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A girl lied about her name & looks to me for many months online-she doesn't know I know yet. How do I tell her?

To make a very long story short, I met a girl online last fall 2010. We didn't talk much, and drifted apart. Spring of 2011 we started to talk more and more, and despite my efforts to not let it, I began to like her. We...

rocketman5988

Xper 5 Age: 38

Guys: when a girl gives you her number randomly, do you find that attractive?

Guys: I'm just wondering if a girl gives you her number without you asking for it, would you call her? girls: what were your experiences if you've ever done this?

tamix0x

Xper 5 Age: 39

How can I invite her over without being creepy?

My parents are out of town for 12 days and I've been texting this girl for a week and a half solid. We are going to lunch tomorrow and I was going to see about inviting her over to maybe watch a move or get in the hot tub...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Scared to end a long term relationship?

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now, but our relationship isn't the least bit functional anymore. We have lived together for a little over 6 months now and things have just gotten worse and worse. Anytime...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Traveling abroad and I will be away from my girlfriend for a month...advice?

I have been with my girlfriend for almost 7 months (10 months by the time I head abroad) and I really care about my girlfriend. We are both 23 and in a fairly caring and happy relationship. We had plans to travel abroad...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

How do I turn my boyfriend into my baby?

I want him to b my baby boy, but I know he'll never want to willingly. How can I convince him and what do I do after he says yes.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How to date when you're fat?

So I know I'm fat. I got it. I'm 5'2'' and 170. But I'm also completely tired of being single. I got out of a relationship about 6 months ago, and I realize that I don't know how to date. (I'm also going to the gym to get...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Is college worse or better than high school?

Is college more cliquey or is high school? Is it easier to make friends in college than it is in high school? In what other ways is college better, or worse, than high school in terms of socializing and interacting?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Job interview at a tanning Salon, what to expect?

Okay so tomorrow I have a job interview at a tanning salon, what are they going to ask me and what should I say. and wear. Or anything else you wanna tell me. thanks[=

amilleman

Explorer Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

Why pretty girls get played so much?

I am a normal looking girl and I have a friend who is so pretty. I am in a relatioship and it,s all good. But she is so gorgeous an like NO LUCK with the guys..he meets a lot of guys..but seems liek they all want one...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Guys is it weird when a girl texts you first?

i text my crush out of the blue sometimes everyday he never says anything agaisnt it and he always keep the convo going but is he just being nice or do guys like to be texted or is it creepy?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does a guy mean when he says He's "testing you"?

I was talking to this guy and he said he wants to go out with me but he "waiting" and "testing" me.. I'm trying to figure out what he means.. Someone help me

Anonymous

(30-35)

This guy likes me, but why is he ignoring me?

When he walks by I say hi and he says hi too, without even looking me in the eyes. He ignores me, doesn't do anything to get in contact with me, yet he still looks at me most of the time and a friend asked me what I...

driftangel

Xper 5 Age: 31

Guy stares into your eyes?

What does it mean and what is he thinking about? thanks!

Anonymous

(30-35)

Asian girls - how come they have such small bodies and big heads?

And I mean Korean, Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese. Why? Was that a sort of requirement for survival in those regions? As it is with African people to have big lips and wide, flat noses so that the wind wouldn't blow the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do biracial guys mixed with white and black like black girls who are not whitened up?

It seems like most biracial guys who are half black, half white are attracted to women who are not black and if she is black, then she's mixed or light skinned with a good perm or a long weave. I don't think I have ever...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean if a guy asks you your age?

Pretty much in the middle of a conversation... Does it mean anything? Because no guy has ever asked me that question before and I found it weird.

Anonymous

(30-35)

He didn't show up for our date. Ditched or what? I need to fix it.

I had this date with a guy, we were texting each other on the day of the date, and then 2 hours before the date, the texts just stopped, and he never showed up for the date. Just out of the blue... Could there be any...

confusedchick90

Xper 3 Age: 33

Does it take a big man to apologize, or just a weak one?

cjwright79

Guru Age: 47

Good way to hide a wrist tattoo?

