if you still love him what is stopping you? I had a similar situation except reversed. and now we are like crazy in love. You need to follow your heart, and if you feel like you need to get our of his life, then give him a serious talk. Lose his number, erase him off Facebook or Myspace if you have one. but if you still love him, you love him girl. Love isn't an obstacle, not listening to your heart is.
I think it's best to cut off all contact until you are both completely over eachother(that could take anywhere from a week to several months) but then it shouldnt matter whether you want to be friends
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im friends with my ex there is nothing wrong you just have to learn to let go that's what I did it was hard but I got through it and me and him till this day I still kinda miss him but what can I do he has a girlfriend and he is happy but all I do it just ignore it its hard for me because I have a lot of feeling for this boy he wass my first so yeaa it was hard for me but I kinda got over it... but just try and not to thinkk of him! that's what I did and it kinda workkedd!
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if you guys are going to be friends you both need to move on first
Usually its the girl that wants to be friends with her ex and the boy is trying to lose the baggage...
if you still love him what is stopping you? I had a similar situation except reversed. and now we are like crazy in love. You need to follow your heart, and if you feel like you need to get our of his life, then give him a serious talk. Lose his number, erase him off Facebook or Myspace if you have one. but if you still love him, you love him girl. Love isn't an obstacle, not listening to your heart is.
I think it's best to cut off all contact until you are both completely over eachother(that could take anywhere from a week to several months) but then it shouldnt matter whether you want to be friends
im friends with my ex there is nothing wrong you just have to learn to let go that's what I did it was hard but I got through it and me and him till this day I still kinda miss him but what can I do he has a girlfriend and he is happy but all I do it just ignore it its hard for me because I have a lot of feeling for this boy he wass my first so yeaa it was hard for me but I kinda got over it... but just try and not to thinkk of him! that's what I did and it kinda workkedd!