Just be completely honest start with either "I have something I need to talk to u about" and go into what ever feel needs to b said he'll kinda get the clue with just those words or " I have really cherished our time together but I really need to focus on me and my studies so I feel I can't have this relationship because of that reason and I wanna break up I'm sorry if I have hurt u but I have to put me first and it wouldn't b fair to u that I'll b too focused on my school and myself" I personally used the second on my ex and it turned out better then it could of cuz he wasn't expecting it really too plus he was a depressed person who had anger problems
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Tell him that you're concentrating on studies and think the relationship is a distraction and that you really need to concentrate right now. This should initiate space between you two, then later say that you should take a break and break up. If he still insists that he wants to be with you all the time even after you want space, then he's suffocating you, and you are in the clear for a breakup because then he's too clingy.
Whatever you do, DON'T tell him you want to be friends. He's going to ask you a bunch of denial related questions like he thinks there's another guy in your life. If it helps him fuck off, fib and say there's another guy. Most guys can't wrap their minds around the fact you prefer to be alone than be with them. They have an easier time thinking there must be "someone else."
About a year ago, I wrote a myTake about how to break up:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a11588-some-practical-advice-for-how-to-break-up
Tell him that you can't have a relationship and focus on school at the same time, and school makes more sense in this stage in your life.
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Ouch. That's gonna hurt no matter how you do it. But I'd advise you just be honest and tell him straight out. It'll hurt a lot, but it's the best way to do it. There's no gentle way to do this.
"I have to tell you that I know you love me but the thing is I don't feel the same. It's just the way it is. I wish you all the best but we can't be together anymore." DO NOT SAY "LET'S BE FRIENDS" OR AGREE TO IT
I honestly don't think you should break up with him, I think you both just a little time away from each other (not break up). But if it's what you want... hit him with a pickup line.
ex: Roses are red
Violets are blue
Garbage is dumped
and now so are you. <3this was me a few days ago but um were back together... anyways i was just like 'we gotta talk and im saying this because i care about you and its not fair on your behalf to be in a relationship where its one sided..."
He cheated on you and talked to you that way? What tell you he is head over heels in love with you?
Break ups are never easy. The easiest is a clean break. Be nice about it then cut all contact. LD? phone call or video chat.Oh god I hated that talk. We ended up both cry, ditching class, and just cuddled on my bed for the last time
Oh no just be honest as gentle and direct as you can, tell it is over and why. To start with maybe an old school "Look there is something we need to talk about"
Just go straight to the point, tell him you need to talk. And don't lie, just tell him exactly how you're feeling.
Hey sweety i dont really romanticly like you anymore dude to reasons blah blah blah you make up the rest
Use the super cliche line "We need to talk" that will already send an alarm in his head saying "this is bad"
Say "remember how you thought I cared about you at all? wow where you wrong..."
roses are red, violets are blue, guess who's single again, why, it is you!
Give him an Xbox power cord and hold out a ps4 and tell him to connect the two and turn the ps4 on. When it fails and he says "it doesn't work, the two aren't compatible at all" you can say "that's how this relationship feels" and then you walk away.
Just start arguments all the time and then eventually just say you aren't happy? Lol
You gotta just do it! Tell him you're not looking for a relatonship right now
Be honest with him. That's all guys want in a relationship. Tell him how you really feel. Just tell him like it is.
Don't worry. He doesn't like you either. The moment you tell him that you don't like him anymore is the moment he will begin to hate your existence. Just get to the point. Don't waste anymore of what little time and energy he has left.
You might have to be brutal.
No secret dude. You just gatta come clean.
Tell him this: "you aren't good enough for me. get lost, i could find a better man in my sleep."
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