Every year around 1.5 million women are abused by their partner. Can anyone guess how many men are abused by their wife or girlfriend? Over 835,000, yes one man is abused every 38 seconds. Do we have any programs...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy calls a girl "my sweet girl [your name]"

so there's a friend who always call me "my dear" when we talk and sometimes call me "my sweet girl" even though just for says good night. we're never going out.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can my boyfriend be attracted to his ''cousin''?

Well me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 years and I just met his cousin she is pretty and has a nice body at first she seemed like a nice type of girl but when I started getting to know her more she seemed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What am I doing wrong during first dates? How do I improve them?

So, I only recently started dating again, specifically meeting girls at match.com for now, until I can meet some at school or bars and clubs. Anyway, my last 2 dates were nearly identical and ended with the same result....

BluMac81

Xper 5 Age: 44

Guy's Behavior

Is this player obsessed with me now?

I started a new job 2 months ago and this guy there has always had a crush on me ( I knew other people that worked there before). I wasn't interested at first because I'm not into casual or anything and I wasn't sure...

bella2217

Xper 5 Age: 38

Flirting

Hug around waist or neck?

Do guys like when girls hug them around waist or neck?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

The asking if she's 'interested' after the first date; how soon?

I'm sure we've all been there, you go on a first date with someone which goes fairly well, and then you, feeling excited about this possible new romance, text the person a bit after the date basically saying things that...

BluMac81

Xper 5 Age: 44

Break Up & Divorce

My ex boyfriend's dad has cancer.

My ex boyfriends dad has cancer, I'm still in shock. We've been talking more and stuff but what should I do to help him... I've never dealt with this kind of thing before and I really want to try and ease some of the pain...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can girls and guys just stay platonic friends forever?

Can girls and guys be just friends? I mean platonic. I always heard that guys always have an “ulterior motive” when talking to girls and wanting to be their “friend”… that they always want it to lead to something sexual...

TheSkyIsFallingDown

Xper 3 Age: 38

Girls are you more flattered when a hot guy checks you out?

as opposed to an average guy?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you get cuts to stop burning?

i cut myself with a razor blade and it burns bad how do I get it to quit I don't have any alcohol and I tryed hydrogyn perorxside and didn't help anything else?

emmyluvzu

Xper 3 Age: 32

My boyfriend is hanging out with another girl and lying about what he is doing? WHAT DO I DO?

Okay so my boyfriend knows this girl and he hangs out with her but he lies to me and says that he is doing something else and when I find out and ask him about he he says they are just friends and he only lied cause he...

NicoleVeitch

Xper 5 Age: 36