I cheated on my boyfriend... should I let him know? (Page 3)
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Can you live with yourself if you dont tell him? Think about that and if you can what kind of person are you? Do you want to be that kind of person?
Are you really searching your soul here or just bragging about your lack of loyalty, conscience and self control?
Don’t break up with him but tell him if he finds out later he’s gonna be so pissed that’s how murders happen
Most chicks who do this will only break up with him once she's done using him. So I recommend breaking up with him when he has no use for you anyor like other women do. Don't tell him.
A and C,. And why do he can change himself if that's why you cheated
If you did t feel guilty you wouldn't be asking
Nope; and if you will never cheat him again, dont tell that to him.
So if you got cheated on, you'd be ok with your partner not telling you. What if she caught something like herpes or aids and didn't know she had it?
@AnnaCavallii I agree with you I totally disagree with his answer... that's really the immature thing to do, this lady owes it to her boyfriend to tell him...
Right? Such a selfish and immature thing to do, if you're bold enough to cheat please have the same energy to tell the truth. I see why he has that username now
That's the right answer. Being cheated on is a humiliating experience. As an act of kindness spare him that. Whether you keep him or dump him.
@Wally48 women can't underarand what i mean :)
If you CHEATED there is no act of kindness, especially covering it up and lying about it. How is that kind? you're way passed being kind here. Only a COWARD creates a bed he's afraid to lay in. BE MEN!! This lady wasn't thinking about being kind when she was bouncing on another's Guys dick! It's not humiliating for him, but for herself.. she's knows this already
You're correct! A WOMAN can't & won't understand what you mean as it is bullshit. A cheating coward will agree with you though. Dont ever have a daughter, you're the type of dad to know her boyfriend is cheating and will let her be blind by it all because you're afraid of her feeling "humiliated"
@AnnaCavallii @xButterflyKisses87x
İf you delete completely ur lover from ur heart after a mistake; you will have never a constant lover in ur life.
İ never suggest you that cheating is OKAY; but i am trying to tell, "be positive towards mistakes and never lose ur love easily".
To me?
İf my lover cheat on me physically with another person; İ won't forgive this. But if my lover makes a mistake in our relationship and regretting on it; sure i will forgive her when she convinces me that she will never do similar things...
@AnnaCavallii @xButterflyKisses87x
İn society; people must be careful on their reactions not to humiliate anyone. And believe me; these kinds of rude words, reactions never fit on a woman.
Just telling...
All of that is irrelevant. If you cheat, Own it.
@AnnaCavallii "If you cheat, Own it." You're absolutely right. And that's why you don't go blubbering back to your partner confessing and looking for forgiveness only to assuage your conscience. That only comes at your partners emotional expense; insult to injury. Your penance is guilt. Either dump him or do better by your partner.
Yeah but it's a pretty good thread.
Break up.. if you cheat.. you are not loyal to him..
You don't love him.. because if you would love him you wouldn't hurt him like this
She dosent care
@weaponsdude AND HOW DO WE CALL THAT?
Narsacistic personality disorder
You can love someone and still hurt them.
@bente2 than.. you don't love him enough... Sorry but cheating is a choice.. and when you fuck up... the loyalty is gone.
Yes. That I can agree with.
@bente2 hahah, Yeah.. i really hate Guys and Girls who cheat.. it's a lack of respect in my eyes... Hiding it is keeping a extremely sensitive secret from the person who you really love.
No she's not... if she REALLY loved him, she wouldn't cheat. Sensitive my ass... might as well stab the mf'er.
Yeah and break up with him so he can find someone better
Break up with him as you obviously are bored with him
I think breaking up is best option since he is going to have trust issues.
It's fair you should tell him. He doesn't deserve this
Just tell the poor sap, its only gonna make things worse the longer you keep quiet about this.
you should tell him and then break up with him, because you clearly dont love him anymore
You did a bitchy thing right there, ofcourse you should lol.
Is that even a question? Of course you should. And then pack your stuff and fuck off.
And be sure to never approach him ever again.
Let him know. You deserve everything that comes your way
You disgust me. I hope you get pregnant by another man and the man leave you and doesn’t pay child support
If you loose him... Hope it was worth it and you didn't catch any STD's from it.
I don't know why you started cheating but you're going toward your path to self destruction
Let him know and leave him for good.