I kind of feel the same and I think it's because of the low self-steem and self confidence which reflects in my body language so girls read that sub-consciously and that makes them back down from me. :D :D
at least you've had a boyfriend before, look at me, I'm 22 and still single, always have been, I struggle to get a date or girlfriend, sucks for me more since I'm a guy and we have to initiate.
Maybe they feel threatened by u? However, it doesn't really matter what their reason is for not asking you out, at the end of the day, it's their loss for not asking you out, always remember, keep your head up, your eyes open, and your legs shut, there's a lot of not very nice people out there so don't be in a rush to get a guy, take your time and be picky, after all, it's better to be on your own than it is to be with someone and miserable, the right guy will come along for u don't worry 😊
You seem to only consider looks when it comes to attracting guys. In spite of what a lot of guys have said here, that is not all that is important.
Personality is also very import. You said you were shy. Perhaps some guys interpret this as being unfriendly. Try smiling at guys. Flirt with guys you are interested in. You need to let them know you are interested. If you just sit there and don't talk, then they will assume you're not interested in them.
You have to give off the vibe; I'm sure there are guys who are as shy wondering if you like them but don't have that confidence. Or your standard are too high girl!
If you want the guys to ask you out try asking him or them out itโs not in stone that guys have to ask girls can do the same thing you need to work on your shyness anyway so go get them. And good luck 👍
i feel exactly the same, girls just seem really disintetested even on tinder and in person. all my friends are moving away from me and i think its all about the confidence.
You don't have to be attractive to get guys. You might want to learn how to not be shy and gain some confidence. Turn the table and make the first move on the man.. see how that works.
I have a similar problem, analyse your personality. Maybe you just need to talk to guys more. In my case a friend told me that guys were to intimidated to ask me out.
welll...a guy is probably not asking you out because he has either heard things from you and doesn't like it or he thinks that ur taken...it can also be like if you got with one of his friends he would think that would be screwed up...maybe you should just be more outgoing and stuff...or maybe they are just shy and YOU need to be the man in the situation and go talk to themm... :)
I think the question you need to ask yourself is this:
Do you want a legitimate relationship, or do you simply want to feel desired by men?
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Love comes around, wait for it. No matter what you change about yourself you are still standing in the same corner, your fate is one and you cannot change destiny, all you can do it grow stronger, be ready to handle it while you wait for it.
There are a lot of people in that situation and I dont think you are ugly. I am sure there are people who like you and finds you attractive everyone has someone who will like them.
Boys like crazy girls who do weird things. Don't change yourself if you are not getting a boy. Be patient real boy that is really your soul mate will come to you on perfect time.
Maybe you should be more self-confident and at ease in being yourself and in having a sense of humor with strangers. I've always thought that liveliness is most sexy in a woman.
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I kind of feel the same and I think it's because of the low self-steem and self confidence which reflects in my body language so girls read that sub-consciously and that makes them back down from me. :D :D
at least you've had a boyfriend before, look at me, I'm 22 and still single, always have been, I struggle to get a date or girlfriend, sucks for me more since I'm a guy and we have to initiate.
Maybe they feel threatened by u? However, it doesn't really matter what their reason is for not asking you out, at the end of the day, it's their loss for not asking you out, always remember, keep your head up, your eyes open, and your legs shut, there's a lot of not very nice people out there so don't be in a rush to get a guy, take your time and be picky, after all, it's better to be on your own than it is to be with someone and miserable, the right guy will come along for u don't worry 😊
You seem to only consider looks when it comes to attracting guys. In spite of what a lot of guys have said here, that is not all that is important.
Personality is also very import. You said you were shy. Perhaps some guys interpret this as being unfriendly. Try smiling at guys. Flirt with guys you are interested in. You need to let them know you are interested. If you just sit there and don't talk, then they will assume you're not interested in them.
You have to give off the vibe; I'm sure there are guys who are as shy wondering if you like them but don't have that confidence.
Or your standard are too high girl!
If you want the guys to ask you out try asking him or them out itโs not in stone that guys have to ask girls can do the same thing you need to work on your shyness anyway so go get them. And good luck 👍
i feel exactly the same, girls just seem really disintetested even on tinder and in person. all my friends are moving away from me and i think its all about the confidence.
You don't have to be attractive to get guys. You might want to learn how to not be shy and gain some confidence. Turn the table and make the first move on the man.. see how that works.
I have a similar problem, analyse your personality. Maybe you just need to talk to guys more. In my case a friend told me that guys were to intimidated to ask me out.
welll...a guy is probably not asking you out because he has either heard things from you and doesn't like it or he thinks that ur taken...it can also be like if you got with one of his friends he would think that would be screwed up...maybe you should just be more outgoing and stuff...or maybe they are just shy and YOU need to be the man in the situation and go talk to themm... :)
Be confident, friendly, and enjoy being single; be yourself someone will notice and
hopefully you will like him too :) and you will hit it off.
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I think the question you need to ask yourself is this:
Do you want a legitimate relationship, or do you simply want to feel desired by men?
Love comes around, wait for it. No matter what you change about yourself you are still standing in the same corner, your fate is one and you cannot change destiny, all you can do it grow stronger, be ready to handle it while you wait for it.
Be patient. In the meantime, enjoy yourself. Be confident that the person you're searching for will come
There are a lot of people in that situation and I dont think you are ugly. I am sure there are people who like you and finds you attractive everyone has someone who will like them.
looks like we're in same boat, do you go to college too by chance? Feels like a slap in the face lol
Usually, I show no interest in some girls because sometimes I don't find them attractive, and also they're already in a relationship.
You've got my interest.. maybe everyone's sleepwalking around you. It's just a matter of time till the right people start coming into your life...
Boys like crazy girls who do weird things. Don't change yourself if you are not getting a boy. Be patient real boy that is really your soul mate will come to you on perfect time.
Maybe you should be more self-confident and at ease in being yourself and in having a sense of humor with strangers. I've always thought that liveliness is most sexy in a woman.