All Questions

Girls: Do you prefer a guy to be laid-back or ambitious?

Let's say you've just met a guy, or you're going out on a casual date with a guy you recently met. Does it make a better impression for him to come off as very ambitious or really laid-back? I'm not just talking about...

markml

Yoda Age: 43

Do most men dislike their girlfriend's/wife's male doctor?

I've been seeing my family doctor for upwards of 13 years. He was the first doctor I saw when I moved to my current location. My boyfriend isn't possessive at all typically, so I found it odd when he got upset that I was...

xhelloxkittyx

Xper 5 Age: 38

What is your pep talk or preparation for asking someone out?

What do you tell yourself before you ask a guy or girl out? What keeps you from being afraid of rejection or (what I tend to do --->) telling yourself that you might annoy the person or weird them out or whatever...

Stella5555

Xper 5 Age: 38

Break Up & Divorce

Guys: ever stop trying to get your ex back even if you really love her?

So my ex was sending me sweet messages saying he misses me so much. However, he stopped and now I feel like he just forgot I ever existed. I feel so depressed because even though we're broken up, it feels good to have him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Why is it the woman's job to do the cooking, cleaning and taking care of the house, taking care of the kids?

It's weird and hypocritical, because women don't want a lazy man, women don't want a boy, they want a "man". Women want a Leader, because women are naturally, instinctively, programmed to be looking for Men that have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend is on house arrest. How can we make our relationship exciting?

OK, so my boyfriends on house arrest and we've been dating for a while... he has 2 months left to go. We're just running out of things to do. Not saying that our relationship is boring, but I wanna know what I can do so...

paiigexo

Xper 4 Age: 35

How do I tell if she is sincere?

I'm a guy and my girlfriend says she's in love with me and has never felt like this about anyone and wants me forever. I'm 17 years old btw. how do I tell if she is sincere about it? she says stuff like she whether we are...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How often should you text/I.M. a potential girlfriend?

I'm fairly confident that a girl is interested in me, and I'm obviously interested in her. I keep hearing that guys should always initiate conversation and whatnot. How true is that? Whats the line between showing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

First Time Meeting His Sister?

I know many of you have experienced meeting your new boyfriend/girlfriend's family for the first time. If all goes well (you have to know my shy boyfriend who really only slightly suggests things but he would leave...

Rachel_SK

Xper 3 Age: 51

Dating

Is there any good guys out there?

i know that question seems a little extreme but honestly I'm losing faith in the male gender, I need someone to convince me that not all guys are cheaters or just looking for sex. all the guys I seem to find that all they...

arigosandorito

Xper 5 Age: 37

He's 19 and I'm 21...does it matter?

were both mature but is it wrong to like someone or even go out if were apart by that age?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

My girlfriend is trying to get me to break up with her, someone help?

She told her friend that she was going to try to p*ss me off so I break up with her but first she said she has to find another guy. Like I don't want to lose her but what the hell am I supposed to do?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, how would you like to be approached by your college chemistry lab partner?

So I have a crush on my lab partner in my college chemistry class. I'm not sure how I should go about getting some time with him outside of the chemistry atmosphere. Guys, what would you like? I'm not sure if I can...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Should I tell a long distance friend that I like her?

I met this girl on MySpace and have common love for football. we been messaging for bout a 1yr and half now and recently met up @ gm. ever since I can't stop thinking bout her we text and chat about gms on the phone and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

What can people eat if they have braces?

I never had braces, but my friend does. What are some of the things you can/cannot eat with braces? Would you be able to eat nachos? Or Churros? Or a corn dog?

Joeycat

Xper 5 Age: 36

Is it a bad thing if a guy calls you a tease?

OK I have been flirting with this guy for a why and he says I'm a tease...is it a bad thing? what does that even mean?

missjazzyband

Xper 5 Age: 34

Should I hug him around the neck, or the waist?

so this crush I have hugs me non stop. the other day we had like a 5 min. convo and my friends who were across the room counted that he gave me 6 hugs! the only thing is he hugs me with his arms around my neck, and I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

The girlfriend wants to meet up with her ex?

My girlfriend asked me recently if I thought it was OK if she and her ex had dinner on Friday. She said that she "wants to have a good relationship with him" but that she's "willing to work around my reaction." (They...

marcotomas

Xper 6 Age: 43

Which do men prefer, shy or aggressive women?

I'm just curious. Which of these two traits that men like the most.

jolei_cutie

Xper 4 Age: 45

My girlfriend says she loves me but doesn't care about me. is there hope?

she says that she loves me but never in 18 months has she asked me to come to hers or stay over at hers. I want to see her as much as possible and would give every second of my spare time to her , yet she's happy to see...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

Do guys like it when girls tell them they like them?

This guy and I were talking since new years and we finally hung out Saturday and it was really nice and fun I met his family he met mine and stuff. So Sunday I texted but he didn't really seem into the conversation so I...

kipperlove3

Xper 5 Age: 35

Fashion & Beauty

Do guys really care/notice how girls dress?

Do guys really care/notice how girls dress? I mean do you guys judge a girl by her shoes? Me and a co-worker got into a discussion at work about our shoes. I have sensitive feet and in an insole so I usually just wear my...

KatieisGirlie

Xper 5 Age: 35

Fashion & Beauty

Why Do Guys Go For Looks?

You guys always deny the fact that you go for looks and that it's the personality that matters the most. Quit lying guys...you know that looks are more important to you than anything else. Okay, women do go for money...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She says she needs to figure herself out, what does that mean?

So I've known this girl for 10 years. We have a romantic past and she was dating a friend of mine. her and I hooked up and she then broke up with him. She claimed she was doing it for herself but I feel like that may...

bt8888

Xper 5 Age: 43

Dating

Is dating a soldier a plus or a minus?

I'm enlisting in the U.S. Army in a few months, and I'm curious if it is a positive thing to girls or not. Obviously it comes with both good and bad so I'll break it down into pros and cons as I see it. Pros: steady...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend seems to be ditching me a lot for his friends? Why?

So, lately my boyfriend is ALWAYS with his friends. But its only been VERY recently that he has been doing it. Its like he changed all the sudden. before, he would never want to leave my side. now, He ditches me and the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do women prefer? direct compliments or indirect compliments?

like would you love if a guy just comes outta nowhere and directly compliments you about how sexy your looking or would you rather prefer something like ,"Oh your skin is so soft and I find women with soft skin very...

amatuer_zombie

Explorer Age: 36

I told her how I feel and got no reply?

Problem is I made two big mistakes, I did it over Facebook whilst she was in work. She was taking ages to reply and as soon as she started typing I wrote "dw, its all gravy" and then logged off. Bad move by my end but I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My crush makes me feel like crap. what to do?

I know he likes me back, but the thing is - the more we talk, the more I feel like complete crap. He tells me about how his ex girlfriend and her friends think I'm so ugly, he makes fun of my 'mustache' which I honestly...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

If You Were a Guy For A Day What Would You Do?

Well, I'd start with the usual guy things...wake up and scratch my bits, go to the toilet, pee on the seat and not have the sense to actually wipe my mess up, scratch myself some more...the obvious - sex with a partner...

xoXjCthEc

Xper 5 Age: 33