Guys, Why do all guys ghost me after I say I don't want to sleep with them on the first date? (Page 2)

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Hi guys, I'm 29 years old, and really struggling to find a partner. I have been single for over 3 years. I do go on a lot of dates, but all of them go like this: "We chat for a few weeks or months online ( Tinder or Bumble). He asks me out, we go for dinner or drinks (usually). After our date he wants to either go home with me or take me over to his place. I politely refuse his offer, and say "maybe next time". At this point, he either tries to rape me, calls me nasty names, or just accepts that I won't sleep with him on the first date. The next day he has ghosted me, and I never hear from him again. Then I go on another first date, and the same situation happens. I'm made to feel a sense of urgency, it's like they're telling me "sleep with me right now, or lose me forever!" I get told that I only have chance in my life to sleep with him, that that is all that I'm worth, that I'm worth not much else. Why does that keep happening to me?

jspl90 · Answer

😂😂where do you find these guys sure sex on the first date is nice but not expected in my book

EpicGhostShadow · Answer

I mean if that's all they're looking for, it's probably better that you never talk with them again

jimmy2 · Answer

Ohhh dear God bless you there is good men out there

Twalli · Answer

You'll wait at least 3 months before my penis will go in you below your waist.

Anonymous · Answer

Try meeting real guys in the real world. Tinder and Bumble are hookup apps.

David_Kek · Answer

What else are you bringing to the table?

Guys, Why do all guys ghost me after I say I don't want to sleep with them on the first date? (Page 2)

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