What can a guy do to overcome jealousy for his female friend?

[watare421]

I have this female friend, we have very plutonic friendship. One day we were hanging out with some other friends, I saw some sparks between her and my other guy friend and I didn't like it, I was getting jealous about it, and it looked like she couldn't stop thinking about him after the hangout and she tried to hide that from me for some reason, which kind of made it worse for me. I feel like I'm suppressing my feelings but I'm not sure how to handle it, this is new to me. What should I do about this situation?

[rosemilk]

so do you like her or not? if so, you should have probably told her a long time ago.

[watare421]

agreed! it's better to communicate about it and get over her than going through this torture. Thanks for your opinion!

[RedInnocent68]

Not so platonic, me thinks. Look, whether you fuck her or not, on some level you want to. She’s in your stable and it’s natural to want to be protective.

[Anonymous]

You have to realise that she is your friend and that being "possessive" like that is only going to make you hurt.

[7Phoenix7]

Tell her your true feelings. Be honest

[watare421]

it feels like I want to move on instead of doing that, because I never felt attraction from her side, we have great chemistry but it feels like we will never be a thing from her side.

[7Phoenix7]

But you don't know. Just like she doesn't know how you feel.

[watare421]

@7Phoenix7 these kind of things are so complicated, she always calls me her homie, she has never called by my name, and when she met my guy friend she made sure that he knows I and she are plutonic friends. And again and again, when she felt like I might cross the boundary, she has indirectly tried to clarify that tone of our friendship should be plutonic. That's why I'm more inclined to move on and forget about her then telling her about my feelings. She complemented me for the way I treated her, she even said my partner will be very lucky but she doesn't consider her that lucky to have me.

[7Phoenix7]

Okay, well in that case it's probably best to move on... slowly distance yourself.

[Anonymous]

That goes to show guys and girls can’t be friends

[Nikki1989]

You are far too old to be like this.

[watare421]

you may be right, but everything doesn't happen in time for everyone, I just asked to understand and learn something hopefully :)