A decision! we are adults already to realize what is heading to us from the start..so whatever comes next comes from our own will..from the start,no matter who started it! not a mistake,could be taken as a mistake as the result of the decision is some cases... Free will!
Its a decision. You don't have to do it. & nobody is saying you have to, I see where she is coming from with the mistake, but she was probably just saying that to make it sound not as bad.
I dont. She intentionally did something unintentional? or vice versa... Sounds like calling it a mistake is like saying, I am the tallest dwarf, or the shortest giant... Oxymoron...
Answer me this: Can YOU Unintentionally do something intentional?
it is a bad decision... unless you are seriously effed up in the head you know exactly what you are doing... you also know the consequences of potential decisions... I seriously don't understand how someone who cheats can say it was an accident...
I can't even choose between you two Polls there. Life is spontaneous and some times we get caught us in moment and well there is to many situations where this can happen so I think both and more.
Definitely a decision, and a decision of the heart. If you can cheat on someone, you don't love them enough to be with them. And if you think you do, you need to tell them, break up and figure out who you are, and why you did it. Maybe you need to spend more time learning how to make yourself happy.?
No uch thing as mistakes when it comes to the heart.
Man...for now without a girlfriend I would turn to every hot girl passing me! so I guess its not that hard to play around :P.. but really I'm if a girl truly loves me I would do the same with her and I dare say I won't cheat or ever see any other girls anymore
It's completely a decision. The person later realizes that his or her actions were a huge mistake, but that person had control. The decision was a mistake, a bad decision, but a decision all the same.
I say this because the person who is doing the cheating is self aware of the situation but they just don't in particularly care. I would find it hard to believe if they came up with the excuse: "I just couldn't control my feelings". Hardly an excuse at all.
I'd rather end a relationship than to be cheated on. But usually life works in strange ways. There would be pain, yes, but the pain wouldn't hit as hard.
I don't think so... The way people use the term "mistake" implies that they think it was not their fault and would like it to be a "write-off"... I don't think it is EVER a mistake at all... A decision that yielded an undesirable result once discovered. With most cheaters, it was not a mistake until they were caught...
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A decision! we are adults already to realize what is heading to us from the start..so whatever comes next comes from our own will..from the start,no matter who started it! not a mistake,could be taken as a mistake as the result of the decision is some cases... Free will!
it's definetely a decision.
a mistake is something you don't mean to do.
cheating on someone can't be an "accident".. so such thing.
Its a decision. You don't have to do it. & nobody is saying you have to, I see where she is coming from with the mistake, but she was probably just saying that to make it sound not as bad.
I dont. She intentionally did something unintentional? or vice versa... Sounds like calling it a mistake is like saying, I am the tallest dwarf, or the shortest giant... Oxymoron...
Answer me this: Can YOU Unintentionally do something intentional?
it is a bad decision... unless you are seriously effed up in the head you know exactly what you are doing... you also know the consequences of potential decisions... I seriously don't understand how someone who cheats can say it was an accident...
it's afreaking decision... guys and gals don't walk down the street, trip over a uneven pavement and 'fall into sex'...
Just as I said... LOL
it's THAT freakin obvious doe...
I can't even choose between you two Polls there. Life is spontaneous and some times we get caught us in moment and well there is to many situations where this can happen so I think both and more.
Definitely a decision, and a decision of the heart. If you can cheat on someone, you don't love them enough to be with them. And if you think you do, you need to tell them, break up and figure out who you are, and why you did it. Maybe you need to spend more time learning how to make yourself happy.?
No uch thing as mistakes when it comes to the heart.
Man...for now without a girlfriend I would turn to every hot girl passing me! so I guess its not that hard to play around :P.. but really I'm if a girl truly loves me I would do the same with her and I dare say I won't cheat or ever see any other girls anymore
It's completely a decision. The person later realizes that his or her actions were a huge mistake, but that person had control. The decision was a mistake, a bad decision, but a decision all the same.
Definitley the only times that people say its a mistake are people not owning up to their failures...
I totally agree.
yeah my dad cheated on my mom he regrets it but wouldn't say he made a mistake... it was a decision, just a bad one
If you regret it, it's a mistake.
If you repeat it, it's a decision.
Never say never 'cause your life isn't over yet. End of story.
for me, cheating is a decision, you wouldn't put your self in a position where you could cheat if you didn't plan it out even a little.
Cheating's a choice. You decide to cheat. It's a mistake too, but it's a mistake you decide on doing :)
Don't cheat, it's simply not cool :)
to me cheating is cheating everybody will have there opinions so you can't accept for people to agree with you cause it is a bad decision
It is a decision because they choose to cheat. They have the power to not cheat, they just did for whatever reason.
I'll say no to the song...
It's definitely a decision.
I say this because the person who is doing the cheating is self aware of the situation but they just don't in particularly care. I would find it hard to believe if they came up with the excuse: "I just couldn't control my feelings". Hardly an excuse at all.
I'd rather end a relationship than to be cheated on. But usually life works in strange ways. There would be pain, yes, but the pain wouldn't hit as hard.
It can be a mistake if it happen once but if it happen multiple times then it's def a decission
You CAN'T unintentionally sleep with someone! It's a decision. And a really crappy one at that.
I picked A,it really depends on the situation really.It can be a mistake in some cases if you make it one.
I don't think so... The way people use the term "mistake" implies that they think it was not their fault and would like it to be a "write-off"... I don't think it is EVER a mistake at all... A decision that yielded an undesirable result once discovered. With most cheaters, it was not a mistake until they were caught...