Do you find darker skin people attractive too?

Question

Honest answers only. Asking because I am dark skin and feel like my skin/features lead me to being rejected pretty often at a young age.

Marklaw12 · Accepted Answer

The media does everything in their power to put dark skinned people down.

1. Phone cameras are only for white people. Black need to adjust the camera to make it just right before taking a picture
2. Makeups are just for white people until black people started making theirs
3. Hollywood uses black people criminals and most Best pictures don't have black people even as side characters. There was only one black person in Downton Abbey
4. The "what is a woman" a lot of black women are in office answering these questions and not knowing what a woman is
5. Black Americans fight wars that don't exist. They are still very backwards. At first I thought it was just them but apparently the system is actually rigged against them. Tulsa 1927 was burned down by white people cos they saw a black community striving and they got jealous. Also during that period, the government made sure to give lots of white people free houses whilst blacks were given lands which were taken back.
6. We all know in the 70s the government used blacks are drugs experiments by giving them cocaine and so much more to kill themselves. Coke and guns don't mix.
7. In most companies the higher you go the less the diversity. There's more blacks at the entry level. When you get to the tip, there are way more eyes on you.
8. Black people need to start helping themselves if they want to survive. There are lot of white people you are great people and want to help. Not all are your enemies.
9. Black people in power in the music industry take advantage of other blacks by doing them in the arse.
10. White people think Africa is a shithole, they don't know that white folks when there to set their flags on all its natural resources and kill their citizens if they don't obey. Africa is the biggest continent, most multicultural and has so much wealth
11. Australia white people killed all the black people to almost the point of extinction so they can rule the country. South Africa failed somewhat.
12. We need to help each other. We can't change the past but we can improve the future. Let that hate go.
X. XXX are the worst of the worst. They rule banking, ignite wars. There's a reason why XXX tried to wipe them all out. They are the most wicked demonic people. Every single leader in the legislation in America are all XXX. How come? You think they rule the world? Think again. 911 was during a XXX holiday conveniently

love_conquers_lust · Accepted Answer

If that’s all you had to offer and there was nothing else to you, then no. I have a LOT more in common with white women that runs deeper than skin. That will be difficult for darker skinned women to overcome. So, if you’re overweight? No. Uneducated? No. Unable to think for yourself? No. Promiscuous? No. Desecrating your body regardless of complexion? No. Hood mannerisms? No. Guilt trip and neg me for being white? Big fucking no. Guilt trip me as intolerant for preferring white skin, which INCLUDES myself? Another big fucking no.

If you find white skin attractive, why can’t I? If you don’t care about skin color, again, why can’t I STILL find it attractive?

I love bringing up gender. Why are homosexuals and heterosexuals exclusive to one gender? Why do we tolerate that?

But, don’t worry. Once genetic engineering becomes mainstream, there is going to be an explosion of diversity. We actually should be prepared for genetically modified humans and how we can include everyone who are all natural verse test tube grown.

CubsterShura · Accepted Answer

I am a Brown woman with medium-dark complexion and I haven't had a whole lot of issues with guys. Are there men who are prejudiced? Of course. But there are still enough men who are indifferent to or even attracted to dark skin tones for it to not really be an issue in dating. My boyfriend raves about my complexion and keeps telling me how exotic I look even though we're literally both the same ethnicity and his skin tone isn't too different from mine, though I might add that it's mainly his face and arms that are almost my skin tone due to tanning but the rest of his body is lighter than mine, and my skin is dark throughout.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

I have dated the rainbow when it comes to skintones. I like it all. Yes I have a main preference for caramel (like the candy and like in the pics below) since that is my own skintone but that has never stopped me from giving someone of a lighter or darker complexion a chance. I’m more focused on the face, mindset, personality and overall attraction. Skintone is there but not necessarily a big deal. Its a minor factor if at all

DaveJord · Answer

Honestly, I can look at a darker skin woman, find her very attractive... but I have never dated one. But the I can just say that I have never met one that wanted to date me either.

