Would you ever leave a partner because they gained significant weight? (Page 3)
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I prefer a partner who is not overweight but I would only leave them because of weight gain if they gained 50+ pounds or more and refused to try to lose it
If the person is being lazy and careless after expressing concern to them, then we feel that we would leave. This would be after urging them to be healthy. I (wifey) would not be satisfied if they got so big that their dick looked like a baby carrot and his boobs are bigger than mine. I (hubby) would be straight to the point and tell them if they are not all in at the gym and putting 100% effort into getting in shape so they can always ride me all night like a cowgirl.
I want my partner to be physically healthy. If they are unhealthily overweight, it is an indication to me that they cannot take care of themselves, and thereby can’t be relied on to take care of me.
i'd leave them if they're not willing to lose it again. i'm not so fussy about weight but at some point it is too much.
Naah Never because if she's gaining the weight then it's just because of my love 😍😚 and if she's loosing weight that's also because of my love 😉😚😚😚😚
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It really comes down to the other person's self identity and value that they hold towards themselves. If your partner is actively gaining weight and shows no interest in losing it, then they're likely not happy with themselves or the situation and if they don't wish to discuss it with their significant other than I think that pretty much answers the question; it's time to move on. For both parties sake.
If my partner turned, I'll be frank, fat, and refused to trim down some kilos then, yes, I'd leave my partner. I am disgusted by fat bodies, plain and simple.
The poll for this is bad, there's no option that supports no overwigth and helping them get fit again
The poll doesn't specify that you are NOT going to help them. If you don't leave them, it is assumed that you will work with them to try to get the problem resolved.
What I would want was to help prevent the person from getting fat, maybe I just misread the poll options?
The question was what would you do IF they got fat.
Thats what I meant, I am not native English. I am actually "tyndfed"(a Danish term, I have no idea what it is in eglish) that means I am skinny but I won't gain visible weight (I think, am not entirely sure)
As long as he’s not a slob. My boyfriend is overweight and insecure about it but I don’t care. He is cuddly!
I love how men expect women to be NON-shallow but it’s totally fine if men are.
I expect everyone to be shallow, man and woman, it's just in our nature @latinabutterfly96
I like a chunky partner. As long as they are clean, odor free and well groomed. I’m not super into physical Attraction
It depends on why he's gaining it. I would try to help him figure it out and encourage him to get healthier. But ultimately love him. Not his body.
Weight gain if you are already at a healthy weight can put you at risk for a lot of dieases so I would encourage them to lose weight so they can add years to their life.
I actually prefer a partner who "has some meat on their bones".
But I would leave when it get to the point when they're not able to so things on their own. Like keeping themselves clean.
This shows that in some way humans are naturally selfish & shallow. HOWEVER, i don't think there's anything wrong with that as it has been this way for millions of years.
I prefer to think that this show that humans are animals, and we should always be cognizant of that fact!
I wouldn't leave over weight gain alone. If her personality changed with it I would consider leaving.
... but yeah I wouldn't be happy at all over significant weight gain.
" If her personality changed with it I would consider leaving. " ... That's why I dumped my ex wife , it was a combo of the 2.
Indirectly yes. I want me and my SO to live a healthy life style. If they werent doing that i would end relationship. Weight gain would usually be the result of a poor lifestyle
If my partner was gaining weight at a rapid pace it would be a huge problem cause of it affecting their health. I prefer someone who is not overweight but at least they keep their weight under control if possible.
How significant are we talking? Are you able to ballpark it?
25 lbs? 50 lbs?
that's not as much as i was thinking. in those situations it would entirely depend on lifestyle change, total gain, etc. Weight gain is inevitable in many situations, but if properly managed can be lessened.
I think there are paths that a partner can go down and you just cannot follow.
Each of us has their limits even if some don't publicly accept that.
I pretty much agree with you.
Plus size women are also attractive. They provide more body area to hug 🤗 or big or tall women too (but not medically obese).
And imagine in bed being with them 😍 you'll get squished by a big woman 👩 i don't know about anyone else but i think i would enjoy being covered by her ☺
By the way i think you should select the "i don't want to see this" option to weed out those sensitive social justice warriors and their nonsense responses.