Baby Mama issues?

[Anonymous]

I am dating a guy with 2 kids, 2 different baby mamas. We’ve been together for almost 1 year, I love him and his kid’s dearly. I have 3 of my own and consider his mine. Anyway baby moms #2 I am very insecure about. They were friends with benefits for a long while and still were about 3 mo the prior to him and I meeting. I deal with the pick up and drop offs, he said it’s easier and better if I do. Well her and I get along great except she brings up my boyfriend a lot. Like wanting me to ask places where they used to go together, little things and memories of what he likes or doesn’t like. It may be innocent and nothing but it makes me think that maybe I’m in the way of a family that may be better.

[MrOracle]

Your man had plenty of time to get together in a real relationship with her, but it doesn't sound like either of them were interested in that and he's in no hurry to interact with her. I suspect that SHE has regrets now, but it's too late for her. Your man chose you, not her, and there is nothing to indicate that he has any regrets.

You need to stop worrying about this - you are just borrowing trouble.

[Asker]

They were in a real relationship for 4 years. Then a couple months after their split is when they were friends with benefits for like 6ish months.

[MrOracle]

OK, so they were together and it didn't work. He's still not looking to be with her, even if she wants him back, so you still have nothing to worry about.