I will date a girl who has a great personality and looks don't matter to me I feel this way some people set their standards too high
No maybe when I was a kid but as an adult I appreciate much more about a partner
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She doesn't have to be super attractive. She can be a plain jane. I have said many times physically my main concern above all else is GOOD HYGIENE! If you dont have that then forget it, you're out. You got that down? Okay! Now do you love to cuddle? Are you naturally nurturing? Are you loyal to your man? These are what go from getting your foot in the door to getting into my heart.
I wouldn't exclusively date the most handsome men but I want to date someone I find decently attractive. Even if he's considered average looking, I could still be attracted to him. It's not like I would only date guys that look like a 9 or a 10 because that's unrealistic. But I do think it's reasonable to want someone decently attractive. Also, attraction can't be forced. You shouldn't force yourself to date someone you're not attracted to. That's common sense. I do admit that I'm a sucker for a handsome face though
If you wait for someone that looks perfect, you're gonna miss out on thousands of chances on love and happiness. Looks should only be a very small part of the attraction you have for someone. It's the little imperfections that catch my eye and makes you memorable. That's why I don't like a woman with a lot of makeup. They all to start looking the same with all that crap on.
To me there is a minimum threshold. Once I like a girl enough to be fine with having her around, being more attractive gets you diminishing returns. It's still motivating, but the importance drops off quickly.
There are women who showed interest and I didn't rerurn it purely due to insufficient attractiveness. But that is rare.
Would i *only* date girls i find physically attractive? Nah, but it's probably true I'd pursue the girls I do a lot harder.
When I was single if she seemed really interesting or we shared a lot of the same interests or hell even if i was curious about bumping uglies with her, physical attractiveness didn't keep me from trying.
We may be playing semantics here.
I definitely had to be attracted to the one I got romantic with and wanted to pursue.
So yes I had to find her attractive. "Highly"?
Everyone can probably interpret this differently as to what you mean.
I can find a very average girl who is just kind of cute but plain attractive and would have wanted to date her. I didn't need/want some swimsuit model and nothing else. I didn't care of everyone else found her attractive.
I'll only date a girl if she's between 5'4" and 5'8", 120-130 pounds, medium length brunette, and she has to make at least 6 figures
s I'm not attracted to looks... I can see someone and think that they look good, but that's it. I don't feel any attraction. What attracts me to a guy is everything that's going on in his brain. It starts with genuine interest and curiosity based on how they express themselves and that could grow into an attraction then based on how much we've spoken, gotten to know each other and also most important, how much interest he shows back.
I prefer average looking men who are humble about their looks.
Not too hot and not too ugly. Not too shy and not an egomaniac frat boy
Finding the perfect girl isn't easy at all, I think that being greatful for who you're with and what you have is the best you can do, and seeing their true colours and loving them, flaws and all, is already more than good enough to me.
personality is super important to me personally. if a guy has a shitty attitude but is physically attractive, i will be not as attracted to him. usually I don’t have a crush on a guy until i get to know him, then i start thinking he is physically attractive
Yes, if it's a girl from a dating app.
In real life it's different. Your friend has a girlfriend, his girlfriend comes to a party with her obese friend. Somehow you feel a chemistry to this obese girl and you land in bed with her, even thought you wouldn't date her if she would approach you in a bar or in dating app.
Women who have nothing that appears sexy are extremely rare. Most girls have something that is highly attractive but on dating apps it's difficult to fall for those things.
I generally date 7s and above. But if she's a 6.7 or a 6.8 then I might make an exception if she has a REALLY good personality.
Not only attractive people.
But I would consider them first, as often people become more or less attractive as you get to know them.
Id only have like two ladies I've met like that. No.
I'll only date a woman that makes an effort for me. I know who I am. I'm quite happy single. If you want me to be part of your life prove that you bring something to mine other than just baggage.
Only attracted is enough. Which means I can select for moral women.
Yeah, I can only date with ones I find highly attractive and very feminine. I like hot women but if she is not that hot, however very feminine ( submissive, obedient etc. ) then it will turn me on and make me to be with her.
Personally yes, I don't want to spend a long time with someone that I'm not attracted to.
Nope, I would date one I like whether she is attractive or not
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