All Questions

Ist normal that I don't want to be in a relationship?

It's been 3 months since we broke up. I'm okay but I feel I just want to be single and have peace of mind maybe for long time or until a quality woman appears. Reasons I want to be single and I don't find quality woman ,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend is changing and I don’t know what to do?

We moved in together and I think I’m getting all the real ness now. he’s younger than me and never lived alone. He seems to want his mother and father around a lot and he got super excited because they asked us for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

In British English, is c*nt a common slang word?

As an American, I rarely, well, in fact, never have heard this word being used in real-life. When I consume British entertainment or happen to chat with a British person online, I often see "c-nt." Do they view it as...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fart shaming is completely valid?

I’ve seen people say you shouldn’t “shame” people for bodily functions. Typically in the context of an SO/partner. Shaming includes : acting disgusted, getting upset, asking them to do it less, and becoming less attracted...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is my ex boyfriend suddenly talking a lot to this guy who has a crush on me?

So my ex boyfriend left me for his ex crush almost 7 months ago. I’ve been respectful of his decision though he lied and did me wrong. I did not want to hold any grudges on him or his ex crush (who by the way super...

Gabrielle9823

Xper 2 Age: 26

Other

Why does everyone keep telling me to get a job when I'm trying to?

This is really annoying and it's actually affecting my dating life. Honestly I'm not even trying to date, but a guy I'm talking to and my ex... literally both of them tell daily to get a job or they say, "you need a job...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What is your biggest turn off?

Kate200005

Xper 4 Age: 35

Girl's Behavior

Gym Girls, why do they look at you?

In the gym I notice more and more Girls kind of staring at me. I Am not a succesfull person with the ladies. I actually have been told a lot that I am not attractive by Girls and they didn't look at me at all before too....

friendzoned4life

Xper 5 Age: 31

Who cheats the most: boys or girls?

sandeee

Xper 2 Age: 25

Guys, do you secretly like to be dressed in women's clothing? And makeup?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

What does it mean if I have ketones in my urine and I am probably anorexic?

I went to the doctor for my possible anorexia I don’t have diabetes but it says i hate “ketones, leukocytes, and cloudy urine” anyone could tell me what that means? I read leukocytes and cloudy urine could mean i have an...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do you think of my nails?

I just joined here in hope to meet cool people and make new friends to pass time as i’ve been told so. @Caramelpie well bestie I finally joined as you asked me to, hope you’re satisfied now.😜😜

Sugar_7

Xper 5 Age: 22

Why is he acting like this?

This guy, I’ve been speaking to for 4 months but we haven’t met but was going to. So we planned a date and he was being a bit off after so I realised (my mistake, and I regret it) I lashed out at him and said I don’t...

Bratz1109

Xper 1 Age: 28

Would you care if your husband/wife wore booty shorts in public?

my shorts were similar to these and he was upset saying it’s disrespectful. I wore this to dollar general which was down the street.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, what do you think is the sexiest song ever?

Of all the great love songs, romantic music, and sultry soundtracks, it's hard to pick one that stands out. But, since I know what I think the sexiest songs are, (tell you at the end), I an to know what you ladies think....

USMC-Crossroads

Xper 7 Age: 43

Anyone know how to stop obsessing over appearances so much?

I can’t help but care about my looks, and I obsess over it. I seek validation online and I don’t like that I do that. I care too much about what people think of my appearance, how do I stop? How do I quit being so...

ooglyloser

Xper 1 Age: 22

Other

Do you think covid-19 will ever be eradicated?

dudeinohio

Master Age: 61

Flirting

How to deal with creepy uncle?

Everytime I see my uncle I get these weird compliments. He always tells everyone how beautiful I am and he always wants to touch me in some way. He compliments my legs and he calls me a supermodel. It just gets to the...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Did watching this video sadden anybody else? Should these jackasses be fired on the spot?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/av3NhU07Rsk I’m not somebody who hates Police officers but this arrest was just plain wrong. The guy offered to prove his innocence several times to them but they didn’t seem to care. It...

White_Boy_506

Xper 5 Age: 26

Education & Career

Help deciding a life path? What would you pick (can't do both)?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Black Lives Matter Co-founder living large and luxurious?

Apparently Black Lives Matter founder is fleecing the flock and using financial donations from their supporters under the guise for the social justice movement to buy personal mansions and homes. 😏...

Hispanic-Cool-Guy

Master Age: 40

Am I hideous? Why does no one ever comment on my posts?

People always ignore my posts on howdoilook and never even bother telling me what's wrong with my looks or how to fix them..

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

Can you pass the Special Operations Fitness Test?

80 push-ups in 2 minutes. 80 sit-ups in 2 minutes. 15 pull-ups in one set. 1 mile run in 6 minutes 30 seconds or less. 1 km swim in 20 minutes or less. 12 mile march with a 45 pound backpack in 3 hours or less....

Physics-Man

Guru Age: 36

I’m depressed because I don’t have a girlfriend and I don’t know what to do?

I feel so incredibly lonely it hurts I’ve tried using dating apps but apparently I’m too ugly for them. I don’t know what to do I hurts

Anonymous

(25-29)

What type of beauty do you prefer: supermodel, Instagram, or celebrity beauty?

These are just examples of course

ooglyloser

Xper 1 Age: 22

Flirting

Does this waitress like me or was she just flirting in hopes of getting a good tip?

For lunch, my co-workers and I went to this sports bar across the street from our job. We used to go once a week, but we hadn’t been in about a month. As soon as we get in and sit down at our usual table, our usual...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does he stay with her and don't judge just opinions please?

I told my married affair partner of 5 years I'm tired of sharing. That I love him but its effecting my sexuality with him and I'm losing my passion. He immediately threw up. He couldn't speak for 20 min. He stared at...

Janedoe25

Xper 6 Age: 51

Family & Friends

Guys, how would you feel if your woman told you she wanted to be a stay-at-home mom?

I would love to be able to be a stay-at-home mom; even if it’s only for a season. I talked to a guy recently and he quoted this: “I would make my future wife work outside the home because I would want her to have a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Religion & Spirituality

How true is this quote for you? Can you explain?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys love or hate cellulite on women?

I’m genuinely curious

FictionalCharacter

Guru Age: 36

Other

Have you ever given up a hobby or interest after several years?

Have you ever given up a hobby or interest after several years, whether due to a loss of interest or life circumstances that prevented you from participating in them any longer? I am leaving behind a hobby I've...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you ever worry other girls or guys will take your lover?

I don’t worry about that, I’m so kind and selfless, I don’t ever think I will ever get outmatched by another more attractive girl.

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

Are incels and men that hate on women really just closeted?

SmokinAces2000

Guru Age: 25

Girls, At what age would being a virgin be a deal breaker?

This mostly applies to girls in their 20's and 30's. If you're on a date with a guy and learn that he's a virgin, how old would be for you to consider it creepy, strange, or uncomfortable to where you couldn't be in any...

n0denz

Xper 2 Age: 38

Are Trump supporters too stupid to know the difference between the White House and the Capitol?

Capitol insurrectionist Douglas Austin Jensen was too stupid to know he was at the capitol when he posted a selfie video during the insurrection saying "This is me touching the fucking White House, this is why we’re here"...

Anonymous

(30-35)