well I have done the exact same thing with a guy long back. I met him once, didn't find him up to my standard. Then without quoting any reason I banished all my contacts with him. He wasn't worth, therefore.
At our age, I wasn't shocked by this. Not much shocks me anymore, but I was a bit surprised because she gave me the very strong impression that she enjoyed the first date as much as I did. Oh well, live and learn!
From what hear it's usually the guy that will ghost. And usually after some time with them. The problem with telling BSC you're dumping her ass is that she's liable to stalk you and make your life a living hell. Or vandalize your car. Or show up at your work claiming she's prego. :)
But yeah, one would think a properly matured adult woman would just say 'hey, I changed my mind.' They do that a lot anyway. LOL
On update... Consider if the woman is BSC enough to just ghost then you likely dodged a huge bullet. There's no magic to this stuff. If they bolt they have their own reasons - they are NOT your problem. I quit taking on anyone elses problems a LONG time ago.
YOU deal with your own problems! I'm not making them mine. :)
@Toad-1 Ghosting only means that you don't tell them you aren't interested in a second date. The alternative to ghosting is not a second date; it is telling them that you aren't interesting in continuing. Do you understand that?
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Nah, never found out what was wrong but it was ok, i found someone else nice and crazy.
No because i never took a girl on a date or for something Like coffee 😅
maybe she got shot on the way home my guy. Rip mystery girl 2015
Actually, I checked the Gainesville papers the following week to see if there were any crime reports of murders, abductions, accidents involving her.
Ah. Honestly man I git no other ideas. Feels bad though
well I have done the exact same thing with a guy long back.
I met him once, didn't find him up to my standard.
Then without quoting any reason I banished all my contacts with him.
He wasn't worth, therefore.
Ah, the mysteries of dating... :)
At our age, I wasn't shocked by this. Not much shocks me anymore, but I was a bit surprised because she gave me the very strong impression that she enjoyed the first date as much as I did. Oh well, live and learn!
From what hear it's usually the guy that will ghost. And usually after some time with them. The problem with telling BSC you're dumping her ass is that she's liable to stalk you and make your life a living hell. Or vandalize your car. Or show up at your work claiming she's prego.
:)
But yeah, one would think a properly matured adult woman would just say 'hey, I changed my mind.' They do that a lot anyway. LOL
On update...
Consider if the woman is BSC enough to just ghost then you likely dodged a huge bullet.
There's no magic to this stuff. If they bolt they have their own reasons - they are NOT your problem. I quit taking on anyone elses problems a LONG time ago.
YOU deal with your own problems! I'm not making them mine. :)
That's such a crappy thing to do, how rude 😕
I've been ghosted a lot end of
nope. but then again, i dont go on much dates
I haven't had that experience.
sounds spooky, i don't want to try
No never. I do the ghosting.
Why?
ego im betting
@Toad-1 Because I only deserve the best guys.
And that does not require that you ghost guys.
Of course it does. Why would I waste my time with someone who clearly does not deserve me?
Because that's what any decent human being would do...
@Toad-1 Ghosting only means that you don't tell them you aren't interested in a second date. The alternative to ghosting is not a second date; it is telling them that you aren't interesting in continuing. Do you understand that?
Yes but that still doesn't mean it's a good thing to do
@Toad-1 It's good for me
yes ugh
Multiple times haha
No '-'
Nope.
um nope
no i dont do that
Yes.