Bottom line is that sexy women are sexy period.

ManOnFire · Answer

Lots of dark-skinned women are attractive. Me being a lighter skinned black man, I tend to lean towards darker skinned black women if I'm going to date them.

MrOracle · Answer

I've dated 2 girls darker than that. I don't care about skin color - that's meaningless. It's who a person is that matters.

Summeroflove · Answer

Yeah. Just remember everyone is different. Dark skin can be beautiful the same as any other skin tone.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I find a lot of dark skinned guys attractive but I do not feel attraction to dark skinned girls. I'm not interested in women in general.

Genie23 · Answer

Absolutely. Some of the most attractive people I've ever seen had dark complexion. Guys and girls, both.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

My ex had a tanned skin. I loved his shiny skin next to mine.  So, yep.

glennos89 · Answer

Just for the record I'm a white male

And although I never had a dark skinned girlfriend before I do find some of them very attractive.

Sadly because of televisio, media and things that happened in the past makes me feel that white people aren't perticullairy on the "good" side of black people's feelings towards white people.

Things like rascism ( especially in the US) and apartheid give me the feeling that I'm being seen as "guilty" for all of that as well in the eyes of "black people". Ofcourse I know not all black people see things the same way and I definitely don't wanna generelise the whole black community for being the same because I know they are individuels aswell just like we all are.

But still I'm not really sure wether it's possible for me to date a dark skinned girl because I'm white. The media really fucked me up with that and although I know that my perception of this all isn't where it should be because I do now better then that.

But nevertheless it is putting a wall up for me inside when it comes to dating sadly. I'm ashamed how white people threatened the black community and although I never have and never will support these actions from white people towards black people... I'm still born white so I can't help feeling guilty for the behaviour of my own skin coloured people 🙈🤦🏻‍♂️

I hope my story makes sense to you but to finish it off... Yes I'm attracted to dark skin people and I'm also very curious to find out how dating with a black person feels like but I'm scared I won't be accepted by the community because I'm white 😳😇🙈

Anonymous · Answer

My best friend has dark skin and she is probably one of the prettiest people I know. If I liked someone personally that wouldn’t even be a factor tbh. Whenever you look into the mirror next focus on the features you like about yourself and as far as skin tone goes I wouldn’t worry about it. All tones are beautiful on different people and that is not something that will ever take away from your beauty. Feature wise I don’t know what you look like but we are our worst critics. Don’t be hard on yourself and get it out of your head that it is holding you back. You will meet someone who appreciates everything you have to offer

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Quite a while back I joked:

pick one...

Do you find darker skin people attractive too?

... and only few people chose the milk 😁

Personally, I find dark skin extremely attractive.

However - and to be honest: Women with -erm- African genetics

(damn!: 'Political correctness' makes saying innocent things so difficult nowadays)

often have a tendency to have an oversized butt - which is something that I'm not compatible with :) - but that's entirely unrelated to my perception of skin colour in general.

Radiate143 · Answer

I think South Sudanese women, really dark Jamaican and Senegalese women are a beauty ideal in my eyes. Really dark skin is always so flawless. The men and women always have these really sculpted Negroid features that I can just stare at for hours. For relationships, my mentality and West African guys mentality never jived and I am culturally too close to Caribbean people for the relationship keep me intrigued. You have to accept that we live in a world that idolized Eurocentric beauty ideals. That shouldn't affect how you view yourself. Also, thebpeople that love and like you aren't thinking about this. If you are into white guys for serious relationships then this can be tricky since most of them have issues with kinky hair and find dark skin too far away from their ingrained beauty ideals. But don't be discouraged.

Peanutbutter1221 · Answer

Definitely attracted to darker men

The only thing is, culturally it's something that growing up was a taboo, if I even hug a black man people would fuss about it

But I've really wanted to try hit it off with one but sadly haven't had the chance and usually I get scared so I chicken out

But sweets if someone judges you based on your skin tone, consider yourself lucky that you've checked them out early and didn't waste your time

Datboi65 · Answer

I'm Black and I only go for women of my race. I do actually prefer dark skin and brown skin women over light skin, but that's my preference.

