All Questions

Do you ever regret ending it with your first love?

Do you ever miss your first love? Do you wish things ended differently? Would you ever date them again in the future? Do you regret breaking up with them? If you knew they had some interest in you, would you want...

irishgirl21

Xper 5 Age: 32

Why does my ex-boyfriend still worry about me?

Mid-February my boyfriend that I lived with broke up with me. He had been working out of town and met another woman. He is now officially in a "relationship" with her. With any other ex it's pretty easy to move on however...

SEG0151

Xper 5 Age: 41

Why don't girls look at me when we walk past each other?

I look at every girl I walk past and most the time they just stare straight ahead. I have been called good-looking, hot, handsome, cute, so is it something other than looks the reason why they ignore me? But, why none of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Guys with big butts?

Lately I have noticed something rather strange and I've never actually taken notice to this before. Every girl I meet keeps telling me I have a big bum! I don't know whether this is a good thing or a bad thing but I'm...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

My friends birthday is tomorrow and I don't have any money, any ideas on handmade gifts?

I definitely need to get her something or she'll be upset, but I don't have the money. Is there anything I can make that has value to it?!

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

What to wear to morp?

morp is a high school dance that you don't have to dress formal but it's more like a dress up dance. this year's theme is: When you were young, so you need to dress up like when you were a kid, any good ideas of what I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Why do people want to be friends with their ex's after they dump them?

I'm sure people have heard this before, but it's just confusing to me. I've been dumped and the women that have broken up with me say how I'm such I great guy and that they don't want me out of their life. I know...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend got jealous of my friend (guy) and is ignoring me now?

I didn't think he gets jealous but I guess that's because I never mentioned another guy until now. He knows most of my friends are guys though. He was getting mad at me for always going to him when I have problems because...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

"Kisses like a fish" What's this mean?

One way that girls have criticized guys' kissing styles is by saying certain guys "kiss like a fish" or that kissing them "is like kissing a fish". What's this mean? How do I prevent myself from kissing like a fish?

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy is confused about dating his current girlfriend and his ex?

What does that mean about the way he feels? If he misses his ex so much while dating the new girl, what does that mean about the relationship with the new girl? And do those feelings about the ex matter?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

What do you think if a girl farts a lot?

Guys, if a girl farts a lot, like I mean, every day and a LOT, would you not want to date her? Even if she were pretty and had a nice body?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls chase guys?

Please explain your votes! :) Do you ever go after the guy or do you let him do all the work? If you do chase, what makes you want to chase him? What do you do? If you think he should do all the work what would you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

What do senior guys think about freshmen girls?

In high school. I'm not a freshmen but I know a ton of senior guys who are dating Freshmen girls. And don't tell me "maybe they like her as a person" or bull sh*t like that. Do senior guys like Freshmen girls?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

He constantly mentions having children?

I'm crazy about the guy that I'm seeing, and I can tell that the feeling's mutual. Lately, he's been talking a lot about how I'd make an amazing mother, what he thinks he'd be like as a parent, how many kids he wants to...

HotPepper302

Xper 4 Age: 37

When men say "I Love You" do they really mean it??

My boyfriend used to say " I love you" all the time but now I feel like I am the one who says it first. I was just curious if men lie when they say these words or do they really mean it and I should take it at face value?

sadlilcountrygirl

Xper 5 Age: 40

Do guys find shy girls or outgoing girls more attractive?

Even though these are totally different personalities.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do older women like full beards?

I have a friend who can grow a very nice full beard which makes him look in his 30's easily. When he had this full beard older women would check him out all the time. Most of them, soccer moms in their 30's or 40's. So...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

How many of you change your phone number after a bad breakup?

And isn't that a tad drastic...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does XOXO mean to you?

I know that XOXO first initiated as "hugs and kisses" but does anyone else use it as a different meaning? I once heard that guys and girls use this as a way to say "i love you" without the words..I kind of thought that...

Eiffelgirl21

Yoda Age: 36

Break Up & Divorce

Is my ex husband trying to make me jealous, just be cruel or does he have regrets?

My X cheated on me. I tried to work it out for over 2 years but the other woman was still in the picture. We were HS sweethearts and have 2 kids. He moved out one year and I filed a few months later. He was mad I filed....

peanut03

Xper 5 Age: 57

Why keep flirting with me if she doesn't like me or want to go out? What does she want out of this?

So I met this girl at work and we were flirting hard, coworkers were telling me she wanted me kind of hard. We texted a bit then went out for coffee, afterward she went hot and cold and shot down a chance to go to a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Sugar Daddy Relationships

I am 22 and I am dating a 40 year old doctor. We don't have your typical boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. We meet a few days a week and have a nice dinner and enjoy a few cocktails, and some passionate, GREAT sex to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Girls: Have you ever cheated on your boyfriend? What made you do it?

1) Were you in love with you boyfriend? 2) Did you have feelings for the new guy? 3) Did the new guy know you were in a relationship? 4) Did you ever do it again? 5) Did you ever tell your boyfriend?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, what are some signs a guy feels protective of you, even if you aren't dating?

I still don't know if this guy I like actually has feelings for me or not, it's hard to read him. So I wanted to know if there's anything a guy would subtly or unconsciously do to be protective of you when you aren't...

Quorra89

Xper 6 Age: 36

I think guys, men, should never cry, never get sad or depressed, those who do are weak, have no spine.

and I mean over anything, whether his girlfriend/wife died, his parents died, his pet died, or if he gets shot, stabbed, or severely injured in any way, a guy, or man should never cry or get sad, get depressed over...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Really like this guy, but feel like he's too good for me?

I have this guy friend and I really like him as more than a friend. He knows this, and he's so sweet about it, he tries so hard to make sure that its not awkward now that I've told him, and we stayed friends and we...

FashionNerd

Xper 3 Age: 32

Do girls like big shy guys?

Yeah I'm 6"2 and pretty big, NOT FAT, and I'm pretty shy, I was just wondering if a girl would like a guy like me.

fball

Xper 3 Age: 36

Fashion & Beauty

Is it possible for the nerd to get the hot girl?

Is it real or is it fake? What you see on television all the time, the nerdy guy getting the hot girl of his dreams. Is that only a fantasy or is there hot girls out there who would actually give the ugly nerdy guy a chance?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys confide in their brothers?

I talk to my sister about everything when it comes to potential relationships, but I don't have any brothers. Do brothers talk to each other about potential relationships? Who do guys typically talk to about these things?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm not afraid of rejection, I'm just afraid of being labeled a creep or stalker, how can I avoid this?

I've never had a girlfriend before and I'm in my early 20's, it is very depressing, sad, and frustrating. Also, I'm not really afraid of approaching girls, I also keep running out of things to say or talk about, but more...

Anonymous

(36-45)