Mixed Signals. Was this guy just looking for an hookup & ended up liking me or does he want to just meaninglessly keep texting me?

[Anonymous]

So, this one guy he flirted with me for two weeks. I met him on Bumble when he was in town, now we both are in two different cities. Now, he is saying that as he is a sensitive person, has been hurt many times he doesn't date date & plus we stay miles away from each other. So, it wouldn't be fair to me, he doesn't want to give me wrong signals and get upset. I said I am fine with it. But, I expected him to ghost me as I wished to date & he didn't. I thought we had made everything clear. But, then he texted me again and when I said I didn't expect this he said that nothing went wrong between us to not even talk. Also, WHY DID HE FLIRT WITH ME IN THE FIRST PLACE if he had no intention of dating me? What should I do? I am so confused.

[Anonymous]

It's understandable to feel confused and uncertain about this situation. It sounds like this guy may have been sending mixed signals, which can be frustrating and confusing.

It's possible that he was initially interested in a hookup but then developed feelings for you, or he may have been unsure of what he wanted from the beginning. However, it's important to remember that his behavior and intentions are ultimately his responsibility, and you deserve to be treated with respect and honesty in any relationship or interaction.

It may be helpful to have a clear and honest conversation with him about your expectations and boundaries. Let him know how his behavior has made you feel and ask him to clarify his intentions and what he wants from the relationship. Remember to prioritize your own well-being and to set boundaries that feel comfortable and respectful to you.

If he is not willing or able to meet your needs and expectations, it may be best to reevaluate the relationship and consider moving on. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who is honest, respectful, and willing to communicate openly and clearly with you.