I was dumped by her after just one month of dating (five dates in particular). The reason for the breakup was because she wasn't ready to enter a relationship. This happened about two months ago and for the past few days i'm starting to feel something i didn't until now. I feel sad and bad for myself because of the fact that i was dumped after just ONE month.
Getting 'dumped' or being told by a girl she no longer wants to see you will of course bruise the ego and knock your self-esteem. It's unfortunately what comes with dating and putting yourself out there.
Rather have it happen to you after 5 dates than a long-term relationship where you've built an emotional attachment to the person.
You're feeling like this because you probably over invested to this girl and now you're questioning your own self-worth. Especially if you didn't acknowledge your feelings before, it'll come up now.
Feel what you feel but also understand this is just one girl you saw all for 5 dates. She clearly wasn't the one for you.
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If you went on 5 dates, you weren’t in a relationship yet, and therefore I don’t see how you were dumped. It’s normal to feel sad when going on dates with someone doesn’t work out.
Quit whining and at least ACT like a man. Maybe she was telling the truth, or maybe she just decided she wasn't that into you. Either way, who cares? You're 30 years old and thousands of women looking for a decent guy, presuming you are one. Get back out there and quit feeling sorry for yourself. The next one might think you're fabulous, or not. So you go to the next one.
Not ready to be in a relationship=you were boring, you should have kept things more spicy than romantic then let her whenever she wants talk about commitment
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I would think getting dumped after 5 dates when you aren't even in a relationship yet is better than getting dumped after a year of being in an official relationship.
Did you get sex from her before she dumped you? If so, did you push for it or did she?
Yeah, that's normal. There's a time of mourning for relationships, just like there is for people. Just don't let it hold you down too long.
Is it you getting dumped if you weren’t even in a relationship yet?
Don't worry about it.
This kind of thing happens.
Be thankful you didn't waste more time - like so many of us.
Girls are the initiator of dumping.
Get back on the horse and find somebody else.
i think so
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