Is it really (/always) women's fault when they have bad experience with some men? (Page 2)
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Not at all. The “Bad boys” are only displaying a self confidence that is very attractive. As well as the wilderness.
The problem is that good guys almost never have those attractive traits.
However, we are hardwired to look for those traits. Being more specific: emotional strength.
You have to understand just because you say men or women doesn't mean that we are a group of people each individual has their own thoughts and their feelings about it some like it some don't some see through it some don't until it's too late I think for each individual we like what we like I mean there's a certain type of girl that I like that doesn't mean that all girls are like that
My experience is I know a lot of bad boys and somehow they always end up with the beautiful girl that all the guys wanted but those girls end up getting abused and used I I have had friends that are girls that wanted to date or be introduced to some of these bad guys and I would tell them no you don't because down deep who they really are is they've been some way some form abused it's mostly by a woman their mother and they really do not like their mothers whatsoever so they end up taking it out on their girlfriend and treating her the way that they would treat their mother and a hateful way because they're angry at them but they take it out on the girlfriend
I also think when a girl likes the bad boy it's because she feels safe something has happened to her and her lifetime and she doesn't want it to happen again so she goes for the bad boy because she thinks that he's going to protect her in all reality he's just going to do the same thing that she was trying to get away from
Like their love life? Yes it is. Even if this person some how changed, you got to understand, you still chose this person and chose to let them remain in your life.
Men can't force their way into your life when it comes to friendship or relationships. You have to choose them
I think women with low self esteem feel like they need to be with bad guys which make them feel less valued. Girls that got better self esteem look for the Jesus type over the devil Type. Like a badass Jesus type with some Superman characteristics is the ideal good guy.
It's not always woman's fault. I have seen certain personalities almost magically drag certain personality types (and issues) towards them. Subconscious presumptions along with attraction make people blind. However, if it's about women in their forties+ I'd highly recommend to think it over.
When you see people pushing blame on others, I automatically see someone whose been hurt. There is always the other sides truth.
No. There are enough men outside who would do a lot and lie their way, just to get some pussy.
Butt some women shouldn't be so naive and insecure tho and safe themselves
Umm, no. A lot of guys will lie, manipulate, and pretend to be kind in order to get what they want. Eventually, though, the wicked side comes out.
Some women date the same type of idiot all the time.
I think it's more on who you are and a classic blame game
If a girl then the guy is always wrong
I think a lot of women choose to ignore the bad signs and continue and then cry later and play the victim... You're not a victim.. You're just pathetic
Yeah if a Girl is Raped then it’s her Fault for not taking The security measures to ensure her Safety.
All women like bad guys because bad guys are less devolved. Think of a chitzu vs a german shepherd. The only difference is one is more dangerous because it's from a genetic line that's LESS detached from wolves.
It always woman fault…
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Ultimately, the woman is making the final decision. Blown-up Relationship is ALWAYS a 50%-50% fault anyway. Either party not able to admit that is a “good ridden so-glad hot tout of thst on the front end”
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Being treated like dirt once isn’t your fault. After that: “Fool me once; shame on you. Fool me twice; shame on me!”
No it’s not every circumstances is different
Sorta..:women have been falling for low level men for millennia.
Knock that shit off!!!
Is that not good for men since women dont have any standards then?
What you mean with your last post?
@coachTanthony
Read coach Anthony’s response.
If a woman keeps making the same mistake over and over of picking horrible men it’s her fault.
There’s so much psychology here…I’m going off my real life experience. Many of us are broken. Victims of long term abuse. My mom did it. I did it. My mom and I did not become abusers but we both did pick evil (also broken but they enjoyed the power over us so…evil) partners and they hurt us for years. The abused wife that never leaves. There’s deep damage, a trafficked girl that resists attempts to rescue her because the evil pimp is her safe place even though he beats her almost to death repeatedly.
It’s not so easy to “knock that shit off” for some. I’ll admit that, I lived it.
I wish it would become more common knowledge that if you’ve ever been in an abusive or manipulative relationship that you’re prone to pick bad partners again.
Not to become a victim…but become educated and overcome your own past.
Guys are broken too. Not excusing bad behavior.
I don’t know what the solution is. So many broken people are getting into relationships when they’re not prepared to. Then they have some kids…poor kids.
I’ll admit I was a bit flippant when I first responded.
This is a DEEP subject.
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Knock that shit off
I’m lost. Ask your question again please or dm me so we can just speak plainly
Yeah, B. It's usually the immaturity that brings excitement to her mind. Granted it's kind of a nice system. Get fucked over by the bad boy and then rejected by the successful nerd later :)
Usually, the said bad guys only prefer hottest girl. I don't really see it.
It seems that most women want to try 'the bad boy' at least once; some keep going back for more. There is an appeal to the danger or the taboo until sometimes it goes too far.