@DrewJohnson - You're the father, your daughter isn't the boss of the house. Try to grow a spine or your daughter is going to end up being a spoiled brat because of your enabling.
I don't see a problem with the bikini myself, and if you bought one not knowing your wife's opinion then fine. But you do know her opinion, to buy it for her now would be a betrayal of her trust in you.
Your house, your rules. Her house, her rules. If she complains, tell her that. Are you following a court-ordered visitation schedule. How long ago was the divorce? Are you still in contact with your attorney?
I think it'd better to talk to her mom before and then you'll decide what to do
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This is stupid, SO stupid. In general, you don’t want to act against your partner and for the kid; and if you do you must be VERY tactful with it and have very good reason. You sound like a creepy and a pussy tbh. Don’t you understand why she doesn’t want your daughter in a bikini? What logic do you have to put a nine year old into one other than, “she wants it” disgusting.
Sure, if you want to initiate a fight with her Mom.
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No it's best to respect your wife's wishes. She is after all the mother and she knows what's best for her child.
Doing the opposite to what she's asked, especially behind her back, shows a complete lack of respect for your partner
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I do find it a bit strange that you as a father is rallying so hard to buy your daughter a bikini Usually fathers are the one who protect their daughters modesty 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You do realize your daughter will rat you out, right? She’s going to show her mother the bikini you got her. I mean, good luck going behind your wife’s back.
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Why would you her father insist your daughter wear a bikini at all? Why do you desire your daughter to wear a bikini?
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She's 9 years old - what difference does it make?
To me none.
To my daughter it'll be a fun thing.
My wife might see it as going behind her back.
It would be going behind her back. You need to sort it out for the sake of domestic tranquility.
@DrewJohnson - You're the father, your daughter isn't the boss of the house. Try to grow a spine or your daughter is going to end up being a spoiled brat because of your enabling.
no work together and decide, and ask your daughter if she would like one
I don't see a problem with the bikini myself, and if you bought one not knowing your wife's opinion then fine. But you do know her opinion, to buy it for her now would be a betrayal of her trust in you.
Your house, your rules. Her house, her rules. If she complains, tell her that. Are you following a court-ordered visitation schedule. How long ago was the divorce? Are you still in contact with your attorney?
I think it'd better to talk to her mom before and then you'll decide what to do
This is stupid, SO stupid.
In general, you don’t want to act against your partner and for the kid; and if you do you must be VERY tactful with it and have very good reason. You sound like a creepy and a pussy tbh. Don’t you understand why she doesn’t want your daughter in a bikini? What logic do you have to put a nine year old into one other than, “she wants it” disgusting.
Sure, if you want to initiate a fight with her Mom.
No it's best to respect your wife's wishes. She is after all the mother and she knows what's best for her child.
Doing the opposite to what she's asked, especially behind her back, shows a complete lack of respect for your partner
I do find it a bit strange that you as a father is rallying so hard to buy your daughter a bikini
Usually fathers are the one who protect their daughters modesty 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Will you tell your wife what you have done? How will she react when she learns what you have done?
Please don’t. Reading this gave me a migraine.
Voted no but thanks for the consideration
Although I don't think it would be a big deal, why chance it. Run it by mom.
when i was 9, i wondered if cats grow up to be tigers, since they are of cat family
and this isn't even ironic what the hell is wrong with you.
You do realize your daughter will rat you out, right? She’s going to show her mother the bikini you got her. I mean, good luck going behind your wife’s back.
Why would you her father insist your daughter wear a bikini at all? Why do you desire your daughter to wear a bikini?
This is suspect.
I would say buy it, it would make you daughter happy and your wife is overeating
what's wrong with the swim suit she already has? no need to buy multiple since she'll grow out of them.
Not a fan of bikinis and don't think they belong on a nine year old. Ask your wife why she's against.
Children copy their parents. Does your wife wear a bikini?
If you have to ask then no. Talk with your wife first.
I wonder why you're so eager to see a 9-year-old in a bikini.