Questions: Break Up & Divorce

Wife and I divorced about 6 years ago due to her infidelity (caught her in bed with another woman, she tried to justify it with 'it's not cheating if they're of the same sex' ).

We have 50/50 custody of our son, who is 16, and I pay a small amount of child support only due to shared custody, and alimony is not a thing here. I also pay for bigger expenses for him myself.

Since the divorce, I've done well for myself, getting a substantial promotion to the point where I'm making a lot more than the pair of us combined when we were married, and I've got a few investment properties.

Recently, I was diagnosed with a certain stomach issue that's going to require surgery and a good 6 months off work. My doctor said the surgery has a pretty high success rate, but just in case, make sure my affairs are in order.

I talked to my lawyer and so now everything I own is in trust, with myself as a sole beneficiary, and if I pass, my lawyer will administer it. If I die, the trust will continue to pay child support to my ex up until he turns 18, then, everything will go to him - properties, assets and money. If any large expenses related to my son crop up, my ex-wife can take a receipt to the lawyer and he will verify it is a legit expense for my son's benefit and reimburse her half. NOTHING will be given to her if I pass.

I sat her and my son down to explain this, and instead of being concerned about my health - I would have thought 10 years of marriage would have made her care a little, but boy was I wrong. She hit the roof when finding out how things were structured, she said I should essentially leave everything to her and she will look after our son, but well, she's terrible with money and is trying to do anything she can to not have to work for a living.

Our mutual friends and relatives are split, some agree I did the right thing, some believe I should leave her _something_ as she is the mother of my child.

Am I in the wrong or not?

Ladies if you've been with a wonderful man even married to him for about 6 years, treats you right with a great personality, he works on a job that's $14 an hour

Now let's say a rich millionaire man paid you his about of funds for you to leave him and start a new life with the that rich man, would you do it?

I have a feeling a woman would because majority of women are gold diggers who wrongfully measure a man base off his income