I think when it comes down to it you need to learn to love yourself instead of focusing on what others think. Sounds cliché, but it's true. You cannot change the features you were born with and neither should you want to, God created you that way for a reason.

HappyWoman34 · Answer

You’re still very young. Younger men try to follow the blonde barbie type, until they get older. Men who are looking to settle down will talk to you, get to know you. Not push for sex. You’ll meet these men at church, on some dating sites and through mutual friends, hobby groups and college.

lightbulb27 · Answer

some. It's much more about their personality and who they are than looks.

attitude, in any color, is disgusting. and it's generally not their fault for bad attitude, but that of their environment and traumatic experiences. they have a lot of control over their attraction, but may require work to see beyond their environment and find their better self.

ditto for any color.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Honestly, dark skinned women were hit and miss for me when I was single. Being mixed I was attracted to mixed girls more, but a couple of darker girls caught my eye, but the personality has to be there. The ones I liked were great personality and taken, so I honestly wouldn't worry too much about it.

catarecute · Answer

i have dated sort of two black skin guys and they were both controlling. i dont pick dates on looks but personality. i have tanned skin and i wouldn't change my skin colour. i think tanned skin is beautiful on men and women. black skin is beautiful too. but i date based on personality tbh.

soe11 · Answer

I do, depending on... Dark smooth shinny chocolate colour. Oval long face, big eyes, thin long nose. The boobs average size with peanut nipples. Flat stomach inny belly button. Curvy pussy shape with puffy camletoe. Long smooth shinny legs.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Yeah if she's attactive and into the same hobbies and interests as me.

Skin color is isn't a factor in my selection choice. I am fond of very thick soft hair though, and while thats not very common in people with darker skin, it's not unheard of either.

Anonymous · Answer

honestly, darker skin is so gorgeous. don't let anyone tell you different.

i'm white, but my partner is Asian, a darker skin toned Asian. i know it's different from your situation. but i just don't like dating white guys because they have always came off as douches towards me. i'm not attracted to white men at all. everyone has their preferences tho.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Not actually. Dark-skin isn't much of a factor but rather phenotype is what causes someone to be attractive or not.

Dark skin Indian women can be beautiful, but the same can't be said for dark skin women or black people at least for me personally because I don't like their phenotype.

Notfrommars · Answer

Honestly anybody who says they don’t find all dark-skinned people attractive is a racist. There are beautiful (and not beautiful) people in all races and ethnicities. I wouldn’t want to date someone who liked me because I wasn’t dark-skinned

Mamaliv · Answer

I think dark skin is beautiful! There are so many beautiful complexions in this world… I won’t lie tho, I’m definitely attracted to dark men.

Mig93 · Answer

For me it's completely irrelevant the shade of the skin. Very dark or light, white, Asian, etc. People create so many barriers and divisions between them, the world already has too many! The only important things are the inside of the person, not the outside! So, yes, very dark skinned women are gorgeous, and so are all other women!

Mech76 · Answer

For men is easier, because i have known guys who doesn't prefeer dark colour, and have felt in love with dark colour ladies and married them . Usually if a woman is attractive and sweet, it over shadows the color or the race. (We are visuals) I think that is harder in the case of a women that care too much about social (parents) approval on a relation.

Anonymous · Answer

Dont let this poll fool you, if a dark woman posted pic on how do i look see what the comments are, that should tell you how people really feel about dark skin people.

Dark skin men are seen as prize for most women

and dark skin women are seen as lowest by both men and women

Anonymous · Answer

I personally think that if a person has well shaped eyes lips nose cheeks he or she is automatically attractive irrespective of skin color. Even dark skinned people pull off so many clothes very well.

Sonorous · Answer

I'm black & I notice that I'm more attracted to other races. Black women remind me too much of my family. Iono I'm weird.

