All Questions

Are shy guys a turn off or turn on for you?

I am mildly shy and I think I'm kind of crappy at picking up cues from women..like when they show interest or perhaps when they want me to approach. so ladies, basically; what do you do when your trying to get a guys...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I want my boyfriend to talk to me more?

we have been together for two years. I don't like to complain if I ask for one thing I feel like I'm complaining. all I want is my boyfriend to text me more. it would make my day if he would just say good morning...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a guy be nice, then mean, then nice again?

A guy at my school (university) was really nice to me at the beginning of the year. First he rambled on and on about random things that didn't make sense in the elevator, and always held doors for me. Maybe it was just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

How can I stop being predictable with my girlfriend?

so my girlfriend knows everything i say or do. I'm getting boring, I need to be exciting so she won't be bored. and specially so I won't be predictable. What can I do. Girls what would you want a relationship to be like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Is it possible my former teacher likes me?

I'm in a very confusing situation. I am 17 and will be graduating very soon, and I'm not sure what to make of the behavior of one of my former teachers. He is in his forties, so he's MUCH older than me, but I never really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Drake?

Why do females like this guy? You know, the kid from Degrassi, who's now a rapper. I mean, I think he's decent looking, but not anything above average---I know a lot of guys who are much better looking. That alone...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex boyfriend says he's happy with his new girlfriend

OK my ex and I broke up in April after over 5 years and I found out recently that his girlfriend that he claimed he had only been with since April he was seeing her since January so he cheated on me so I have told him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy scratches your scalp?

like not scratch but like puts his fingers and like rubs it ? like I don't know wtf that's called. and if they keep constantly touching and squeezing your knee and if they keep squeezing your face and cheeks and if they...

imsoclueless

Xper 5 Age: 34

Family & Friends

My girlfriend says she wants a break after 3 years?

I've been with the love of my life for 3 years...no problems...no fights...just love all the time. then out of the blue she tell me she doesn't think our relationship is healthy for her anymore and she needs space...i...

slammin19

Xper 5 Age: 41

When a guy says 'I love you the way you are', does he mean it?

My boyfriend tells me he loves me the way I am and I'm perfect to him. But when guys say this is it just to keep us happy or would they rather we looked more like the hot celebrities and were thinner and prettier..etc....

Fayeberlene

Xper 5 Age: 33

Girl's Behavior

I wish girls would ask out guys first.

I never know if a girl likes me or not, and I'm too ashamed to ask or make the first move. Who agrees ?

Mr-Blob

Xper 5 Age: 35

Shopping & Gifts

I've never had a birthday party, am I that unlikable?

My birthday is this month and I've realized I've never had a birthday party, never had any friends round for my birthday, NO-ONE ever seems to make any effort on my birthday at all. When I was little my parents would...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My husband's friend flirts and stares at me a lot?

my husband's friend flirts and stares at me a lot and I need to know y ? and I also find myself dreaming about him to y is that? then when when I flirt back he tells me that my husband is his friend and he will tell if I...

2sweet365

Xper 5 Age: 45

He compliments me a lot.

is that normal?

hesaysim2sexy

Xper 4 Age: 43

How do I get revenge on my evil aunt?

I live with my uncle, aunt and their daughter. 1. She terrorize me by sending insulting message about my appearance, my style, and my crush! 2. She provoke my boyfriend to ruin our relationship. 3. She stir up...

AngryBirds

Xper 3 Age: 37

Dating

After a fight, if you don't return my call is it "take a hint" time?

I was seeing a guy for 2 months. Then we had a nasty argument, well, really I was the one that got nasty and said horrible, mean things to him. Truthfully, I had PMS and the next day started my period. I don't know how...

wantthetruth

Xper 5 Age: 57

Girl's Behavior

If a guy turns down a hot girl, does that mean he's gay?

i've been going after this one guy for awhile, but he keeps turning me down. all my guy friends say that he must be gay because I'm super hot and any guy would be lucky to have me. I asked if this was true on YA and all...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is my best guy friend avoiding me, or am I just feeling paranoid? Please help!

OK, so we have known each other for about a year, and it has always been great. We always joke around, tell each other stuff, so I could say we were pretty close. He even said on several occasions that we are good...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it means if a guy cancels a date at the last minute, not once, but twice?

So here's the thing me and this guy been going out every weekend and its been fun, this weekend we have plan dinner and it was my turn too cook. He act all excited and keep saying he couldn't wait 'til Saturday... Well...

Lilix

Xper 5 Age: 44

Family & Friends

Why didn't she tell me she had a boyfriend? what do I do now?

so I saw this girl last night at a party that I haven't seen in years. In fact, she was my senior homecoming date, but we never really hit it off. Last night we were flirting the whole time, and she made sure I got her...

BDub89

Xper 5 Age: 36

Break Up & Divorce

Out of sight, out of mind?

I've been implementing no contact with my ex boyfriend (we broke up a little less than a month ago) for slightly over 2 weeks now. I even deactivated my Facebook, but for other reasons besides just him, though he was the...

onebeautifultragedy

Xper 5 Age: 35

Marriage & Weddings

My big (sorority sister) just got engaged and I can't be happy for her because I want to cry....

Her and her boyfriend have been together for 6 years, but she is only 20, and I'm 19 so of course I'm upset, I'm just not in the mood to hear about her marriage, or wedding plans or anything when I am struggling to get a...

Lucky1227

Xper 4 Age: 35

My boyfriend won't answer my Facebook messages?

OK well we have only started dating recently (3 or 4 days ago) and I know he is quite shy... But I have sent him a message on Facebook and he hasn't replied... and I know he has been online, because he has had recent...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does a guy mean when he calls you "good looking"?

So I am talking with this boy and we both like each other, and he called me "good looking". I don't know what he means by this...like what is the difference between "good looking", cut, beautiful, hot.. etc. Please I'm so...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Guys, do you consider seeing a movie alone together a date?

A co-worker asked me to see a movie tomorrow but he didn't specify whether it was a date or not. What do you guys think? Do guys ever go to the movies alone with a girl platonically?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys get complacent in relationships??

I have been dating this guy for 5 months now. He is really sweet and we get along well. He is always telling me he doesn't know what he would do without me, and how much he loves me. He used to always tell me how...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is the difference between hot, pretty, cute and beautiful?

Guys, is there a difference between calling a girl hot, pretty, cute or beautiful? As a girl I tend to pick up on different meanings like if you call a girl hot its more in a sexy way like she's 'do-able', whilst pretty...

Fayeberlene

Xper 5 Age: 33

Do girls try out underwear and bikinis before they buy them?

I would never put on a pair of briefs if there is a chance that a guy has had them on before me.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Meeting up with Long Distance Ex, good/ bad??

I broke up with someone 2 months ago, it was long distance, we only broke up because we were incapable of doing long distance although we both really cared about each other...anyways, I am going to be in his city for a...

Eva8686

Xper 6 Age: 40

When a shy guy likes a girl, how does he look at her?

1.) How does a guy really look at the girl he likes? if he is shy too... 2.) If he doesn't like a girl, will he look a lot at her? 3.) If he doesn't like will he take the time to stare sometimes? 4.) Why do you feel...

lovecraze

Xper 6 Age: 33

Family & Friends

Should I be suspicious of my boyfriend texting his ex-girlfriend?

see he is friends with his ex's and I'm cool with that but see this girl broke up with him. I feel like he is hiding something from me not sure.men I really need year input on what I should do

tifftiff

Xper 5 Age: 33