I'm getting a tattoo on my wrist, however I just found out my new job doesn't allow visible tattoos. This one(the tattoo-my first) is really important to me and I've basically set my mind on it. So how could I hide it...

MWalsh89

Xper 7 Age: 36

Do you play fight with your bf/gf?

Hi guys, So last night I was in a playful mood SO I BEGAN playfully tickeling my bf...let me say this again PLAYFULLY. He statrts to laugh & I pull his socks off and he's rolling in laughter...we start lightly wrestling...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What underwear do ladies wear when they are wearing short jean shorts?

Just wondering, some of those shorts are so short that girls/women can't possibly wear bikini style underwear can they? So out of curiosity I was wondering what style do underwear do you ladies wear under short jean...

ComputerTech22

Xper 3 Age: 38

Is there any possible way to know if a guy likes your body?

Ok kinda confusing but is there any possible way to know if a guy is attractive to your body as well? He calls me cute/pretty. He's always staring at me while I work out and he used to be my personal trainer. I've caught...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I am so lonely and can't find a boyfriend?

I'm 22 and sick of being alone,I really just wish I was dead.Its been a year since I split up with my boyfriend of 3 years and I hardly get any attention from guys now.The guys that approach me are either twice my age or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

What to write on a note when giving a guy your number?

any suggestions people? He's really shy and his work mates already take the p*ss out of him maybe liking me.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Can any guy decode this first date behavior?

I went on a first date last week which was amazing but I had some minor details that I was hoping someone could provide insight on: 1. I noticed as I was driving that when I'd turn to look at him he was already looking...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

I feel like I'm being toyed with, emotionally. Anyone been in a similar situation care to share their story/help me with mine?

I feel like I'm being toyed with, emotionally. Of course, by my ex girlfriend. She will say one thing and her action is will back it up, but then other times she'll say hurtful things or things that don't make sense...

themastaplan

Yoda Age: 39

What does it mean when a guy says "we" and "us" a lot?

I've been noticing lately that my boyfriend is always referring to things in his apartment as "ours" or he'll say something like "we have some new pans now." And when he talks about stuff in the future (near or distant)...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

I'm 23 and getting braces. Is that a turn off?

Hey ladies. I've been putting off getting braces for years and now I'm finally coming around to getting them done to fix my teeth. what's your opinion on guys with braces? Will I have to start wrestling bears bare handed...

MrEM4N

Explorer Age: 37

10 months no contact and she reaches out to me, now what?

Long story short. I had a crush on this girl we had an emotional connection and things became to complicated between us. She had a boyfriend and I'm a nice guy. I didn't want to be the other guy. We'd talk when we had to...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How To Stop Embarrassing Myself in Front of Guys?

So I am one of those girls that always makes the worlds largest idiot out of herself, in front of cute/hot guys. The conversations always take awkward turns, a guy will wave at me and I freeze and don't wave back, guys...

Sn105

Xper 4 Age: 31

Acted crazy, now he's ignoring me?

I acted crazy toward the guy I was seeing . Very bipolar one minute I was nice the other I was acting like a psycho girlfriend. And I tried to apologize because my hormones were messed up by birth control. I sent him and...

alexisjamal

Xper 5 Age: 37

Health & Fitness

What do girls think of real skinny guys?

Are girls turned off by skinny guys and only like real muscle guys. Cause once a girl told me that I was too skinny for her and didn't want to date a guy that was skinnier than her. And that hurt. What is the big deal as...

kriskiss

Explorer Age: 39

Are Arabic girls snobby or is there a certain way to approach them?

In my school there are a few very cute Arabic girls (Lebanese I think) and I don't know if they are just snobby or what because I tried talking to on before and she smiled but didn't converse yet I saw them all joking...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My friend never really initiates plans, and when I do make plans they want me to come to their place.

how do you handle a friend who always wants you to come and see them? they don't really make plans but say you are free to come whenever. Then you always have to go and see them because they prefer to stay in the...

Anonymous

(36-45)