Chayce · Answer

I’m obviously a dark skin male but almost all of my relationships/flings have been with women lighter than me. There are definitely dark skin women that I found attractive but nothing ever really transpired from such.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Depends how dark, but I am extremely attracted to Indian girls, so... my skin tone preferance is quite vast. But for marriage and having children I'm not so sure. But I've crushed on dark skinned girls before, so I would date one no problem

Mac-One · Answer

I did not select a choice as none of then are correct for me. No woman is attractive when she wears that much war paint. Natural is most attractive for all regardless of skin tone.

normalice · Answer

I'm attracted to butts. If she has the shape of butt I like, I'm into her at least physically.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Definitely, but I would say that I am intimidated by dating one, as I am not used to it. However, if I were interested in one, then I'd suck it up.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Generally speaking, not as much as fair skinned women, but I have seen a fair few dark skinned women who are attractive to me.

CatVader · Answer

I don't really care about superficial looks or what norm the culture has. I do care about health and looks in that sense though.

Anonymous · Answer

The darkest I will go is Hispanic. I guess for me what turns me off about black women, to which I know aren’t all the same, but in my experience is the attitude.

Anonymous · Answer

They claim yes, but if you look at the women, who are posted on the site and receive compliments, they usually have colored eyes (hazel, green or blue) and Eurocentric features

siseñor · Answer

i like when people have their hair in twists or dreads or natural & long, it looks so pretty. that is one of the reasons why i do

bornnoutisdee · Answer

I’m mostly attracted to olive or tan skin.

sashasauce · Answer

I actually find dark skin more attractive in some ways. There is a beauty to darker skin that I find very attractive.

0verthinkExpert · Answer

Any race can be attractive, but playing the victim/race-card is a turn off.

Hal2002 · Answer

When looking at women, my eyes is always drawn to darker skinned woman first.

KittyKat90210 · Answer

Definitely, darker skin can be very attractive

madhatters4 · Answer

i find people of all shades and colors attractive

AmeerX · Answer

I am not attracted to darker people. I don't hate them though. I get hate for liking fairer skins and white people. I never understand why people hate you if a man has a preference.

Luopio27 · Answer

Im black and I dream oh whites only! Everyone else, just ain't my dating preferance. I know many white guys who can't stand the women of their own race in dating world.

Starrrboy · Answer

Yeah dark like Gabrielle Union, Zoe Saldana... but really dark like Sudanese and such, not so much... Also really dark skinned Indians / Asians lol

boggboss · Answer

Its really dependent on where u live and what the beauty standards are

Anonymous · Answer

Its about preferences, and yes a lot of people prefer dating darker skinned people. Obviously its not just gonna be about the color of the skin, but they have to like everything else about you too.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I like darker skin people too.

sheikalana · Answer

I married a dark skinned man and been attracted ti dark skin people since I was a child.

DiegoO · Answer

Yeah, anyone who is human🤷. I don't discriminate by skin color or ethnicity. I just find weird to be attracted to one ethnicity, or a few.

RingOfFire · Answer

Absolutely... my last relationship was with a black women and she is still one of the most beautiful, sexy and amazing women I have ever known.

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

Both men boy women girl. Are attractive. Hot. 💞

Alex-Snow · Answer

OFC skin color does not matter to me... it is the person that counts

Xoirwinkan · Answer

When they have features I like they are so hot, like I love frizzy hair, love long hair in general. The idea of swirling is hot.

lazermazer · Answer

I am attracted to white, brown not black. And it is more about facial features more than skin color.

TallAnon · Answer

There's some really attractive black women, but I do feel like I'm attracted to a largent percentage of white women (and even larger percentage Asian)

Yellovv · Answer

Every race have pretty woman, doesn't matter to me which race she is from, I have dark skin friends too, they are fun to talk also they are heartwarm people..

Anonymous · Answer

Attracted to? Sure. Date one? Nah. Tried it. Cultural differences were insurmountable.

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