Friend moving, am I handling this right? (Page 2)

Question

My best guy friend (I'm female), who've I've had feelings for for a while and love as whole, to where he's the person I trust the most and feel like I belong with the most (his presence I mean, not relationship wise, like I feel he's the most accepting and amazing friend I ever had to where hanging with him feels like home), this friend is moving away across the country and I'm heartbroken. I don't want to stop him from moving, I want him to pursue his dreams and find what he's looking for, but deep down I'm crushed. My instinct is create distance from him and I honestly don't think I could say goodbye on the day he leaves, I feel like it would be too much for me to handle. Does it make me a bad person to not want to be there and say goodbye if I can't handle it, if I were to distance myself emotionally and verbally until I heal, am I handling this wrong?

Djaay · Answer

Move with him.

mapavrili34 · Answer

Do what ever u want

gaguser30 · Answer

Ig you are.

Friend moving, am I handling this right? (Page 2)

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