Either something unrelated to you, but significant, happened that is deeply affecting him, OR, he had feelings for you all along and has recently come to the conclusion that you aren't interested, and so he is pulling away.
Generally, single guys don't have female "friends" - they may appear to, but most of the time, he is attracted to her and is pretending to be friends while biding his time waiting until she either realizes he's a great guy that would make a great boyfriend OR is upset because of some other guy and seeks comfort from him that turns romantic (or at least sexual).
Neither happens very often, and eventually the guy comes to accept that it isn't going to, at which point, he is hurt and knows he was a fool and pulls away and often ends the relationship.
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OK FIRST OF ALL CALM DOWN. Ok now, I don't know you two at all so it's hard to say here. But there's many possible reasons for this. Maybe he's having a really tough time and life's at its worst for him and he just wants to be alone, ask his friends if he's acting the same towards them, if yes then it's just you, if no, then don't worry he'll come back after he's solved his problems and dealt with them. Try to talk to him about his favorite subject, something he adores and can't live without, if he responds the same way then just stop talking to him, you'll be better off without him, and way happier without so much worry on your mind.
Don't ignore him. Reach out a hand of friendship to him by asking him if he's okay, because you've noticed he's not himself lately. Let him know you're there to listen if he needs to talk about anything.
He may have problems in his life that you're unaware of
When people become distant and quiet , there's always an underlying reason why. But that doesn't necessarily mean you're the reason or cause for their change in behaviour. It may have absolutely nothing to do with you personally or with your friendship. So I wouldn't turn your back on him based on an assumption
Did you have a quarrel earlier?
Were you single when you befriended and now you have a boyfriend or a crush and he is aware of it? Did he experience something negative lately? How long you guys have been friends? Are you always talking about yourself without ever stop to think whats going on in his life?
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When he met you he wanted to date or fuck you but he's been too pussy to make a move and so faded into the friendzone. You probably irked him by referring to him as a friend. Maybe you also consume too much of his time by texting and talking that he wants to spend on a girl who he could actually date and fuck.
May be , if he is someone you would really like to have as a friend... you should ask him..
Tell him that you are noticing a change from his side , and that if he is hiding something from you that he shouldn't?
If he hasn't already gotten too mad at you , may be he will answer it.3 possible reasons.
1: he’s lost interest in you (you’re boring now) this is the least likely thing.
2:he has feelings for you and realised nothings going to happen so why stay friend and get his feelings hurt?
3:he’s picked up on you having feelings for him, but doesn’t like you that way and is now distancing himself from you because he feels awkward and doesn’t want to lead you on?
In all 3 cases other people tend to be involved be spreading lies and shit stirring it.Maybe he's losing interest in the friendship. Or maybe he likes you as more than a friend and is frustrated that you don't feel the same way.
With the info you have fiven I can see three possibilities.
1. He's upset because of something you did or said.
2. He probably is dating a girl and she feels threatened by your presence. So she told him to stop talking to you.
3. He has developed feelings for you so I being distant so that he doesn't act on those feelings.Probably something serious happened. Just let him know that you're there if you need him and give him some space. It's likely has nothing to do with you.
Guys does not like to share so carefully you need to talk to him. After all problem might not even be between two of you.
Just confront him about it and ask him to tell you what’s up. Maybe it’s something you can fix
You should give him space and don’t start conversation personally for some time. Maybe he isnundergoing some changes in life
Maybe he is going through a tough time in his life. Did the two of y’all have a fight recently? Sometimes people act distant when they are going through something personal.
Probably he’s jealous probably anger building up in the head if you’re with someone if not then I don't know
Just leave him be. He could be going through something no one knows about.
Sometimes you can be oblivious to what is bothering someone
Because "just friends" with a women is generally not a very valuable type of relationship for a guy. In fact they are quite wasteful.
he's not interested nor wants to be bothered with u.
He probably is talking to someone he likes
You better clear the fog
Ask him why?
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