Is it okay to reject a girl only because she shows too much skin on her Instagram pictures?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[DermalPunch]

Not only is it ok. It is a very good idea. I wouldn't deal with a dude who posted himself basically nude on social media. Last relationship basically ended over this exact thing. There is no way a person who displays themselves in this manner can be a truly committed partner.

To me they are passively keeping their options open for the upgrade and/or they are so self-obsessed that you couldn't even have a real relationship with them anyway. Usually they are highly insecure as well needing outsode validation for energy to essentially function.

Or they are a prostitute and this is part of their job which makes them not the person for me!

[Smashingdoozy]

Sure if that's not what you like. As long as you don't try change someone to fit your expectations

[ShadezMcgee]

You can reject someone for whatever reason trips the feeling to do so. You just need to be able to take it in return if it happens to you as well. You nor the rejector need to give a reason why you did so.

I get the idea behind this being that it comes off as attention and validation seeking from outside sources if she was I'm a relationship?

[Hardworkingguy]

If I found a beautiful hot girl like that who loves me I would not care if she has pictures like that. Others might see her but I'd be the lucky one she wants beside her

[Hardworkingguy]

Thank you for liking my answer. Are you like the girls on the pictures?

[Finchie40]

Bro you can do whatever you want , if you don’t like that she shows a lot of skin and you find it disrespectful then kick her to the curb , No one can tell you what to like and don’t like , we make our own choices in life , If she is in a relationship with you and still posting pictures like that then yes she is more than likely seeking validation from other men so I don’t blame you for dumping her it’s disrespectful and shows she doesn’t value her relationship with you , Find yourself a girl that wants to stay under the sheets with you not one that runs to the streets

[Anonymous]

As a model myself, there’s an explanation as to why these women post these types of posts.. and it’s because of physical “art”…modeling is all about art visual art the aesthetics of art etc. So models use their bodies to portray…and you guessed it..✨Art✨. So.. if you can’t handle being with a woman who models for a living…then I don't know what to tell ya🤷🏻‍♀️ Maybe you’re just not enough for her as a man if you’re not supportive of her and if you already feel insecure just by looking at her pictures then buddy you need to look elsewhere cause these powerful women aren’t for you.

[J2ohhhhh]

You are either an object of someone who tells you how to pose or sometimes inspiration/muse and they, the ones who take the photo or paint the painting or draw or whatever are the artist. It's like calling hoes business women who fucked rich men who "invested" into their businesses. I am not judging, I'd do the same if I was an attractive women, just get the language right, you're not self expressing, just reflecting light.

[Finchie40]

The thing is this girl is not a model and she isn’t getting paid for it so yes it’s disrespectful, if it was her actual job then that’s a whole different story but this girl is clearly seeking validation from others , she loves the attention she is receiving which is disrespectful to her boyfriend , it’s nothing to do with insecurities it’s to do with respect , if she respected her boyfriend she would have talked to him first before posting pictures of herself instead of just assuming what she is doing is ok , the fact that she didn’t do that just shows she is selfish and only thinks about herself , which most girls tend to do , they expect their men to wear their shoes but she can’t wear his and that’s what makes girls selfish, and what makes guys lose respect for her , Most girls live in this fantasy world that she is entitled to do whatever she wants without thinking about how her partner will feel and that’s why so many guys don’t get into relationships anymore because most girls only really think of themselves , if you can’t remove selfishness for your partner don’t expect them to remove it for you , you are wasting your time getting into a relationship if you can’t value and prioritize your partner and accepting that you aren’t always going to be right, You girls sadly have been digging your own grave when it comes to relationships because you are selfish people , you will never experience true love because you only think of yourselves , Guys will use you for sex but then kick you to the curb when they realize you only care about yourself , sorry to talk this way but truth hurts

[Opinion Owner]

You are heavily misinformed @J2ohhhhh it’s incredible how much of a biased/stereotypes mindset you have against the modeling community it’s like you’re somehow stuck in the early 2000’s where everyone thought models were just beauty and not brains.

[Opinion Owner]

@Finchie40 half of the women with boyfriends or even husbands are okay with them posting these pictures, why should it affect you? It’s not your relationship.. is it? Men don’t OWN women and women don’t OWN men. That’s how life is now. So just accept it and move on you CANNOT change anyones opinions on things. if a girl wants to post her bikini pictures every now and then okay? Let her that’s her business. Just like how some men post pictures of themselves shirtless. We don’t care🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s not affecting our lives so it shouldn’t have to affect yours.

[Finchie40]

It’s nothing to do with owning your partner , it comes down to respect for your partner and your relationship, Now if she was a model before they got into a relationship then yes he has no right complaining considering he knew that going into the relationship but the fact that she is doing this after she committed into the relationship, she is only thinking of herself and that’s where disrespect comes into play , She isn’t single anymore for a relationship to grow it takes 2 people to remove selfishness for each other and prioritize each other , so if he is upset about her posting these pictures then out of respect for her relationship with him she should stop , How would she feel if he was posting pictures seeking validation from other girls? , I don’t think she would be to happy about it if she really valued her boyfriend , so that’s the problem with most relationships is people only think of themselves and not think how their partners would feel and that’s where resentments come into play , So if she wants to be selfish and continue posting pictures of herself seeking validation her boyfriend has a choice on whether he wants to continue that relationship or walk away

[Aerolyn]

I'm gonna assume that it's not just because she's showing a lot of skin on instagram.

Gonna assume it's because you think if she does that then she's an attention whore who has an issue to desire likes and attention from guys just to feel validated as a person, which is the case then it could mean she has other issues as well that could leave her as a bad choice to be in a relationship ship.

Etc... etc...

[britishbby]

If ur uncomfortable with it and don't like it then bang there's a reason any reason for u to not like a girl is ur reason no one can tell u otherwise there's things that are frowned apon but it don't matter if its something that your not willing to put up with then thats that :D

[rosemilk]

you can reject anyone you want for any reason you want... it's your choice.

[Avatar74]

If you were dating a woman who posted pictures like this of herself then obviously you have to accept she is going to get the attention of other men.

In reality If a woman is extremely attractive and you were in a relationship with her she's going to attract other guys attention anyway. She wouldn't have to show herself off scantily clad.

[DermalPunch]

This is true. Attractive is attractive. But inviting it or seeming to is another issue.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Yeah, I don't see a problem with it.

Men are allowed to have standards too.

If you're going to post pics like that on Instagram as a female, then you're going to get male attention, period and you more than likely know that.

[DubiousIntentions]

Do you have to have a reason to reject anyone? You are free to accept or reject anything or anyone. You choose what you like or dislike. No one is going to send you to jail for it. Do What you wanna do.

[Topaz1979]

Yes you can everyone is allowed to have preferences if you want a woman who covers up more then get her it's perfectly okay to have preferences!👍.

[Kaneki05]

You can choose not to date someone for any reason that's your choice. No one is forcing you to date someone.
But also no one is stopping me from saying that guy is a prude.

[Rania05]

Rejection is rejection, no need for a reason. You just don't want them, and you don't owe them a 'yes'

[CA4444]

I would stop doing it if you’d ask me to it’s not a huge deal unless it’s her job or smth just maybe communicate before ending in case you can solve the issue 🤷‍♀️

[Sandeeppingping]

Maybe my guy if you're worried about what it implies I understand you, but they're not bad people she probably saw other girls getting attention for it so fuck it she started doing it

[DermalPunch]

Wonderful. She can't think for herself.

[kaylaS91]

How much is ‘too much’? Is it too much cleavage/midriff, or are showing shoulders/bra straps an issue?

[Asker]

Yes that’s an issue for me

[kaylaS91]

Why is that an issue?

[Luopio27]

If she wants to have her image infront of masturbators to feel confident, its her choice.
Just like you being real with your feelings.


What she does is her choice. What you choose is up to you. Do whatever makes you happy.

[77five]

Anyone can reject anyone for any reason. No one is owed a relationship

[Massageman]

Anyone can accept or reject anyone else for whatever reason. It's not a problem to me, though. But, as a Massage Therapist for nearly 30 years, I'm somewhat used to seeing skin.

[bubblegunnn]

Well do u have feeling for them or na? Based on ur heart not ur eyes

[FilmGuy93]

You can reject someone for whatever reason you want.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats a silly reason to reject in my opinion if she's doing it while single, if she continues to do it afterwards, that can cause problems.